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Can Others Around You Change Without Reminders of Their Past?

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Letting All Things Become New

I was on my way to work and I drove past a Dollar General, nothing abnormal about that. There was just something that wasn’t quite right about this particular Dollar General; it didn’t look the way most of them do. Something changed.

I glanced again before the light turned green and realized what the issue was – it looked like a Walgreens. Yep, you could tell that the building had previously been a Walgreens and now, it was something new. Funny how recycled stuff still carries the look of what it once was.

Now, initially, I wasn’t willing to accept this Dollar General as it is (funny, I know). Nope, I was disappointed that when I saw it, I saw Walgreens and not what it had become. I had half the mind to stop, go inside, and roam the aisles to see if I got that Walgreens feel or Dollar General feel. Then, the thought hit me: this is how we, as people of God, treat people of God.

I’m Not the Same Creature

Way too often, we look at fellow teammates and all we see is who they were, what they’ve been delivered from, who we grew up with – and we never really accept them for who they’ve become or are growing into. We even go as far as to do research and “walk the aisles” of their new life to see if they are really who they appear to be. There is that nagging tendency to remind people of their former self. “Girl, I remember when you used to…” “Aye man, remember when we used to…?”

The problem with this is that our Playbook says in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things become new.” So, why do we hold on to other folk’s “old things”.

When we don’t allow others the chance to grow beyond who they were, we are keeping them in a place that God has released them from – we’re not letting those old things pass away. Who are we to hold anyone hostage to their past when we have a past of our own that we’ve stuffed in a closet? Just as we are to strive to live by Romans 12:2, we cannot forget that others are doing the same. “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is the good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”

So, What’s The Play Call?

Sadly, it seems tough to do the right thing sometimes. But, not because God isn’t present to help, and not because He hasn’t provided us with the grace to move beyond where we were. Often it’s because those who should be there to pray and support are continuously reminding others of how unsaved they used to be. So, how do we get past that “Walgreens Syndrome“? Here are a few reminders that will hopefully help:

  1. Allow others to do as our Playbook says, and “throw off” their old ways. We must be encouragers for one another, not discouragers. Ephesians 4:22-24 (New Living Translation) “throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.”
  2. Help your brothers and sisters to be free of their past, not hold it over their heads. It is scary when the only thing associating a child of God to their past is another child of God. Let’s celebrate each others’ newness and help each other stay “new”. Don’t join the enemy’s club – Team Accusers of the Brethren (Revelation 12:10). “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,” Hebrews 12:1
  3. Be willing to uplift one another. “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such a one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.” Galatians 6:1
  4. Remember that we have all fallen and we are not perfect. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;” Romans 3:23

Tremaine Hawkins sang about the “Wonderful Change” that God brings. Don’t allow yourself to condemn others and forget that you’ve experienced that same change. Never forget that God is the Deliverer of all and no matter what someone’s past looked like, their future is bright in Him.

My Declaration of Dependence

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I remember it like it was yesterday.

I declared my independence.

The decision was final, and well within my power to do so, since I sat (out of place) as both judge and jury. I rejected hearing any eyewitness testimonies and overruled all presentations of evidence proving His innocence. I denied His unconditional love for me, since in my omniscience, love would not have allowed what was allowed. Not according to my definition of love, which was law.

Because God let me down, because He did not operate how and when I thought He should, I thought I could do no worse independent of Him.

And just when I thought, like Job (Job 30:20-21), that I had the right to indict God, to sit in a place of righteous indignation and bring an accusation against the Creator of the Universe (Job 40:2) – I realized that I could not answer God:

  • Where was I when God laid the foundations of the earth and its measurements (Job 38:4-5)?
  • Do the hawks take flight by my wisdom, or the eagles soar at my command (Job 39:26-27)?
  • Do I have arms like God; can my voice thunder like His (Job 40:9)?
  • Can I bring a claim against God when He owns everything in heaven and under heaven (Job 41:11)?

I Forgive You, God

Ever been in a perceived place of forgiving God? A place where you know you were (or are) mad at Him. You run to your room like a child and scream into your pillow all the things you wish you could say out loud, but can’t. And then you realize – you’ve got it all wrong.

