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Wrestle Not Against Flesh and Blood: Fight At His Feet

Wrestle Not Against Flesh and Blood

After a tumultuous day, my mom spoke words of wisdom to me.

She said, “When you argue with flesh and blood, you’ll lose every time.”  

For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. (Ephesians 6:12)

She said, “Jesus wants us to take time from all the business to sit at His feet.”

The Master said, “Martha, dear Martha, you’re fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing. One thing only is essential, and Mary has chosen it—it’s the main course, and won’t be taken from her.” (Luke 10:41-42, MSG)

That particular day, I had gotten an ‘F’ in both.

And, as I expressed the weariness I felt from trying to do right, and the guilt I felt from messing up, she reminded me that mercy and grace follow me (Psalm 23:6).

Then, she reminisced on the WWJD craze. And, with a chuckle, she said, “If you had asked yourself What Would Jesus Do, you would have responded differently.”

She was right.

How Are We Instructed to “Fight”?

Even when you get what you want out of an argument, the guilt of disobedience lingers. And, look at all the fires you started with your tongue in the process – and who did you hurt along the way?

Sometimes real strength is walking away, sitting at God’s feet and fighting in your prayer closet.

You know how sometimes you just want to be reckless? Just do something stupid? Well, I’ve learned that it feels good for about 5 seconds.

But, if you’re really His, the Holy Spirit gives you a gut punch and you quickly realize there was no reward in the disobedience.

You also realize that restraint, though it may look weak and though it may be difficult, comes with joy and peace. Why? Because you did what you knew was right. And, pleasing God is the BEST victory.

Sometimes, we just need a reminder that living for Christ is the only life worth living.

I learned my lesson that day.

So, what’s the play call?

When you find yourself tempted to act or fight according to your OWN will…

1. Find a friend who knows the Word. When I called my mom, I called the right person. She was going to comfort (and correct) me with the Word. Not with her opinions.

2. Give people a second chance when they respond poorly the first time. Her first response was a little bit whack, but she called back and I’m glad I laid my offense down and answered.

3. Just do it. If you have a hard time living by God’s Word, you just have to do it. I can admit that sometimes God’s instruction sounds a little like, “Yeah, right.” But, remember your flesh can’t understand spiritual things (1 Corinthians 2:14).

4. Grace and mercy follows you. You won’t always get it right, but that’s why there’s grace and mercy. Don’t linger in your mess-up. Go back and repent right away and never do that ever again.

 

Yes! I would like prayer. Please pray for me.

Overcoming the Impact of Divorce

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Divorce Happened, Now What?

In my last article, I talked about the things I wish I knew before I married and divorced. I spoke mainly from a proactive point of view, and I would like to now talk about the reactive side. If you are a divorced single parent, living for God, holding down the fort – YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I see you, and more importantly, God sees you!

It’s not easy leaving a relationship, especially a marriage, but sometimes it is necessary. I know it hurts, but perhaps you’ve made the first step toward God’s best and I am proud of you! I say this all the time – DISCERNMENT is key. Some of us are able to work things out and reconcile. Some of us decided to divorce for various reasons. Whatever the situation, God loves you and your ex-spouse, and the two of you will get through this.

The Effects of Divorce on the Whole Man

Physical Effects

When it comes to physical touch or proximity with others, dealing with the impact of divorce doesn’t always hit you right away. Depending on the person, some of us can be alone without being lonely, and if you have kids, you’re never alone anyway. At first, it’s nice having your space and not having to consult with another person on things. After a while, it gets old and if you don’t have a good support system (friends and family), you have to be careful to guard your heart and not allow the devil room to come in and tempt you.

If you fall to sexual immorality, don’t allow guilt and condemnation to rule over you (Romans 8:1). Repent and allow God’s grace in your heart. If you start down that path, it is a long road back. My advice is to be transparent with your leaders or someone you trust who is submitted to God and who can be an encouragement to you along the way.

Emotional Effects

Divorce is an emotional rollercoaster. There will be good days and bad days, which is to be expected. If you don’t control your emotions during this process, you will drive yourself crazy. If you can afford a therapist or have access to one through your company’s insurance, I highly recommend the guidance of a professional counselor.

I believe all emotions were given to help us experience the fullness of life and to express ourselves during the experience. But, we have to be careful not to allow our emotions to override what God said and what He is doing. Emotions change in every situation, but God remains the same (Malachi 3:6, Hebrews 13:8).

There is nothing wrong with feeling sad, but don’t let sadness change your perspective on God or make your heart bitter.

Give it to God and allow Him to heal you. God knows that some of the things He asks us to do hurt – He doesn’t expect you to act like it doesn’t. But, He wants you to take comfort in knowing that His will is what’s best for you. He wants you to trust that on the other side of obedience is greater peace, joy, and life!

Spiritual Effects

Spiritually, you may be fearful or ashamed before God. You may be feeling like you failed Him or ruined a blessing. I want to encourage you with this scripture, “Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” (Psalm 139:16)

Receive this Word in your heart and let go of the guilt! God loves you so much and while knowing all your flaws and sin before your body was formed, He prepared a Lamb of salvation.

