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Justice Department Investigates Southern Baptist Convention Over Abuse

A federal investigation will look into the largest Protestant denomination’s response to abuse, following a bombshell report commissioned and released by the Southern Baptist Commission (SBC) in May.

The SBC Executive Committee confirmed on Friday that the Justice Department “has initiated an investigation into the Southern Baptist Convention, and that the investigation will include multiple SBC entities.”

The general counsel for the Executive Committee (EC)—which oversees day-to-day business for the convention and was the subject of the SBC’s own abuse investigation—said the EC has received a subpoena, but no individuals have been subpoenaed at this point.

The SBC and its entities have committed to cooperating with the investigation.

A statement signed by the presidents of each SBC entity and seminary referred to their involvement as part of their ongoing commitment to transparency and abuse reform.

“While we continue to grieve and lament past mistakes related to sexual abuse, current leaders across the SBC have demonstrated a firm conviction to address those issues of the past and are implementing measures to ensure they are never repeated in the future,” it read.

An independent investigation by Guidepost Solutions into the EC, released in May 2022, found that over the past 20 years, its leaders had compiled a secret list of more than 700 abusive pastors, mishandled allegations, and mistreated the victims who asked for help.

The investigation, which cost over $2 million, spanned 330 interviews and five terabytes of documents collected over eight months.

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Adam’s Aloneness Wasn’t Just His Singlehood

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The Bible points to a deeper truth—that it is not good for us to be isolated from community.

I’ve recently been working my way through the History Channel’s long-running TV series Alone.

For those unfamiliar with the premise of the show, ten contestants are separately dropped into very remote terrain where, with minimal resources, they are expected to survive for as long as possible—entirely alone.

There are no tribes. No well-practiced host. No ever-present camera crews. Each contestant is utterly and indefinitely alone.

If at any point it becomes too much, they can each tap out, no questions asked. Some quit because the elements—or the predators—are just too dangerous. Others because they are (quite literally) starving to death. Others because they are injured or sick. But many tap out because they simply can’t bear the soul-crushing solitude for another moment.

In a particularly poignant example from an early season, one contestant was equipped for the survival part of the challenge. They clearly had the skills and know-how to stay alive in the wilderness for some time.

But a few weeks in, they found themselves struggling with the overwhelming isolation. “I knew it was going to be hard being alone,” they said, “I guess I just didn’t know it was going to be this hard.”

In the end, the seclusion became too much, and they tapped out.

As they stood isolated, staring out at the water, waiting for the production crew to swoop in and extract them from the show, they put it very simply: “I am craving human companionship like it’s water .

As I watched the scene, I couldn’t help but be struck by the image of Adam by himself in the Garden of Eden. The words of Genesis 2:18 are very familiar to us today: “The Lord God said, ‘It …

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THIRTEEN LIVES: The Miracle Rescue That Kept Us Holding Our Breaths

THIRTEEN LIVES Movie: Behind the Scenes of Many Miracles

thirteen livesTHIRTEEN LIVES recounts the incredible true story of the tremendous global effort to rescue a Thai soccer team who become trapped in the Tham Luang cave network during an unexpected rainstorm. Faced with insurmountable odds, a team of the world’s most skilled and experienced divers — uniquely able to navigate the maze of flooded, narrow cave tunnels — join with Thai forces and more than 10,000 volunteers to attempt a harrowing rescue of the twelve boys and their coach. With impossibly high stakes and the entire world watching, the group embarks on their most challenging dive yet, showcasing the limitlessness of the human spirit in the process.

THIRTEEN LIVES reveals the hope, love, and determination of humanity, and just how miracles can happen when we give them permission to breathe. Travel back in time and remember where you were when the world frantically watched the news reports, when our imaginations wondered what was happening behind the scenes, when we all prayed for the safe return of the boys and their coach.

This film gives us permission to wonder no more. Watch and share, streaming on Amazon Prime August 5th!

 

Easter Sunday Movie: Bringing Laughter & Healing to Families August 5th

Jo Koy’s “Easter Sunday” is the Family Movie You Didn’t Know Your Family Needed


 

We all have experienced the comedy “coin”. On one side, comedy is a mirror; it shows us our own shenanigans, which is why we laugh so hard, right? On the flip side, comedy is medicine. That good ol’, belly-busting laughter heals, mends, and takes the heavy weight off of this mad-complicated thing called family.

In stand-up comedy sensation JO KOY’S new film, Easter Sunday, be prepared to flip the coin and win all of the laughter and healing you need.