I stand corrected, O Lord. Surely I spoke of things I didn’t understand – things too wonderful for me to know (Job 42:3).

Ever needed a change of heart, where you resolve to hold God harmless and blameless for the things that have happened?

You release the anger and make that decision to re-submit to His will. You know that no court in the heavens, on Earth, or beneath the Earth could ever find Him guilty of not loving you – guilty of not acting in your best interest – guilty of planning harm to come to you (Jeremiah 29:11).

Funny how only my Beloved Accused could free me from the thoughts that held me hostage. Only Jesus Christ could pay the high ransom on my head, and design my utterly genius escape route from myself, from my independence.

So, what’s the play call?

This month, as the United States celebrates its independence, let’s rejoice and celebrate our declaration of DEpendence on God.

Declare it! “God, I need You!” Put it out there for all to see.

I need You in my life, God! Every beat of my heart totally depends on You. You have been nothing but a consistent, loving source of everything I need, I am, and will ever be. Our freedom means nothing without Your love and sacrifice.

We appreciate You, God, and we place our trust in You. And, like a child hanging from Daddy’s neck, Your arms will never let us fall.

Team, tell us about a time YOUR independence from God shifted to dependence on God.

The Relationship Template Designed by God

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Let’s Talk About Relationships

Ezekiel 11:19-20 says, “I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove the heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people and I will be their God.”

God was talking to Ezekiel about reconciling us back to Himself through Christ and sending His Spirit to dwell inside us. He determined to redeem us and bring us into relationship with Him. We tend to make the things of God so deep, but His whole objective is relationship!

God can do all things, so I imagine He could have saved us in other ways – but He sent His only Son to die for us. Jesus spent 3 years in ministry – breaking bread with the people, teaching them, and giving them a template for all relationships.

Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen” (1 John 4:20).

In my last article about selfishness, I talked about how it’s impossible to properly relate to others when you don’t have a relationship with God. Here, John is saying the same thing. It’s so ironic that we often go to God seeking comfort or refuge from people who hurt us, and even when they are completely in the wrong, He requires us to forgive in order to heal.

We can learn so much from the lengths God went to have a relationship with us. He didn’t owe us anything and yet He gave!

Love Like Christ

loveAre we following this example in our relationships? So many of us are unwilling to be kind or giving toward people who don’t (or cant) reciprocate. Team, that is not godly. Luke 6:33 says, “If you only do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that”.  Showing people love and generosity – especially to those who haven’t been so nice to us – shows the authentic love of God. Let’s take the grace and mercy God gave us and pay it forward.

All of this is easier said than done – I understand that, so does our Lord. That’s why He sent His Spirit who is our Counselor (John 14:16-18). Having the Holy Spirit to guide you in your relationships is imperative. Here are a few ways we can be led by the Spirit in our dealings with people:

  1. My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19). Oftentimes, people just want you to listen so they can hear and correct themselves while they’re talking to you. In your zeal to help, take a moment to really listen.
  2. You are not God! You cannot be all things to all people. Your efforts may be well-intended, but we need to allow God room to work on people. Discernment is key. God will give you grace, peace, and patience to be of help to those He called you to serve.
  3. Pray for the people around you. Not only for people who confide in you, but for everyone because you never know what someone’s going through. Intercession helps us to remember that all people are souls that God created and loves. It helps us to be compassionate when they are difficult to be around.
  4. Toughen up! People can at times say or do things that seem unreasonable, inconsiderate, and insensitive – many times they don’t have the foggiest idea. Learn to let things go and not take everything personal. This will bring you so much peace.

I see the lack of trust as one of the biggest barriers to healthy relationships. We hide from people because we fear judgment and ridicule. We are trying to protect ourselves from further damage.  As we grow in God, we learn to filter experiences through His Spirit and we are better able to relate. We’re able to let our guard down and connect. So, let’s remember to love each other with the love of God in sincerity and acceptance. Just as parents, we want our kids to look after one another and get along – God is our Father and He wants us to do the same.

So, What’s The Play Call?