God is the Restorer of Your Soul

coping with lossDon’t be discouraged! Some of us were never even supposed to marry the one we did and we are reaping the consequences of making that choice while fighting to get back to God’s original plan. Some of us now regret not allowing God time to heal the marriage. Whatever the situation, never doubt His perfect love for you which you could never mess up.

Whether you’re at the beginning of your divorce or have been divorced for years, it is a journey. Going from married to single isn’t easy, but God says His grace is sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9). Lean on His Word and cry out to Him for peace and comfort and He will supply your needs according to His riches and glory (Philippians 4:19).

I want to remind anyone who is struggling with an unreasonable ex to be strong and wait on the Lord, vengeance is His (Romans 12:19). I know it can be hard to not “get even”, it’s petty season, and everyone wants the last laugh, but don’t do it! Maintain your integrity and serve God. Your ex is either really hurt, acting out, or they’re just crazy. But, no matter what their motive, only God can change them.

If there are children involved, you may need a mediator, someone who would allow their home as a pickup/drop-off spot, and the two of you needn’t see each other at all. God will give you the wisdom to navigate this separation.

For anyone who has bravely left an abusive marriage or relationship, I love you and I am so godly proud of you! I truly thank God for you! Sometimes the Lord trusts us with tragedy so that we can teach others to overcome. Whatever your story, just remember the Author knew the end before the beginning. This is your time and you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!

So, What’s the Play Call?

Take things one day at a time and don’t rush your healing (Philippians 4:6).

Join a support group, go to counseling, or maybe start a blog! Whatever you do, allow yourself room for expression and connectivity with others who are in the same boat, or better yet, who have overcome the boat. It’s important that we embrace community during hard times and not fall for the trick of isolation.

Remember, God is not mad at you. He loves you dearly.

God Bless!

U.S. Supreme Court Rules in Favor of Christian Baker in Landmark Case

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Today, the landmark Supreme Court case involving Jack Phillips, the devout, Colorado Christian baker who refused to create a custom wedding cake for a same-sex couple in 2012, has been decided in Mr. Phillips’ favor.

According to Mr. Phillips in his opinion piece in the Washington Post, “It’s really quite simple: I serve everyone, but I can’t create custom cakes that express messages or celebrate events in conflict with my faith. That is why I told the gentlemen who are suing me that, even though I couldn’t design a custom cake to celebrate their same-sex marriage, I’d be happy to sell them anything else in my shop or create a cake for them for another occasion.”

A key part of the Supreme Court’s decision, “The government, consistent with the Constitution’s guarantee of free exercise, cannot impose regulations that are hostile to the religious beliefs of affected citizens and cannot act in a manner that passes judgment upon or presupposes the illegitimacy of religious beliefs and practices.”

Read the entire Supreme Court’s opinion here.

 

 

Mental Health in the Christian Community: A Chat with Brittney A. Moses

Hey, Team!

You know, it is God’s earnest desire that His children live abundant lives, prosper, and be in good health (John 10:10; 3 John 1:2). A huge part of an abundant and healthy life depends on our mental health. For when the mind is not well – when we are depressed, stressed, filled with anxiety or hurt – it directly affects our physical bodies and the environment around us. When we’re mentally distressed, it’s extremely difficult to live out God’s purpose and plan for our lives individually – and be an effective Team collectively.

We caught up with Faith and Mental Wellness champion, Brittney A. Moses, to chat about the importance of mental health in the Christian community, and learn more about her new mobile app, the Faith & Mental Wellness app.

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Brittney, tell us a little bit about your background and why the integration of Christian faith and mental health is so important to you.

brittney mosesHey guys! Well, right now I’m residing in California – born and raised in the Los Angeles area. I’ve been studying Clinical Psychology, which I found to be a passion of mine a few years ago after not only encountering mental illness in ministry, but also overcoming my own mental health challenges as a believer. I’d served with a couple churches as well as running my own non-profit ministry in 2012.

Over and over again – anxiety, depression, trauma, and suicidal rumination kept resurfacing among the young adults I’d walked with, and honestly, I felt helpless with what to practically do in these situations. So I began to educate myself more and more until it became so clear to me that this was a major need in the body of Christ and if anything, I needed to have a conversation about it.

This is what led to my blog, going back to school, my app, and really all the work I’ve been putting together around the integration of Faith and Mental Health. As I like to say, we are bio-psycho-spiritual beings. Our mind, body, and spirit are all playing a role in our wellbeing, and we need to view the individual holistically if we truly want to be effective in our ministries.

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How’d you come up with the idea for the Faith and Mental Wellness app, and what’s one of its most popular features?

When I first wanted to have an app developed, it was mainly for the notification feature that pops up on your phone. I thought it could be so helpful to have an inspiring message alert you in the grips of anxiety, depression, or a crisis and restore faith back to your spirit in the moments you need it most.

This was something I wish I had when I was experiencing anxiety and depression – a pick-me-up reminder. But of course with an app, you can include such a variety of content, I thought why not just put all my writings, podcasts, devotionals, worksheets, guides and community in one place? It really became a one-stop-shop for all things Faith & Mental Health and I’m so encouraged to see how much it’s grown.