About Easter Sunday Movie

Jo Koy (Jo Koy: In His Elements, Jo Koy: Comin’ in Hot | Netflix) stars as a man returning home for an Easter Sunday celebration with his riotous, bickering, eating, drinking, laughing, loving family in this love letter to his Filipino-American community.

Easter Sunday features an all-star comedic cast that includes JIMMY O. YANG (Silicon Valley series), TIA CARRERE (True Lies, Wayne’s World films), BRANDON WARDELL (Curb Your Enthusiasm series), Tony nominee and Grammy Award winner EVA NOBLEZADA (Broadway’s Hadestown), LYDIA GASTON (Broadway’s The King and I), ASIF ALI (WandaVision), RODNEY TO (Parks and Recreation series), EUGENE CORDERO (The Good Place), JAY CHANDRASEKHAR (Super Troopers series), TIFFANY HADDISH (Girl’s Trip), and LOU DIAMOND PHILLIPS (Courage Under Fire).

Jo Koy and Lydia Gaston graciously stopped by The Live and Learn Show to chat about the film’s superpower of laughter and joy, and its ability to reflect every family regardless of race, creed, or background.

Check out Easter Sunday movie in theaters everywhere on August 5th, 2022!

Have Your Issues Become an Idol? Here are 5 Ways to Tell.

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Invisible Idols

idolatryMany times when we hear the word “idol” we think about people or tangible things in our lives. Perhaps we’re intentionally or unintentionally “bowing” to the fame, power, or influence of another person. Or, maybe we’ve amassed wealth and fortune like the rich young ruler (Matthew 19:21) and our “stuff” has a grip on our focus and reverence.

I’d like to offer, teammates, that there are some idols in our lives that we can’t see or touch. These idols have nothing to do with people or stuff per se – but everything to do with us, our thoughts, even our identity.

Did you know that we can make idols out of attention or sympathy? Do we compromise the gospel for the sake of the approval of others?

Now, think about this – do we forego healing and deliverance from our issues because we so crave the attention, prayers, or empathy of others?

Our issues can easily become idols, especially issues that we’ve been dealing with for a long period of time. Unaddressed, un-healed issues have a way of trying to weave their themselves into our identity – what we’re known for. “You know Tina, the one who suffers from depression.” “You know John, he needs extra help because of his condition.”

Is What You’re Known for Keeping You From Becoming Greater?

What issue(s) do your family and friends know YOU for?

What infirmity or stronghold has attached itself to your identity?

Instead of being known for God’s healing, redemptive, and restorative power, many in the body of Christ willingly wear the labels of their infirmities – and God wants to change that! Why?

Because at the root of idolatry is insatiable greed for something outside of God (Colossians 3:5).

It’s like a slap in the face of the Almighty, All-powerful God – Jehovah Jireh – who desires to supply us with every good and perfect gift we could ever need (Matthew 7:11, James 1:17).

It’s time to stop submitting to our issues, and submit our healing and deliverance to the hands of a more than capable, loving Father.

The Issue Idols Test

How do you know if you’ve been worshipping your issues, bowing to them upon command? Examine yourselves with the self-test below:

1. You resist any effort or suggestion that the issue IS an issue.

Have your loved ones been trying to tell you that your habit or lifestyle is hurting you? Is it more comfortable to let the idol remain invisible than to do the work of acknowledging and addressing it? Do you often give yourself an excuse or justification for your behavior? This is resistance in the wrong direction, Team! Don’t resist the loving conviction of the Holy Spirit, who’s trying to lead you into Truth. Truth makes us free (John 8:32), the lies we receive and the lies we tell ourselves will only keep us in bondage.

2. Your issues are given consideration for future events that haven’t happened yet.

Do you forego opportunities or the possibility of success because you’re afraid that your issue will show up? Some of our issues are not only idols, but they’re monsters that keep us living in fear, far beneath the privileges of sons and daughters of God. Our God is greater, teammates! Bow no more to the spirit of fear, and reject every thought that exalts your issue above the mighty hand of God (2 Corinthians 10:5).

3. There’s an expectation for people to respect your issue versus offer help.

What sounds better to your spirit – the voice that leads you to break free from your issues, or silent inaction that accepts your issues the way they are? We often protect our issue idols from any suggestions or guidance that will lead to their demise through healing. When we expect those who love us to leave us as they found us, the idolatry of our heart is clearly evident.