  • No relationship is as important as the one you have with God, but don’t forsake your earthly brothers and sister. Jesus prayed that we might unify and be one (John 17:20-21)
  • “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient bearing with one another in LOVE” (Ephesians 4:2)
  • It’s okay to be vulnerable and to trust others – it’s actually much easier to connect when we do. Connection is the foundation of relationships.

Be Blessed!

5 Sweet Treat Recipes with Good-For-You Ingredients

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Recipe photos via Healthy-Inspiration.com

No Sugar Added, No Taste Subtracted

From the very first bite, babies have an affinity for sweets. There’s no learning involved. It’s innate. It’s how God made us – to enjoy the taste of sweet.  

Because we have a culture that is inundated with the marketing of sugar-sweetened beverages and foods, these foods tend to be demonized.  Once we do this – once we label a food ‘bad’ or ‘good,’ we then begin to project this label on ourselves when we eat it. Thus, the dieting cycle continues.

If we get rid of the restrictive mentality – that sugar needs to be eliminated – then how do we create a lifestyle and eating plan that helps us manage sugar appropriately and enjoy the flavors we love?

One strategy is to begin satisfying your desire for sweets with naturally sweet foods. Before you knock this idea, insisting that a banana will never replace your favorite chocolate chip cookies, it’s possible your taste buds might be surprised.

The Sugar Shock

It’s true almost ¾ of the foods on the grocery store shelves have added sugar.  It’s true that most of us consume more sugar than is ideal.  And, it’s true that there are more than 45 different names for sugar on food labels.  But, it’s also true that there are some clever and easy ways to make sweet treats that have nourishing, good-for-you ingredients.

These are 5 sweet treats that are simple to make, include little to no added sugar and are surprisingly satisfying:

Chocolate Chip Chickpea Blondie Bars

Chocolate-Chip-Chickpea-Blondie-Bar-HealthyGooey and decadent, you will never know these chocolate chip blondies are made with good-for-you ingredients! If the idea of chickpeas in your chocolate chip dessert bar sounds odd, you are not alone.  BUT, if you are willing to give this recipe a try, I bet it will become the recipe you tell your friends they need to try!

Chickpeas (aka garbanzo beans) replace the flour giving this dessert a boost of fiber and protein.  This swap also makes this dessert gluten free for those who cannot consume gluten.  Almond butter is subbed in for butter and adds a light nutty flavor and a nice boost of healthy monounsaturated fats. The sweetening power comes from pureed dates, and the chocolate chips, of course. This recipe couldn’t be easier as it is blended up in a food processor and then ready to go in the oven.  

This Chocolate Chip Chickpea Blondie Bar is yummy warm when the chocolate is just slightly melted!  But it’s also fantastic just out of the fridge for a cookie dough texture!

Oatmeal Date Balls

Oatmeal Date Balls5 ingredients and 5 minutes – that’s all you need to whip up the perfect sweet bite.  These oatmeal date balls have absolutely no added sugar and are perfect for the after lunch treat or as a mid-afternoon snack with a cup of hot tea or coffee.  The dates and oatmeal contain a specific type of soluble fiber, beta-glucan, that research continues to affirm plays a positive role in insulin sensitivity, heart health, and immune function.

Store extra oatmeal date balls in the freezer to help with portion control.  These are also a fun treat to serve at book club, Bible study or your next party.  

Super Simple No-Guilt Blueberry Syrup

Easy-blueberry-sauce-no-added-sugarSweet and juicy, summer blueberries are cooked down with a bit of water to create a guilt-free blueberry syrup perfect to drizzle on pancakes or stir into yogurt. Once it cools and sits in the refrigerator, it becomes a preserves-like consistency and can be spread on toast, muffins, or peanut butter and blueberry jam sandwiches.  

This is one recipe you can’t mess up!  These antioxidant-packed berries are good for you and good eats! Whether you have taken the family to a blueberry patch for some weekend fun or just picked up an extra pint on sale at the grocery store, this blueberry syrup will become a new family favorite.