In your experience, what recurring theme causes us as the body of Christ the most mental distress/depression/sadness?

Oh, there can be so many dynamics that play a role in depression and many of them are just a part of being human. The Bible talks about how the rain falls on the just and the unjust alike (Matthew 5:45), meaning no one is immune to the pitfalls of life. So, that’s the first thing I want to clarify. Being distressed or struggling with depression doesn’t mean you’re a “weak Christian”; it just means you’re human.

Many times we experience these bouts because there’s some form of loss that’s taken place in our lives – whether it be the loss of a relationship, financial distress, not meeting personal expectations, moving and losing community/friends, etc. Some aspects of mental health are genetic or greatly impacted by trauma, leaving some people more vulnerable to fall into depression. It really depends on the person, and as brothers and sisters in Christ, the best thing we can do is start by meeting them where they are and asking what’s going on rather than judging or making assumptions of a person’s character. 

What are your favorite “play calls” [scriptures] to help either fight mental distress or to maintain a healthy mind?

I’m so glad you asked! Here are a few that have helped myself and others in times of crisis:

  • In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. – 1 Peter 5:10
  • My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever. – Psalm 73:26
  • I will be your God throughout your lifetime – until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you. – Isaiah 46:4
  • Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later. –Romans 8:18

Sometimes we get so sucked into our current state that we lose sight of the bigger picture of what God is doing in our lives and I find that these verses help renew the mind.

Do you feel there’s a stigma in the Christian faith community to seek professional mental health or to talk about issues regarding mental health? If so, how can we overcome these stumbling blocks so the Team can find healing?

I think that as those in the church are becoming more aware of mental health issues, they’re seeking to understand the different dynamics at play. However, there’s definitely still some stigma, and when that arises, it’s mainly because of an imbalanced perspective or a lack of understanding about mental illness in general.

It’s very easy for us to see things as 100% a spiritual issue. Yes, a spiritual issue can be at play, but there are sometimes biological issues with neurochemical imbalances in the brain, an underactive thyroid can play a role in depression, psychological issues where things like trauma or genetics may have impacted someone’s mental framework is common. At the end of the day, we have to be humble enough to realize when we need more tools or need to refer to those who have the tools for a certain area of someone’s life.

We tend to understand this with physical health, but not as much with mental health. The best way to start overcoming that stigma is to begin educating ourselves and even just sitting with those who are struggling long enough to understand the space they’re in without pre-conceived judgments.

How can the Team support you in prayer or otherwise – any prayer requests, new initiatives, or upcoming events?

You guys are so thoughtful, thank you! Prayer is always appreciated and needed. I have quite a journey ahead with school and this is a heavy subject so continuously being renewed and refreshed by His Spirit is so necessary. I’m excited to announce that I just partnered with the YouVersion Bible App so my latest reading plan, The 7 Day Anxiety Detox, is up there for anyone who’s interested! Other than that, you can always catch me over at BrittneyAMoses.com to follow or support any of the work I’m doing over on the blog! Thanks, guys!

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Team, be sure to connect with Brittney and her excellent resources to keep your mental health in tip-top shape. If you’re looking for a community that supports mental health from a Christian viewpoint, consider Brittney’s Faith & Mental Wellness group on Facebook, or if you need to speak with a Christian mental health professional, consider our friends at My Christian Counselors, a service of Faithful Counseling.

Connect with Brittney Moses on:

Instagram: @BrittneyMoses

Twitter: @Brittney_Moses

Facebook: @BrittneyAMoses

iTunes Podcast: Faith & Mental Wellness with Brittney Moses

Blog: BrittneyAMoses.com

Download the Faith & Mental Wellness app:

Apple: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/f-mw/id1224099324?mt=8

Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.apolloengine.brittneymoses

Do You Prey On or Pray For Your Enemies?

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Today’s Scripture Lesson: Psalm 83

Please open your Bible or Bible app and read this psalm on your own, allowing the Holy Spirit to minister to you through His Word.

The 83rd Psalm is the final psalm attributed to the psalmist, Asaph. I must admit, I have grown quite fond of Asaph’s psalms and I’m a bit saddened to be moving forward knowing I won’t be encountering more of his writings. I’ve found his writings to be a challenge to my customary mindset and this final psalm of his is no exception.

As you can clearly read in the opening 5 verses, Asaph is praying to God about God’s enemies who are conspiring against His people, Israel. Asaph tells God that His enemies:

  • make an uproar
  • have exalted themselves
  • make shrewd plans against God’s people
  • conspire against God’s treasured ones
  • desire to wipe Israel out as a nation, wishing that Israel be remembered no more
  • have conspired together with one mind
  • have made covenant against God.

In the next three verses, Asaph names the tribes and nations who have joined the ranks of the enemies. And, after identifying them, Asaph begins to pray and raise a petition against their actions before God.

It is in this prayer that I become particularly challenged. While I hope you read this prayer in its entirety (verses 9-18), I will focus in on just a few verses which I would like to view through the lens Jesus provides in His Words from the sermon on the mount (Matthew 5).