4. More meditation time is spent on your issues than meditating on the Word of God or prayer.

We’ve talked about it before – worry is a form of meditation. Do you find yourself worrying about the issues of your heart more than spending time reading the Bible or in prayer about those issues? Are you sowing more time and energy into your issues than to fasting and praying? If yes, then your issues are being magnified above the One who is mighty to save you from their grip (Isaiah 63:1).

5. Your issues have become synonymous with your identity.

As shared above, what could you be if you weren’t known for “X” issue? Are you afraid that your identity has been cemented in the minds of others – so why fight it? God has a very distinct plan and purpose for your life – that does not include you succumbing to the hopeless condition of your issue. Your name is synonymous with victory, and Victory will not share the stage with fear and defeat. It’s time for a new name, teammates!

So, What’s the Play Call?

Allow me to redirect this entire article to say – own no issues!

I know I’ve repeated “your issues” throughout, but the time has come to change your vocabulary! Delete “my” from in front of those things that try to bind you and keep you living in fear and insecurity. You don’t own depression, so stop saying, “my depression”. You don’t own anxiety, so stop saying, “my anxiety”.

Here’s an alternative, say:
The [depression, sickness, anxiety, issue] that God is healing/delivering me from.

There is always room to speak the language of faith – even before you’re 100% whole.

May God heal and deliver us all from our issues, and I pray we all have the willingness of heart to let those issues go.

Our worship and reverence belong to God, not the issues God is delivering us from.

2022 Stellar Awards Winners: The Greatest Night in Gospel Music

Pastor Mike Jr., CeCe Winans, Jonathan McReynolds and Mali Music among top honorees during the Greatest Night in Gospel Music

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The Stellar Gospel Music Awards celebrated its 37th year honoring excellence in Gospel music during an uplifting weekend of events, concluding with the live-taped ceremony on Saturday, July 16, at Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre in Atlanta, Georgia. Hosted by Stellar Award-winning artists Jekalyn Carr and Kierra Sheard, this year’s celebration will premiere Sunday, August 7 at 8 PM ET/PT on BET, BET Her, and BET International and will be syndicated in various local markets across the country between August 13 and September 11, 2022.

Pastor Mike, Jr. leads the list of winners with a total of six Stellar Awards, including Artist of the Year, Male Artist of the Year, Contemporary Male Artist of the Year, Contemporary Album of the Year, and Urban/Inspirational Single or Performance of the Year, as well as Album of the Year for I Got It: Single’s Ministry Vol. 1. CeCe Winans won three Stellar Awards, including Producer of the Year, Praise and Worship Album of the Year, and Praise and Worship Song of the Year, all tied to the album Believe For It. Jonathan McReynolds and Mali Music received three awards for their collaboration, Jonny x Mali: Live in L.A. EP, including Duo/Chorus Group of the Year, Contemporary Duo/Chorus Group of the Year, and Special Event Album of the Year.

Other notable winners during the 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards include Ricky Dillard, who received three Stellar Awards, in addition to the James Cleveland Lifetime Achievement Award Presented by Toyota in recognition of his contributions to Gospel music as a renowned choir leader and recording artist. Tamela Mann received two Stellar Awards. Four-time nominee E. Dewey Smith was named Best New Artist for his 2021 album God Period.

The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards premieres Sunday, August 7 at 8 PM ET/PT on BET, BET Her, and BET International

The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards features showstopping performances by Kirk Franklin, Erica Campbell, Maverick City Music, Marvin Sapp, Tye Tribbett, Le’Andria Johnson, Koryn Hawthorne, Brian Courtney Wilson, Jor’Dan Armstrong, Doe, Rudy Currence, Chrisette Michele, Darrel Walls, James Fortune and more.

The Stellar Gospel Music Awards also bestows special honors to industry titans who continue creating a legacy of excellence that reaches and influences the masses, both within and outside of the Gospel genre. Six-time GRAMMY® Award-winning hitmaker and producer Aaron Lindsey received the Aretha Franklin Icon Award Presented by Aflac. Candi Staton also received the Ambassador Dr. Bobby Jones Legends Award, an honor that reflects her career of nearly seven decades as a music pioneer and a captivating Gospel music artist.

Top nominees for this year’s ceremony included CeCe Winans, who led the field with nine nominations, followed by Pastor Mike, Jr., who received eight nominations. Tamela Mann, Jonathan McReynolds & Mali Music, and Todd Dulaney all received six nominations. Kelontae Gavin received five nominations. Maverick City Music, Israel Houghton, Ricky Dillard, E. Dewey Smith, and Jason Clayborn received four nominations each.