Carrot Cake Snack Balls

carrot-cake-protein-ballsThis sweet treat embodies everything you love about carrot cake – all in a portable bite-size package. When raisins are pureed, they add the perfect level of sweetness to these carrot cake snack balls, without having to add any extra sugar.  Unlike the Oatmeal Date Balls, these have protein powder added to give a little extra boost of protein.  

These snack balls have a nice balance of protein, fat, and complex carbohydrate to help keep blood glucose and insulin levels in check, which is important for those who do and don’t have diabetes.  Who knew that eating veggies for dessert could be so tasty!?

Flourless Blueberry Muffins

easy-blueberry-muffins-gluten-freeGrab a blueberry muffin at your favorite coffee shop and you will take a bite into 29 grams of sugar with virtually no fiber. BUT, make your own blueberry muffins at home without any added sugar by using pureed dates. Blend all the ingredients in a food processor and in less time than it takes to drive to get your java, they will be hot and ready!

All of the traditional white flour is replaced with a can of garbanzo beans making these muffins flourless and gluten-free.  You’ll be amazed at how moist, light, and fluffy they turn out. For an easy on the go breakfast, make a batch (or double) on the weekend and then rewarm and smear with almond or peanut butter for an easy weekday breakfast. No fuss and full of flavor!

So, what’s the play call?

God didn’t mess up.  He didn’t give you taste buds to enjoy sweets only to make them off-limits. He wants you to enjoy them! But, when you choose foods (and recipes) that nourish your body and give you sustainable energy, you can live your day with vitality, instead of fighting off foggy brain and lethargy, often common after a big dose of sugar.

Give 1 or 2 of these recipes a try and see what you and your family think.  It’s a lie that you have to cut out sweets entirely, but it’s also a lie that nourishing foods are dull. Remember – you are in charge of your temple and you decide what to believe.

Small but strategic substitutions are what helps you (and me!) create a sustainable healthy living plan that we love, tastes great, and allows us to eat and live well!

Your Maker is Your Husband: The Joys of Saying “I Do” to God

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For your Maker is your husband – the Lord Almighty is His name…” – Isaiah 54:5

What a strange thing for God to say, especially from the perspective of a new bride in her early twenties like myself. Nonetheless, this is the revelation He gave me just days after saying “I do” to another person claiming that role.

To be honest, I didn’t want to hear that. It was obviously some old-time metaphor, the one verse in the Bible that had nothing to do with me. It’s surrounding scriptures even targeted a woman who couldn’t have kids, a struggle with which I couldn’t identify.

Yet, God began to show me the other roles He claimed in my life: friend, teacher, provider, defender. That list went on as deeply as I would allow. Its only limit was me; God could only fill a position I permitted. But, He kept pressing.

So, fine. Be my husband, God, if that’s what You want. (Did I mention I was a young bride?)

Despite my lack of enthusiasm, He jumped at the open door and did just that.

God filled me.

He took over every aspect of the new union I had just stepped into and exceeded my wildest expectations. Our relationship (me and God) was taken to a greater level of trust, a greater level of intimacy much like the earthly relationship.

The best part was what this new mindset did in my earthly marriage. I didn’t have to drain my husband for love or affection or security because I found it in my Maker. My husband wasn’t burdened with the pressure of perfection; he didn’t have to fill my cup. I was already whole – more than that, I was overflowing (2 Corinthians 9:8, Psalm 23:5).

Instead of craving for my needs to be met, I couldn’t help but shower the man I loved with the love I constantly received from the One who created me.

I see now that my initial hesitation was nestled in fear. If God took over every role in my life, I’d lose the people who previously filled them. They meant more to me than I thought He could.

I’ve realized that, regardless of the relationship, God has to take priority. If He’s not first, I’ll find myself demanding my fulfillment from friends, family, coworkers, or even my kids – leaving those connections unhealthy and less than their intended purpose.

I’m just four years into this marriage thing, so I’m obviously not an expert, but I’m grateful for this truth and the growth it’s brought to my relationships.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Know that there is none like our God (Isaiah 46:9). He is more than enough and still blesses us with more.