To Love or Curse Your Enemies

worshipJesus proclaims, “You have heard that it was said, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” in Matthew 5:43-44.

It is such a simple, yet challenging, message, but doesn’t it stand in direct opposition to what Asaph’s psalm teaches? Asaph was praying for destruction and annihilation. He wanted God to “pursue” the enemy with His “tempest” and to “terrify” the enemy with His “storm.” He prayed that God’s enemies would be “humiliated” and “perish.”

Is this “pray for your enemies” thing that Jesus teaches actually for real?

For that matter, isn’t this a blatant contradiction between two places we claim to be the “inspired Word of God”? This doesn’t sound like “loving” and it doesn’t sound like he’s praying for anyone but himself.

How did the omnipotent, infallible God mess this one up?

The Truth in Contradiction

I don’t know about you, but I find myself weary of the standard “Old Testament vs. New Testament” argument in these situations. You know the argument, “Well, Jesus came to show us a new way and the Old Testament often shows you what it was like without Jesus.” And then we walk away until the next contradiction reveals itself. Yes, there is a little bit of truth to this argument, but maybe, if we lean into the Holy Spirit and allow Him to reveal Himself in these moments, we will find that He has as much to show us about the sinful natures we continue to cling to as He has to reveal about the glory and wonder of our beautiful Creator.

When approaching what appears to be a contradiction in Scripture, I have to step back for a moment and redefine what I am seeing. I choose to look at contradictions as contrast. One truly reveals the other. It’s sorta like walking into a room that is almost all blue, and then there is a bright orange vase prominently featured. The orange reveals just how blue the room really is, and the blue reveals just how orange the vase really is. Further, these contrasting colors, which are opposite one another on the color wheel, serve to complement one another. They reveal the subtleties in their complementary color.

I find the two most subtle moments in this 83rd Psalm to fall in verses 16 and 18. As 18 essentially reinforces 16, let’s zero in on verse 16:

Fill their faces with dishonor, that they may seek Your name, O LORD.”

Read that again through the lens of “loving your enemy” or better yet, “praying for those who persecute you.”

The beauty of this verse is the purpose Asaph reveals in praying this prayer about God’s enemy, Israel’s enemy, his enemy. He reveals the desire of his heart in this prayer, which is a reflection of the heart of God. The purpose behind Asaph’s prayer is so ”that they may seek” God’s name.

Now, granted, Asaph doesn’t really take anything off the table here, including that the enemy “perish.” Asaph reveals it can happen by any means necessary, but he ultimately wants the enemy to seek God’s name.

Asaph’s prayer isn’t revenge-minded, it is recognition- and repentance-minded.

Love for All Types of Enemies

restoring a fallen brotherI would be negligent if I failed to visit one point I see revealed in Matthew 5. I find it interesting that Jesus has two commands here. One command is to “love your enemy.” The other command is to “pray for those who persecute you.”

It seems that not all enemies persecute you. In fact, some of your enemies are not in a position to persecute you, rather, you’re possibly in the position to persecute them. What are you supposed to do when you have the power? Love them.

Some of your enemies are actually able and do persecute you. What are you commanded to do regarding your persecutor? Pray for them. What is the purpose of your prayer? Well, it may be in part self-preservation, and also in part that the persecutor may seek the name of God. But Jesus reveals one more thing about loving your enemies and praying for your persecutors.

The purpose is this, “so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.” (Matt 5:45)

Asaph named the enemy, but he didn’t exclude them from seeking the name of God.

I want to caution you not to mistake your mission field for an irredeemable enemy. Chances are good that many of the enemies of God are your close personal friends. In a physical sense, they neither seek to destroy you personally, nor do you seek their destruction. Love them. Pray for God to break down the strongholds and barriers keeping them from knowing Him and surrendering to His Lordship. If you have enemies who do seek your destruction and who persecute you, pray for them.

It’s also important to recognize the enemy is oftentimes an internal, habit-structure of thinking. It is time to identify these enemies as well. Though there are certainly more, John Piper gives us a number of names for the enemy in his book Future Grace: Anxiety, Pride, Misplaced Shame, Impatience, Covetousness, Bitterness, Despondency, and Lust. Oftentimes, these are enemies who persecute and ultimately destroy us, and they come from our very own flesh.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Surrender your thoughts and actions toward your enemy(ies) to God Almighty. Ask the Holy Spirit to lovingly reveal the answer to this last question: Do your prayers for your enemies reveal you as a son or daughter of God, reflecting the heart of your Father?

 

4 Stages of Preparation for God’s Call on Your Life

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Embrace the Process

God is all knowing and all powerful, but He created man to have free will. We make our own decisions and reap the consequences of them. A lot of times, the choices we make are not the best and have negative effects on our lives.

Why would God do that? Why would He allow us to make our own bad choices?

God allows us to mess up so that we would eventually see Him as holy and ourselves as the total opposite in need of Him. Acknowledging our wretchedness and our reliance on God is a crucial, constant step in the Christian walk.