The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards is proud to be presented this year by AT&T Dream in Black. This year’s sponsors also include Procter & Gamble (P&G), Walmart, State Farm, Toyota, McDonald’s – Black & Positively Golden, and Aflac. The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards is also proud to partner with St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

For additional updates, follow The Stellar Awards on social media — @thestellars on Instagram and Twitter, and Stellar Gospel Music Awards on Facebook — and check out the Stellar Awards website. The hashtag for the show is #StellarAwards.

About the Stellar Awards

The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards show is Executive Produced by Don Jackson, with Jennifer J. Jackson serving as Executive in Charge of Production and Producer. Michael A. Johnson will produce and direct this year’s award show. The Stellar Awards recognizes the year’s best performances in the Gospel music genre, honors Gospel music icons, and acknowledges the accomplishments of individuals instrumental in advocating for the Gospel music industry.

About Central City Productions (CCP)

Founded in 1970 by Don Jackson, Chicago-based Central City Productions, Inc. is a national broadcast television producer and syndicator of its exclusively owned African American programming. Celebrating over 50 years of broadcasting Black excellence with uplifting and entertaining original television content, CCP’s award-winning television programs include the Black Music Honors (www.blackmusichonors.com), Stellar Tribute to the Holidays, Black College Quiz Show Series (www.blackcollegequiz.com), America’s Black Forum (www.americasblackforum.com), Mentoring Queens (www.mentoringqueen.com) and Mentoring Kings (www.mentoringking.com), among many others. For more information, visit www.stellartv.com.

About BET

BET, a unit of Paramount (NASDAQ: PARAA; PARA; PARAP), is the nation’s leading provider of quality entertainment, music, news and public affairs television programming for the African American audience. The primary BET channel is in 125 million households and can be seen in the United States, Canada, the Caribbean, the United Kingdom, sub-Saharan Africa and France. BET is the dominant African-American consumer brand with a diverse group of business extensions including BET+, the preeminent streaming service for the Black audience; BET.com, a leading Internet destination for Black entertainment, music, culture, and news; BET HER, a 24-hour entertainment network targeting the African American Woman; BET Music Networks – BET Jams, BET Soul and BET Gospel; BET Home Entertainment; BET Live, a growing BET festival business; BET Mobile, which provides ringtones, games and video content for wireless devices; and BET International, which operates BET around the globe.

Moving On When You Want to Stay Where You Don’t Belong

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workplace sabotageI had a part-time job, along with my full time. I’d worked there for a little over two years when the pandemic began. Like most jobs, my hours were cut and with it already being part-time, you can imagine what it looked like at that point. I stayed until the beginning of this year and decided that I couldn’t make it work. It was costing me more to go to work than I was actually making and I was getting used to working solely from home.

I put in my notice, trained my replacement, and the rest is still in the building where my desk was. Once I left for good, my manager mailed me my last check and we texted our “how are you’s” and “goodbyes”.

The other day, she sent me a text message letting me know that I’d left some photos on my desk and that she would be mailing them to me. Honestly, I had forgotten about them, as it’s been so long since I was in the building, but I’ll be glad to have them back.

Now, it was my choice to leave the job, knowing that it no longer served me. That was the important part, for me to realize and accept that it no longer served the purpose it once did in my life. I enjoyed my job, the work I did there was necessary and I felt accomplished until I didn’t.

One day I realized that by the time I drove to work and home, I was on the road longer than I was sitting at my desk. It was time for me to go and give someone else space to do the work. And those photos, I did not remember the “memories” that I left behind until I was reminded. 

Moving On Towards the Promise

This definitely isn’t about me leaving my job, don’t worry. This is about accepting when it’s time to move on. Sometimes we stay in places that no longer fit within the realm of our purpose. This causes us to go out of our way to stay inside of a place that it is time for us to be out of. You may not be unhappy where you are, that’s not always the case. I was completely happy, but yet, out of place. And about those memories – sometimes you have no recollection of them until you are reminded. That is not an indication to go running back, and sometimes, you have got to be willing to deny the mail “reminders”.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I know that it can be difficult to let go of a “good thing”, but remember our good God will not let you be unfulfilled in your call. Here are a few things to remember when you want to stay where you don’t belong:

  1. Remember Lot’s wife. Yes, she held on tight and in the end, it destroyed her. Now, you most likely won’t turn into a pillar of salt, but spiritually and emotionally, it can destroy you. “But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.” Genesis 19:26
  2. Remember the big picture. Even if you haven’t seen it yet, know that if God is pulling you away from a place, it is so that His bigger thoughts for you can be fulfilled. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8-9
  3. Remember God’s promises. Ultimately, I understand that had I stayed where I was, I could not become ready to receive the fulfilled promises that God has for me. Take time to remember what God promised you, it’ll make it a smidge easier to move on from where you do not belong. “And so, after he had patiently endured, he obtained the promise.” Hebrews 6:15
  4. Remember to pray. Prayer is communication with God. Let him in your decision-making process, pray and discuss it with Him. He will help you let go of the place and those mail-in memories. “Pray without ceasing.” 1 Thessalonians 5:17

I just want you to remember that you can move on from that “office” and leave the memories behind. Allow God to lead you. 