God is continuously claiming more roles in my life, and I hope my journey encourages you to open your heart and allow Him to do the same.

The Hidden Ways Being Busy Destroys Your Faith

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In today’s world, everybody is busy.

Our schedules are jam-packed with staff meetings, conference calls, and working lunches. At home, there is a pile of laundry you forgot to fold, and a list of bills to pay.  If you’re pursuing higher education, reading assignments and papers demand your time and attention.

Let’s not even talk about your to-do list!  It seems that every time you cross off one task, three more to-dos magically appear in its place.  And just when our mind thinks it can rest, politics and daily news headlines flood our thoughts.

With all of this going on, I really feel the need to let you in on a little secret…

{Come closer, hear me whisper}

The enemy is after your faith.

This is serious.

THE ENEMY IS AFTER OUR FAITH!

Our Faith is Allergic to Busy-ness 

For the purpose of this discussion, faith is the belief in the powers and the abilities of God. The Word of the Lord in Romans 10:17 says that faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God.

Our faith is built up when we read the Word of God out loud and it is heard by our own ears. If the enemy can steal my time with God, then I cannot hear God clearly.  If we spend enough time away from God, eventually we won’t hear him at all.

But wait a minute. With all that’s going on in the world, and all that you have going on in your life, when exactly are you going to have time to pay attention to the Word of God?

Here is where the problem is: The enemy would have us believe that we don’t have time to spend in God’s Word!

Intellectually, we know that we should do it, and we genuinely have good intentions. As our day slips away, we rationalize and make excuses.  We actually think that we’ll get around to reading our Bibles and spending time with God later – after our day settles down, after the kids are asleep, and after we’ve had time to unwind.

How often do we achieve our good intentions?

It’s a Matter of Time Management 

timeHere’s the thing – we don’t own time. Time belongs to God!

Day in and day out, God graciously and faithfully dispenses time to us in increments of 86,400 seconds; that translates into twenty-four hours.

God hands over His commodity called Time for us to manage.  As the Owner of Time, He trusts us to use it wisely. We are held responsible for what we do (or don’t do) with time we’ve been given.

Now, allow me to reveal one of the enemy’s tactics for embezzling time.

It happens very early in the morning when we first wake up.  Instead of spending time in the Word, we log into our work or personal email.  We tell ourselves that it will be a quick check-in so that we will know how to plan our day. We rationalize that it will only be a few minutes.

Then, we check our Instagram or Facebook accounts. We tell ourselves that we are only going to scan our news feed. Don’t forget about Periscope and Twitter! We must stay abreast of the latest videos and trending topics.

The enemy does not have the right to steal from us. When we allow ourselves to get distracted, we willingly surrender time to him!

We slowly lose the time God has given us.  As we lose time, we are, in essence, allowing our very lives to slip away.

Don’t Fall for the Oldest Tricks in the Book

John 10:10 says that the thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy. This scripture clearly reveals the enemy’s intent –

Steal: to move secretly, to take from another without right or authority.
Kill: to deprive of life
Destroy: to ruin completely, to make ineffective 

The enemy wants to move in and secretly take time from you. He’d like you to think that neglecting to spend time in the Word of God is no big deal.

It is a very big deal! How big?

Again, if faith comes by hearing (Romans 10:17), and hearing by the word of God:

If we are not spending time in God’s word, our belief in his ability to hear our prayer and work on our behalf slowly dies.

When we’re not confident that God can hear us, how often will we pray?

If we’re unsure of His power and ability, then we are doubters, and the enemy’s tricks have caused us to become “unbelieving-believers”.

The Bible says in Hebrews 11:6 that without faith it is impossible to please God.

So, not only has the enemy stolen your time and weakened your faith, he has also put you in a position where you cannot please God.

But wait a minute, all hope is not lost!  Here’s what you can do to get back on track.

So, what’s the play call? 