In Isaiah 6, we see the process of the prophet’s commission. At which stage can you find yourself?

Stage 1: He saw God.

In the very first verse, Isaiah describes the grandeur and might of the Lord. He heard the shouts of glorious heavenly creatures crying out His holiness one to another. What a privilege it was for him to feel the roar of their voices in the temple. It shook him to his knees, and there…

Stage 2: He saw himself.

“‘Woe to me!’ I cried. ‘I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips…’” Isaiah 6:5

The opposition of Isaiah’s flesh to the holiness of God was overwhelming to him. He could not stand in the presence of God without seeing his own weakness. And, without this step, he could never be able to fulfill his calling in excellence and truth.

Stage 3: He was cleansed.

Immediately after Isaiah acknowledges his humanity, an angel touches a piece of coal to his mouth and says, “See, this has touched your lips; your guilt is taken away and sin atoned for.’” How incredible that God not only allows us to see our filth, but to be cleansed from it as well. That’s the whole point. Because once we are cleansed….

Stage 4: He was sent.

Verse 8 of the same chapter states that Isaiah heard the Lord asking who He should send, and Isaiah with a new burst of boldness said, “Here I am. Send me!”

The processes of God astound me. Because Isaiah had been made holy, just as his King was holy, he now had the confidence to walk out his purpose.

Follow God’s Plan

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There are other stories in the Bible and in modern day Christianity of people who have encountered this same process. I believe it’s a standard that God uses to determine and refine those who will be truly used by Him. I want to encourage you to embrace this process, even if it seems you’re stuck in Step 2, constantly reminded of how broken you are.

After it was revealed to Peter that Jesus was indeed the Christ, he denied Him THREE times. Even Peter had to go through the necessary stages to see his own self – weak and scared and unfaithful. You know what’s amazing about Peter is that his story doesn’t end there. He goes on to lead the first church and boldly declare the gospel of Jesus Christ.

So, What’s the Play Call?

If you’re in a season that seems to only reveal your insecurities and flaws, trust that God is there with you (Deuteronomy 31:8). Trust that this season, no matter how painful it may be, is a part of His master plan.  So stay ready and willing to grow – your purpose-driven season might arrive sooner than you think.

Why It’s Important to Do Life at the Speed of God

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Life Comes at You Fast. Let God Set the Pace.

I was in a rush. I needed to be there at 8:30 am. It was already after 8, and it would take me at least a half hour to get there.

Every time I exited my apartment, I would get to the car and realize that I had forgotten another something. My frustration grew, I hadn’t had my coffee or breakfast, and I was tired of the back and forth.

As I entered my home, oh… I don’t know – perhaps the 3rd or 4th time – I stopped and took a deep breath. With my eyes closed, I said, “God, I’m late, but I know that this is for a reason. I thank You that you are keeping me from something that could harm me.”

I finally got to my car without forgetting an item and I began to drive.

I came to an intersection, and as the light turned green, as I took off, a car sped around my right side to get in front of me. No sooner than this car slid in front of me, a pickup truck sped from the turning lane around my left side to do the same.

All I could do was honk my horn and yell, “Jesus!!!” As both cars almost collided in front of me, I realized that had I left a second sooner, I would have been in the middle of what could have been a terrible accident. One second sooner! That is all it would have taken for my life to be in danger.

Hurry Up and Wait… on God

speed of godThis brings me to my point… See, in our walk with God, we often get frustrated with the pace that things are going. You may follow my example above and get upset when you have to keep going back and forth between where you are and where you’re going.

What we do not realize is that our frustration can cause us to move too fast and that can be detrimental to our destiny. Just as my leaving home any earlier could have caused me to be involved in an accident, so can moving too fast spiritually.

God has a set time for everything in our lives, including our blessings, our calling, and our purpose. We have got to trust His timing.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 in our PlayBook tells us that everything has a specific time in which it should come to pass. In verse eleven, it says, “He hath made everything beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.” The verse said “his time”, not ours.

It is critical that we do not try to get ahead of God’s timing. Because He is already ahead of time, we will only set ourselves back.

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

It is imperative that you not leave your position – not even a second – sooner than God instructs you to. You could cause an “accident” and set yourself back or delay your blessing.

Also, understand that accelerating your speed will never zoom you beyond where God wants you to be and when. Here are a few things to help you “watch your speed”:

  1. Be patient. I’m sure I’ve said this one before in a previous article, but patience applies to so many areas of our lives. Patience is that one “friend” that you have a love/hate relationship with because you need them, but their presence annoys you. “But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.” James 1:4
  2. Rely on God. This is important because if we do not rely on Him, we will allow our own knowledge or that of others to cloud our sense of time. We must understand that giving others clearance to provide us the “time of day” will cause us to get caught in their traffic or operate outside of God’s “timezone”“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding.” Proverbs 3:5. “It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.” Psalms 118:8
  3. Know that God will not let you miss what is yours. Nope, He won’t. Even when it seems that everyone but you has gotten all their stuff. If He promised it to you, then you are guaranteed to receive it. “For all the promises of God in him are yea, and in him Amen, unto the glory of God by us.” 2 Corinthians 1:20
  4. Stop your worrying. Worrying only causes you to focus on negativity and leaves no room for the “bright side” of things. So, clear your head with some prayer and thanksgiving to God. “Be careful for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” Philippians 4:6

Remember to give thanks and take God ordained delays in stride. You never know what collision He is saving you from.