Stellar TV to Launch as “Home of Gospel Music Entertainment”

Stellar TV’s Launch Announced During the 37th Annual Stellar Gospel Music Awards in Atlanta, Georgia, July 15 and 16.

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Central City Productions announces the launch of the Stellar TV network, set to premiere in fourth quarter of 2022. The Stellar TV network is a wholly owned subsidiary of Central City Productions, Inc., the oldest Black-owned and operated television production company in the country. Central City Productions has been in operation since 1970 and remains dedicated to creating Black excellence in television programming.

Central City Productions is the creator of the Stellar Gospel Music Awards, the longest-airing Black ad-supported awards show on television featuring the best in Gospel Music, plus a multitude of other uplifting and original television programs such as Black Music Honors, Black College Quiz, America’s Black Forum, Mentoring Kings, Mentoring Queens, Family Night, and many others. The network’s owned and operated library of 50 years is primed with more than 5,000 hours of family-friendly entertainment.

stellar tvThe Stellar TV launch will be hosted by Marc Morial, President and CEO of the National Urban League, the nation’s largest historic civil rights and urban advocacy organization. Marc Morial is also a leading advocate for the growth of Black-owned television networks and a leading voice on the national stage in the battle for jobs, education, housing, and voting rights equity. The formal announcement will take place on July 15, during an invitation-only press announcement event during the Stellar Gospel Music Awards weekend of taping in Atlanta, Georgia.

“Now more than ever, Black audiences want to see themselves reflected in what they watch on television, including programs that are safe for the entire family. We are excited about our early engagement and commitments with our charter media partners, who include Procter & Gamble, Walmart, Verizon, Toyota, State Farm, AT&T, General Motors, Dentsu/Carat, Publicis Media, Hearts and Science, and Nielsen Audience Measurement; along with our distribution carriage partners Charter Communications, Verizon FIOs, XUMO, and STIRR TV, who are walking the talk as they do business with Black-owned networks to reach Black consumers,” said Don Jackson, Chairman and CEO of Central City Productions and founder of the Stellar TV network. “With the launch of Stellar TV, Black America and others have another avenue to witness positive, uplifting and multifaceted representation of our culture, our voice and our music.”

According to a February 2022 diverse-owned media report from Nielsen, Black families are accessing more content than ever, and are leaning into programming where they can feel seen and represented. Black-owned media networks are more than two-and-half times more likely to attract Black audiences, underscoring the value of programs created for and by the community, both to audiences themselves and to advertisers and marketers.

Upon launch, Stellar TV programming components will include exclusive original content from Stellar TV’s library, plus its annual and quarterly flagship specials, along with new premiere content. In addition, Stellar TV’s charter partner, Procter & Gamble’s Chief Brand Officer Marc Pritchard, will be the keynote speaker at Stellar TV network’s press announcement and will highlight P&G’s “Widen The Screen” Black creative producers initiative, which will air on Stellar TV.

Stellar TV is also an active member of Publicis Media’s Once & For All Coalition, which is a cross-industry consortium that aims to break down industry barriers to equitable representation and financial opportunity for diverse-owned media suppliers.

Distribution carriage partners as of this press release include: Charter Communications, a leading cable operator serving more than 32 million customers in 41 states through its Spectrum brand, which is set to premiere the Stellar TV network during the fourth quarter of 2022; Verizon FIOS, a television service operating over a fiber optical network that covers roughly 11% of the U.S. population; XUMO, a free ad-supported streaming service that offers over 200 channels of premium programming; and STIRR TV, an ad-supported video streaming service owned by Sinclair Broadcast Group.

The Stellar TV network is also committed to building the next generation of television production professionals. Stellar TV is committed to providing Black and Brown students in film and television programs at community colleges in urban cities with hands-on production training, shadowing, mentorship, internships, and employment opportunities in Stellar TV productions.