  • Come clean to God and admit that you have been distracted. Own up to the fact that you have fallen for the enemy’s tactic and have wasted time.  You are not alone in this! If we are transparent, we all have done it!
  • Pray and ask God for His forgiveness.  The Word of the Lord says in 1 John 1:9 that God is faithful and just to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
  • Make a commitment to putting God first on your schedule. The Word of the Lord in Matthew 6:33 encourages us to seek God’s kingdom first.
  • Read the promises of God out loud over yourself, and watch your confidence in God grow! Don’t know where to start? Here’s a free e-book with 365 promises of God you can read aloud every day.
  • Start NOW. Go!

What are some of your time management tips?
How do you spend time with God?

 

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Waiting on God: The Keys to Go From 60 to 0 MPH

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Hurry Up, Stop, and Wait

Everywhere you look in our fast-paced society, people seem to be in a rush so that they can get to where they need or want to be, for example:

While you’re waiting at a red light – the second it turns green and you don’t move, someone honks the horn and yells, “Go!”

When you’re driving on the interstate and not going as fast as the person behind you – someone honks their horn telling you to move over. Or, if you don’t, the person will speed right past you and get in front of you.

When you’re moving through the airport trying to catch a flight – if you are not moving fast enough, people will literally run right by you and almost knock you over to attempt to catch their own flight.

…and the list goes on and on.

Contrarily, when it comes to being Kingdom-minded and living a Kingdom-lifestyle, God doesn’t emphasize speed or being in a rush the way society does.

There are several scriptures throughout the Bible that emphasize waiting on God. I can attest that when it comes to living God’s way and staying in His will, He often encourages me to pump the brakes, slow down, and wait.  Wait on what, you say? Wait on Him. Wait on His direction. Wait on the God-ordained spouse He is sending. Wait for the God-sized, God-ordained door to open. Wait for His greenlight that says “do this”, “go here”, “move there”, “start that business”, etc.

I realize that some of you reading this may be like me: You simply don’t like to wait. With everything moving so fast around us, why should we wait? We are not accustomed to having to wait, especially waiting as patiently as God would intend.

So, I want to share with you a few things that I have learned that have helped me to slow down and wait on God.

Be still.

promises of godHave you ever been busy, but not productive? Have you ever been doing so many things at once that it leads to you being physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually exhausted – and you STILL can’t see any results or fruit of your labor?

Maybe it’s time to be still: “Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for Him to act.” (Psalm 37:7). We are also reminded to “be still and know and that He is God” (Psalm 46:10) and that He doesn’t need our help in solving our problems or fixing our situations.

Don’t allow your feelings or emotions to accelerate pass God.

angerWhen I am tired of waiting, I start to feel antsy, anxious, worried or frustrated. There have been some occasions where I felt as if I had to do something, as ANYTHING was better than waiting. This would sometimes lead me to do things, often haphazardly, that God did not lead me to do.

As a result, I began to suffer the consequences of my premature actions that were not pre-approved by God. When we are tired of waiting, it is important to be led by the Holy Spirit. Being led by our feelings or emotions will only gratify the desires of our flesh (Galatians 5:16), and not the desires and will of God for our lives. As our feelings and emotions are constantly changing, we cannot allow anxiety, worry, frustration or any other emotion to lead us to do something which gets ahead of God or goes around God.

During times of waiting and feeling an influx of worry or anxiety, try this prayer: “You are my God. Show me what you want me to do, and let your gentle Spirit lead me in the right path” (Psalm 143:10).

Pray.

prayFinally, and most importantly, I have learned that when I’m tired of waiting and beginning to feel anxious, frustrated, overwhelmed, or worried – it’s time to pray. Our Playbook encourages us to “be anxious about nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:6-7).

So, What’s the Play Call?

If you’re tired of waiting, I encourage you to stop, slow down, and wait on God. Remember: “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk, and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31)

 

How to Color Life Outside the Lines with God

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Lines Created to be Crossed

I work with children, young girls, as a Girl Scout troop leader. In the summer, I have girls that I wouldn’t normally work with during the school year, so we do introduction activities.

Well, one day, we made name tags, you know, as a fun way for me to learn their names. The activity was pretty simple; the girls wrote their name and colored a piece of cardstock to their liking, and we put it in a name tag holder.