5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married and Divorced

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Things I Wish I Knew

One of the most crucial parts of being in a relationship is dealing with yourself.

Many of us are seeking relationships and looking for meaning and wholeness that can only be found in Christ. Taking time to find Him, and thus finding yourself, is imperative. The security we gain in a relationship with Christ is unmatched. Without it, we run the risk of draining people while trying to find it – especially our friends, family, and mates.

Marriage Reveals Who You Are and Who You’re Not

When you’re married and still dealing with unresolved issues in your spirit, it can be a very heavy burden on the relationship.

There were a lot of issues that I didn’t realize I had until after I married – which is very challenging and straining on a marriage. We didn’t have counseling, we were babes in Christ who didn’t want to “burn with lust”, so we married. I’m sure I pressured him.

All those things I had lived with my entire life surfaced when I had to share my life with another person. I had to learn a lot of things the hard way because I didn’t prepare for marriage during my pre-marital season. Not to say that we should expect perfection before marriage, but it’s important to have invested time for yourself and God before marriage.

When we have more time in the secret place with the Lord, He begins to speak to us about what we need to do to change and grow in Him. Psalm 32:8 says:

I will instruct you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you”.

Sure, married people still receive this promise, but those who are not yet married need to remember that you are more than a spouse. We are the righteousness of God (2 Corinthians 5:21). If you are having problems with this truth, check out my article “God told me I was an idolater”.

You Are Still Who You Are After “I Do”

We love to hear all the great things God has to say about us. “We are the head and not the tail, above and not beneath.” But, when God shows you who you are, it’s not always great, blessed, and pretty. Sometimes the truth of who we are can shock and embarrass us. But let me tell you – it’s better for God to show you who you are before marriage than for those issues to constantly surface in arguments with a spouse.

God shows us ourselves in a loving way – a way that we can accept and be moved to change. In life we will constantly evolve and grow, so the farther we get in our development before adding in things like spouses and kids, the easier the journey will be.

As someone who married young while fumbling through a relationship with Christ and then motherhood, I know how it feels to juggle life while dealing with personal development. It can be done, but if you are in a place where you can slow down and take more time out for you and God, do it!

If I Only Knew Then What I Know Now

Since my divorce, I have learned a lot of things I wish I knew before I was married. Here are a few:

  1. My life is not about me. Hard pill to swallow. God showed me that everything He created me to be is supposed to bless and help others. (Matthew 25:40; Acts 20:35)
  2. Walking away is not always a sign of strength. Sometimes it’s a sign of weakness. Discernment is key with this one. God wants us to unify and be one, but that’s impossible when we continue to walk away from difficult situations we have in our relationships. We have to know when to mend fences and not break covenant over petty disagreements.
  3. Keep God first. Whenever we fear, stress, or worry, it’s because we have taken our minds off things above and focused on what we see (Colossians 3:2; Philippians 4:9).
  4. Don’t rush your own process, and be patient with others in their process. We all grow at a different pace. We can’t compare ourselves to others – nor should we pressure anyone else to be where we are.
  5. Whatever you do, do it as unto the Lord.” (Colossians 3:23) Get used to taking the high road! Sometimes we have to forgive when they don’t acknowledge their faults. We’re called to love one another not to judge.

The point here is – make the most of each season! Life is too short to be focused on things you have no control over (yes, I know, it’s easier said than done).

Think about things you want to do. Ways you can better yourself. Take a class or volunteer. Don’t spend your singlehood sitting around waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right, swiping through Tinder matches. There’s nothing wrong with dating and courtship, but don’t forsake the time of preparation. None of us have “arrived” – there is always room for improvement. Let’s use this time wisely.

So, What’s the Play Call?

  • Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5) God cannot forget anything. He didn’t misplace your spouse. If you’re single, you’re supposed to be (for now). Make the most of it!
  • Don’t waste time! The Word says the ants have no king, but they gather their food in the harvest (Proverbs 6:6-8). Be productive, Teammates.
  • Work on healing anything in you that you have avoided until now. Behaviors and mindsets, even generational curses that possibly have hindered your ability to keep covenant or have meaningful relationships.
  • Always remember you can ask God for help. If you don’t know how to be single or make the most out of this time, ask God to show you how. Don’t get in the frame of mind where you try to fool God into “thinking” you’re ready for a relationship. God knows our heart, we cannot manipulate Him to get what we want.
  • Remember: You are more than someone’s future spouse. Get to know the rest of you!

Be blessed.

 

 

The Honor to Mirror the Character of God

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Today’s Scripture Lesson: Psalm 82

Please read this Psalm on your own and allow the Holy Spirit to minister to you through His Word.

As this Psalm is relatively short, we’ll address each verse because the message God has for His people through this psalmist, Asaph, is incredibly powerful and humbling.