Media interested in covering the Stellar TV network launch or attending the announcement event can contact StellarsPR@explorefcg.com.

FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT: WWW.CCPTV.COM AND WWW.STELLARTV.COM

About Central City Productions (CCP)

Founded in 1970 by Don Jackson, Chicago-based Central City Productions, Inc. is a national broadcast television producer and syndicator of its exclusively owned African American programming. Celebrating over 50 years of broadcasting Black excellence with uplifting and entertaining original television content, CCP’s award-winning television programs include the Black Music Honors (www.blackmusichonors.com), Stellar Tribute to the Holidays, Black College Quiz Show Series (www.blackcollegequiz.com), America’s Black Forum (www.americasblackforum.com), Mentoring Queens (www.mentoringqueen.com) and Mentoring Kings (www.mentoringking.com), among many others. For more information, visit www.stellartv.com.

Comfort for Parents Through the Lens of Ecclesiastes

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At a recent parenting forum on children and technology at my church, I offered a discreetly told example of failure from my years of parenting teenagers. Even in the retelling, I could feel the knot of panic in my stomach the same as when the events were playing out in real time.

Nothing stirs fear in us quite like when our responsibilities as parents intersect with the tough realities of our world. And parents today face their share of legitimate fears.

Between social media, shifting sexual ethics, sex abuse scandals, pandemics, pornography, and all of the usual challenges of raising kids, the consensus is clear: Parenting today is hard. Christian parents are afraid, perhaps more than I’ve seen in my 25 years in ministry.

We want to protect children from temptation and negative influence, but the task feels insurmountable. We can feel powerless, asked to sail through uncharted waters with monsters left and right. But in the middle of my parenting fears, the Lord brought to mind timeless help to serve as a compass: He reminded me about what does not change.

Did my children face unprecedented challenges with technology and social pressures? In one sense, yes. But on closer observation, these were old challenges with new wrappings. The Book of Ecclesiastes goes to great lengths to drive home the point that there is nothing new under the sun.

I had always regarded this message to be a bit of a downer, but in tumultuous times, it emerged as the stabilizing force I needed. These challenges were not unprecedented. These waters were not uncharted. The eternal God looks down on this generation and sees no new problems. Not only that, he stands ready, as he always does, to be faithful to this generation and all generations.

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The Comparison Game: And the Winners Are…

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Are You Trending?

We live in a very technologically-driven society where social media is a steady and constant factor in our lives. We spend so much time every day on our phones, and on our computers posting statuses, tweeting and retweeting, and scrolling up and down on our timelines. At one click of a mouse or one swipe up, we are constantly exposed to everything and everybody and engaged in the most trivial to the most important details or snapshots of the person’s lives for the people we follow online.

bible and social mediaHowever, we are only seeing what they want us to see. We are seeing a condensed highlight reel (if you will) of their lives that reflects the good moments, the highs, and the mountaintop experiences. Rarely do we see the valley experiences, the lows, or the dry places of a person’s life on social media. Generally, no one wants to talk about that or show that to the world.

Often, we can find ourselves, comparing our lives to those we follow on social media, especially in our low, vulnerable, or insecure moments. We compare our miserable jobs to their amazing career. We compare their fabulous houses to our modest one-bedroom apartment. We compare our spouses, children, bodies, families, and everything else in our lives that we may be concerned about or having difficulties with at that moment, to someone else’s condensed highlight reel on social media.

Bow Out of the Comparison Game

It’s a very dangerous game to play, and one that God would not desire for us as Christians to participate in. The winners of the comparison game are those who don’t play at all. Instead of comparing our lives to others, the only person to whom we should compare ourselves is Jesus. The apostle Paul encourages us in 1 Corinthians 11:1 that we are to be “imitators of Christ”.

As Christians, Jesus is our standard. He is our role model. Our lives should be compared to His – not “theirs”. In 1 John 2:6 NLT, it states that “Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did.” Therefore, we should constantly strive to be more like Jesus, and not like anyone else.

No matter how great someone else’s life appears to be, God thinks that you are great, too! He created you on purpose for a purpose. He was intentional in creating you because He knew that the world needed a “you”.

No, you aren’t perfect, and your life isn’t perfect, but God doesn’t expect you to be. If everything was always perfect for you and your life, you wouldn’t need Him. Know that it is okay to be perfectly imperfect and a work in progress.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Break loose and be free of the comparison game. Embrace yourself. Embrace the “you” who God created you to be. Be authentic, be bold, be unashamed to be you…and no one else.

 

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