As one of my girls finished hers, she giggled as she shouted, “I just love coloring in the lines!” I laughed a little (you would’ve too). Then I began thinking, as a child, I considered it terrible if I accidentally went outside the lines on one of my favorite coloring book pages. I even neglected to complete some pictures because of it.

I even recall, while working at an elementary school, teachers having talks with children about why they needed to color inside the lines.

But, when did it become a crime to color outside the lines? And, who caused us to believe that it wasn’t allowed? I then realized that, as an adult, I considered it terrible to “color outside the lines” of life.

Do We Need Lines or the Line Maker?

Many of my most amazing life moments happened “outside the lines”. Initially, though, I didn’t recognize that these moments were even acceptable.

See, God does not operate within the confines of any lines. He is an “outside the box” kinda God, if you will. But there was a time when I failed to see that the things outside the lines were of God, and not necessarily the things within the “lines.” God had to train me to understand that many of the things that were to bless me, were outside of the realm of what I deemed worthy to be “colored.” I have even let the way others made me feel about going outside the “lines”, cause me to walk away from some of what God called me to.

Our Playbook says in Jeremiah 1:8, “Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the Lord.” I had allowed their disapproval to draw lines around what God had already removed the boundaries from.

So many times, instead of “stepping out on faith”, I folded in fear, forgetting that “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” (Hebrews 11:1). What difference does that make? Well, have you ever tried coloring with your eyes closed? That’s what faith is!

So, What’s The Play Call?

It can be difficult to “color outside the lines” and walk in the call that God has placed on your life. What you must understand, though, is that if God was not going to be with you and equip you, then He would not direct you to it. Here are a few things to help you “scribble” your way out of your comfort zone:

  1. Trust God. A simple instruction that often seems so difficult to do. We put so much confidence in the ‘experts’ who have nothing to offer us that we should have no problem having faith in the One who offers us everything. “It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.” Psalms 118:8
  2. Stop choosing the obvious. Sometimes, what looks like it must be the correct way is far from God’s idea of how things should go. Look for His approval in the matter, not for the cookie cutter ways of the world. “But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise, and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things with are mighty;” 1 Corinthians 1:27
  3. Don’t be afraid. I know that going against what others consider to be normal or the “rule of thumb” can be nerve-wracking. But know that all the back up in the world cannot compare to God being by your side. “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7
  4. Ignore their voices. Often, our fear comes from the fact that others are so afraid of the consequences of coloring outside the lines, that they choose to project their fear upon us. Ignore them – return to sender.

I pray that you let go of that stigma that causes you to throw away what is outside the lines. Step outside of where everyone else has told you that you should be and go where God is.

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A Yearning for the Presence of God

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Today’s Scripture Lesson: Psalm 84

Please open your Bible or Bible app and read this Psalm in its entirety, allowing the Holy Spirit to minister to you through His Word.

The beauty found in the Psalms makes it difficult to rank one over another, but if I were so inclined, this 84th Psalm would likely rank toward the top of my list of all time favorites.

It is the inspiration behind the wonderful contemporary tune, “Better is One Day.” The 84th Psalm is a psalm of honest, simple longing for the ultimate fulfillment. It is a familiar cry from the heart, relatable to every walk of life and every soul.

Let’s take a close look at some of these verses and spend time reveling in and trumpeting the truths revealed.

Verse 1

How lovely are Your dwelling places, O LORD of hosts!

It sticks out to my mind that the God’s dwelling place is presented in its plural form. I point this out because not every translation has chosen to present it in the plural, and even the familiar song, “Better is One Day” uses the singular form. The original language allows for either translation, but you may do well to consider this verse through the lens of the New Testament.

In 1 Corinthians 3:16, we read, “Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?” Several verses from the New Testament reveal the indwelling of the Holy Spirit in the hearts of believers. With this understanding in mind, it must be understood that the heart filled with God’s Spirit is a lovely dwelling place. And it is made more lovely through every act of surrender to His ultimate will. It is lovely not because of its own merit, but because God Himself is lovely, and because God created us in His image. Nothing could be more lovely than the heart reflecting the heart of the Father.