Let’s look at the first two verses:

God takes His stand in His own congregation; He judges in the midst of the rulers. How long will you judge unjustly and show partiality to the wicked? (Ps 82:1-2; NASB)

Asaph’s words proclaim God as the Almighty, Sovereign Authority as He takes “His stand” in “His own congregation.” It’s a beautiful image to see God standing in the congregation,  in lieu of being seated on the Judge’s bench. He stands in the congregation as both prosecutor and judge, revealing Jehovah never forfeits His sovereignty.

In the second verse, God, the prosecutor, has examined the evidence and brings charges against the rulers/magistrates who judge His congregation. Furthermore, God, the judge, is fully aware of whom the wicked are among the people and that they’ve unfairly curried favor with the rulers/magistrates.

Moving forward, let’s look at the next two verses:

Vindicate the weak and fatherless; do justice to the afflicted and destitute. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them out of the hand of the wicked. (Ps. 82:3-4; NASB)

God gives direction to the judges. His direction is a call to repentance, but more so, it’s a call back to their covenantal responsibility to represent their heavenly Father in faithfulness to His identity.

In His direction to the judges, God tells them whom they were placed in their positions to serve. They were to serve the weak, the needy, the fatherless, the afflicted, and the destitute. He lets them know they have been given authority in order to fulfill the privilege of serving as deliverer, just as their Creator God is the Deliverer.

To give this a little more personal application, let me state it like this: God is telling His people to be His hands and feet, representing the mind and character of their God to those who cannot help themselves.

Verse 5

I’d like to break verse 5 down into three statements and then I want to offer you some Scripture which has served as a lens through which I’ve viewed this particular verse. I hope you will prayerfully allow these Scriptures to shape your understanding of this verse as well.

Statement 1: “They do not know nor do they understand…

In Jeremiah 9:24, the prophet quotes God saying, “let him who boasts boast of this, that he understands Me and knows Me, that I am the LORD who exercises lovingkindness, justice, and righteousness on earth; for I delight in these things.” (NASB)

When you view God’s Word offered by Asaph through the lens of God’s word in Jeremiah, you begin to more deeply understand God’s covenant call to His people to represent Him.

Over and over throughout the Old Testament, we see God call His people out for “profaning” His name. Profaning isn’t simply using curse words – where we say God’s name in vain. Cursing might be the tiniest tip of the “profane” iceberg.

If you do a word study on “profane”, you’ll find that the Hebrew word for profane has a much greater meaning. Profane can mean defile, pollute, violate, or use its fruits. These rulers whom God calls out here in Psalm 82 were enjoying the fruits which accompany a position of authority while simultaneously defiling the image of their Creator through misrepresentation. They failed to exercises lovingkindness, justice, and righteousness.

Statement 2: “…they walk about in darkness…”

In Proverbs 2:11-14, Solomon writes, “Discretion will guard you, understanding will watch over you, to deliver you from the way of evil, from the man who speaks perverse things; from those who leave the paths of uprightness to walk in the ways of darkness; who delight in doing evil and rejoice in the perversity of evil.

Also in Proverbs 4:19 Solomon writes, “The way of the wicked is as darkness; they know not at what they stumble.

In Psalm 11:2 David writes, “For, behold, the wicked bend the bow, they make ready their arrow upon the string to shoot in darkness at the upright in heart.

Walking in darkness is diametrically opposed to walking in the will of the Father. While God reveals that He delights in lovingkindness, justice, and righteousness, we learn in Proverbs that those who walk in darkness delight in doing evil and they rejoice in the perversity of evil. Not only were the rulers misrepresenting their Creator, they were serving and rejoicing in evil.

Statement 3: “… all the foundations of the earth are shaken…”

It is interesting to see this statement made immediately after a statement about walking in darkness. We just looked at the 2nd verse from David’s Psalm 11 where he writes about darkness. Let’s look at what follows immediately after in the 3rd verse of Psalm 11: “If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?” Whoa! That’s a heavy statement.

Let’s not lose hope, though, as Paul writes in 2 Timothy 2:19, “Nevertheless, the foundation of God stands sure…”

Isn’t it interesting that a shaky foundation is associated with darkness? Jesus, the Light of the World (John 8:12) is the Solid Rock (Matthew 7:24). He is our firm foundation. He came to reveal the heart of the Father. Several of the gospel Scriptures are dedicated to Jesus calling out the religious leaders of His day for their misrepresentation of God and abuse of their authority and privilege. The association of “knowing” and “understanding” along with the “foundation” should not be ignored – neither in regard to Scripture or in our walks with Christ. God desires to be known. He reveals Himself in order to be known and to be understood.

Let’s look at verses 6 and 7 together:

I said, ‘You are gods, and all of you are sons of the Most High. Nevertheless, you will die like men and fall like any one of the princes.’” (Ps 82:6-7; NASB)

Verse 6 is a very big statement – so big that Jesus quotes it in John 10:34. It is an easy verse to take out of context and we should seek to understand this statement. Without an understanding of covenant, that is nearly impossible. Fortunately, we’ve covered a good portion of that so far in this study. But, let’s also remember that we were created in God’s image. The Hebrew word here is “elohim” which is rooted in another word, “eloah.” Yes, Elohim is a Hebrew word for God. But, this can also be translated as rulers, judges, or magistrates; all of which are words we’ve been using throughout this study.

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Pride taken by the magistrates is misplaced. They placed their pride (boastfulness) in their position and title rather than who their Father is, the Most High. They succumbed to the fallacy of placing the creature over the Creator and ignoring His law and His character.

Death is always pending and will be the end result for each of us. This, regardless of the position we hold, should be the sobering thought which keeps us rooted in reality. It is easy to focus on how we’ll be remembered. Some seek power, some seek money, some seek influence, or any combination of the three. Scripture tells us to seek the righteousness of God. The rewards of this life are nothing in the eye of eternity. God is our portion and our reward.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Finally, Asaph offers these words:

Arise, O God, judge the earth! For it is You who possesses all the nations.”

We must recognize. Asaph recognized that God is Lord of all creation. Because of this recognition, he does not call on God to stand and judge only in Israel – He calls for God to arise and judge the earth. There is no one Sovereign over the Creator God Almighty.

If there is an area of your life where you are claiming sovereignty, pray that God will help you recognize, exercise faith, and surrender your perceived sovereignty to the only One who can legitimately stand in the congregation as both prosecutor and judge. Allow Him to shower His lovingkindness and righteousness upon you. It is in these things that God takes His delight.

Worship the Giver, not the Gifts

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We Were Made to Worship

Psalms 139:14-16 says:

worshipI will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made, marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the lowest part of the earth. Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed and in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them.”

One of the greatest attributes God has designed us with is our ability to praise. We are all unique, but some things we have in common. We have the capacity to think, reason, and feel.

So then, what happens when a person (who was fearfully and wonderfully made to praise) doesn’t know Whom or what is worthy of praise?

Misguided praise and worship is idolatry and it’s easier than you may think to slip into.

For Whom is Your Altar Built?

altarWe see people who are so obsessed with sports, clothes, and money. If we’re not careful to guard our hearts, we can lust after the things of this world and fall into idol worship.

We all know people so passionate about politics who will debate you for hours about policy and injustice. Sports fanatics who will yell, scream, and gamble on their favorite teams, but don’t give God the glory He deserves. Those who chase money while neglecting quality time with God and their families. Then, some who are pleasure seekers, chasing one empty thrill after another.

These aren’t necessarily bad people, they are doing what they were created to do. But, their passions and their praise is misdirected.

The other day I was scrolling through Facebook and saw an article about a “Beyoncé Mass” that took place in a San Francisco church. They wanted to showcase her music and somehow empower black women in the church.  Is the church the appropriate venue for this display?

In the book of Isaiah 56:7, God says His house shall be called the House of Prayer. Also, in John 12:32, the Lord says when He is lifted up He will draw all men. When I scrolled pass this, I dismissed the notion immediately (mentally imagining Jesus flipping over tables), but the Spirit whispered this to me. He said, “All humans are worshipers, but if you don’t know God, your flesh will still worship something.” It made perfect sense.

Lord, Re-align Our Misplaced Worship

Because we were made in God’s image, idolatry has the potential to be an easy pitfall for us. We were created to rule and reign in the earth, we’ve been given full dominion – yet we must completely submit to God.

We know in our minds that God is the Alpha and Omega and that He is King of Kings, but there are times when we just do our own thing; we somehow decide we’re okay running our own life.  Oftentimes, we don’t even realize it until we run into a problem and we cry out to Him. It’s like raising a kid who becomes rebellious during their teenage years only to later love and appreciate their parents’ guidance and wisdom.

These might be extreme cases, but if we overindulge in anything, we’re in danger of sin. God wants us to enjoy life with balance and moderation. We can live a life of passion and purpose without becoming idolaters.

Here are a few easy ways to tell if you may be misappropriating your worship:

  1. You’re always busy and it’s difficult to find time to spend with God. We all have responsibilities and hectic lives, but we must honor God above everything – nothing matters more.
  2. Your desires overpower wisdom and you tend to make impulsive decisions. We all want nice things, but we have to prioritize and remember that Jesus told us that life is about more than food, and the body is about more than clothes (Matthew 6:25).
  3. Your motives are always self-serving. Whatever you do (or don’t do) is for your own benefit and you rarely, if ever, consider doing things for others if there’s nothing in it for you.

We have to remember to keep everything in perspective. The people and things you give the most time to will reveal where your heart and values are.

Team, this requires ongoing self-examining. We’ve all gotten sidetracked before while living this amazing life. If it was unlikely to get caught up in this world, there wouldn’t be so many scriptures warning us not to.

Everything God made is wonderful and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying life, but we need to make sure we keep Him first and that we don’t begin to love the gift more than the Giver.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Love the Lord God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength (Luke 10:27).

Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all its righteousness, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).

Don’t allow the cares of this life to make the Word of God unfruitful in your life (Mark 4:19)

Be blessed!

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