To the point of God’s dwelling being the singular heavenly tabernacle, there is certainly merit to this beautiful interpretation and John presents a beautiful image of it in the book of Revelation.

Verse 2

My soul longed and even yearned for the courts of the LORD; my heart and my flesh sing for joy to the living God.

kramer and georgeI’m reminded of the scene in Seinfeld when the quirky character, Kramer, awkwardly leans in exceedingly close to the ever self-conscious George and asks, “Do you yearn?” Telling the uncomfortable George moments later, “Sometimes I sit… and yearn.” It’s a wonderfully comic scene with Kramer revealing his plans to travel to California and pursue the one thing he’s ever done that truly made him feel “SO ALIVE.”  When asked if he was serious, Kramer responds, “In my mind, I’m already there.”

Yearning isn’t simply something we hope to do or think would be neat should the opportunity present itself. Yearning is intense. It is felt deeply in the soul, so much so that the flesh is uncomfortable with its current state and greatly longs for the ultimate fulfillment found in the object of our yearning.

The psalmist reveals his greatest longing is for the courts of the Lord, where he will find and be in the presence of the living God. The psalmist knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that he will only be made complete when he is in the presence of his Creator. This isn’t simply a knowledge of the mind, it is heart knowledge. Notice, he didn’t sing for joy from his mind, rather his flesh and his heart sang for joy to the living God.

Verse 3

The bird also has found a house, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may lay her young, even Your altars, O LORD of hosts, my King and my God.

presence of GodIt is interesting to consider the tabernacle of the Old Testament and then imagine God allowing birds to safely enter the tabernacle, even nesting on or near the altar. It almost doesn’t seem conceivable. It just doesn’t seem as though God would allow birds to enter His holy presence and be so . . . well . . . birdlike.

Didn’t God’s presence consume Aaron’s sons who offered up the wrong kind of smoke? Yes. It did. So what are we to make of birds safely nesting in such a holy place?

Birds are innocent. Birds are in creation, just as they were intended to be in creation. Nothing more, nothing less. It is humanity who chose a sinful identity and must now be prepared and made clean, covered by the blood of the lamb, to be safely in the presence of God.

The psalmist refers to God in two ways at the end of the verse. He says, “my King” and “my God.”

We often recognize God’s omniscient power to do whatever He wants to do, and therefore, we’re happy to speak of Him as “God.” To speak of God as “King” requires that we not only recognize His power, but we recognize and submit to His authority. It is our willfulness which causes us to struggle with His kingship. Birds are totally comfortable with His power and His authority, and they live quite naturally in the truth that His power and His authority together are accompanied by His protection.

Verse 10

For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand outside. I would rather stand at the threshold of the house of my God than dwell in the tents of wickedness.

Yes, a thousand times, yes! Better is one day than thousands elsewhere. I find it interesting that the psalmist uses the word, “courts” rather than “house” or “tabernacle.” Admittedly a few translations use “temple.” But by and large, the word is translated “courts” in most English language versions. What is so great about the “courts?”

In yearning for the “courts” of the Lord, not only do we seek God’s presence, we seek God’s justice. In God’s justice, there is true satisfaction. Yet, in yearning for the “courts” of the Lord, we must recognize that this is the only place where we may receive the ultimate mercy. It is a mercy for which all in His presence will be grateful throughout all eternity. It is His mercy and His kindness which causes us to fall to our knees in worship. But here’s the point I want to get across.

Do you understand that you have that now?

Because of His kindness, we’ve been led to repentance. Because of His mercy, we are forgiven and free. We are free to love. We are free to be merciful. We are free to show grace. We are free to show kindness, reflecting the lovely heart of God the Father. We are free to worship. You may do all this because in the truth of God’s Word, as you yearn for His courts, you are, as Kramer would say, “already there.”

So, What’s the Play Call?

Go. Share the kindness of your heavenly Father. Go. Reveal the mercy of God to those who need mercy by being merciful.

I leave you with these words from “My God, My Reconciled God” by John Mason:

“Where God doth dwell, sure heaven is there,

And singing there must be;

Since, Lord, Thy presence makes my heaven,

Whom should I sing but Thee?”

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