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Las Vegas Freedom Riders: Triumph After Turmoil

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Dear Team,

I found out on Twitter the morning after, not unlike the rest of the world. My heart broke; but unlike the rest of the world, I wept for lost souls.

Work emails flooded my browser while social media notifications filled the cracked screen on my phone.

What am I doing?” I asked myself as my mind raced through each career and family goal I had mapped out the night before.

What would the achievement of these marks mean when matched with eternity? How could I experience the majesty of Almighty and keep His message to myself?

I prayed, repented and then I went.

I grabbed a good book, The Good Book, and hopped into the passenger seat for the 4-hour drive to Las Vegas.

As we reached closer to the city, my husband shared a vision he had in prayer of a woman wearing a black dress standing outside of a hotel. His picture gave clarity to the paralyzing fear that suffocated my being. Someone needed freedom in that city.

The drive was familiar. Billboards of luxurious hotels, captivating nightlife, and the world’s greatest shows filled the desert sky. We fixed our eyes on the road until one sign demanded my husband’s attention. Childhood memories illuminated through his bright eyes.

They have a White Castle!”

We found our first stop and ate delicious hamburger sliders. We crumbled up dirty napkins and greased paper bags and stood to leave when our daughter caught the attention of an employee, Geri.

We shared the love of Christ as tears filled her beautiful blue eyes. Hugs and kisses sufficed the goodbye of new family members; it seemed as though more than just our stomachs were full after that meal.

We headed out, unsure of where to go next, but confident we’d know when we arrived.

After prayer filled our car on the campus of UNLV, my husband experienced an immediate migraine accompanied by severe nausea. We pulled over into a nearby hotel parking lot and decided it best to stay the night. His sickness ceased.

The gentleman who checked us in called for his manager, a tall woman wearing a silver cross to grace her black dress.

The next morning I shared Psalm 91, a prayer of protection for God’s children. Joy ripped through the fear that plagued this woman’s posture.

She was free.

15+ Signs of a Good Leader

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What are the Characteristics of a Good Leader? 

What do leaders do? WE RISE UP! But, it takes the right character and mindset to be an effective leader. While not an exhaustive list, here are some signs to look for and develop within yourself to be a good leader.

A Good Leader…

  1. Doesn’t wait for things to happen; leaders make things happen. And, if it’s never happened before, a good leader follows through and brings it to fruition, like Noah (Hebrews 11:17).
  2. Knows how to be a good follower. A good follower is one who doesn’t complain but sees a problem and becomes the solution.
  3. Knows how to communicate and be a good listener. He or she knows they don’t have all the answers all the time and are willing to hear and possibly implement creative suggestions from others.
  4. Is teachable; no matter how great you are, there is always room for improvement.
  5. Are compassionate. Leaders know they did not get where they are by themselves, and so, they are willing to help others.
  6. Fasts and prays (Mark 9:29)!
  7. Sees the big picture and doesn’t sweat the small stuff.
  8. Cries. A person who never cries is a dangerous person. There’s too much stress, turmoil, and frustration in life; a good leader understands that an emotional release is healthy and not a sign of weakness.
  9. Doesn’t announce to the world that they are good. We all can tell a tree by the fruit it bears (Matthew 7:16-20).
  10. Is humble. No one wants to follow a prideful person. And, we all know that pride comes before a haughty spirit – and haughtiness comes before a fall (Proverbs 16:18).
  11. Is generous; they know there are enormous benefits to giving.
  12. Is selfless. Selfish people are miserable and unhappy. Leaders who sacrifice for others reap fruit in both their lives and the lives of others. The seeds of selflessness have a supernatural way of reproducing themselves over and over again.
  13. Knows how to laugh; they don’t take themselves too seriously.
  14. Is not afraid of sacrifice. He or she knows that the greatest burden lies on their shoulders and there’s no fear in carrying the load.
  15. Leads others to a good place.

What Type of Leader are You?

Be a good leader!

Be one that others look up to and strive to be like. Be the type of leader who makes their parents proud and constantly brags to friends and strangers. Be the type of leader who smiles when you look in the mirror. Be the type of leader who sleeps well at night because the decisions made during the day were good and just.

Good Leaders Change the World

Good leaders are world changers. Can you imagine yourself changing the world in ways that dry the tears of the world? Can you imagine being the answer to a community’s prayer? Can you imagine using the gifts and abilities given to you by God and making a significant difference with them?

This whole world is waiting for good leaders and is groaning because of the lack thereof. Be the person who says, “If it is to be, it’s up to me.”

Are you a good leader? Does your light shine in dark places? Are you trustworthy; a person of integrity?

The body of Christ is in need of good, great, and excellent leaders – are you ready to rise up?

Can we depend on you? Can God depend on you? Is He calling you to do something that you are refusing to do? If God is calling you, why don’t you answer?

Don’t disqualify yourself. God knows what you have need of to accomplish your task or assignment. Therefore, He will send provision to your vision (Philippians 4:19). God believes in your ability and His call deserves an answer.

My friend, it’s your time to RISE UP!


SO, WHAT’S THE PLAYCALL?

Be intentional about becoming a good leader, or a better one.

One of the most important things we can do for ourselves and others is to work on self-improvement. Reading is a great way to grow your vocabulary, perspectives, and learn new skills. Surrounding yourself with people who are doing great things is another great way to grow and challenge yourself.

Be sure to guard your ears, eyes, and mouth as God elevates you.

What steps will you take to improve your life
and become a better leader?
What characteristics do you look for in a leader?

Christian Fashion: I Wear My Heart On My Sleeve

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Denim Jacket: Guess (Personally customized) | Pants: H&M Joggers | Sneakers: Stan Smith Adidas

I Love Jesus

At the age of 19, I accepted the fact that people are going to judge me based on my appearance.

I was in my second year of college taking public transportation in New York City, so I was seen by hundreds of people on a daily basis. Some stared and smiled while others just stared, but I knew for better or for worse –  I was being judged. Instead of being troubled by this, I came up with an idea: l should help them judge correctly.

1 Samuel 16:7 says,  “For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” But, I realize that I am partially responsible for the outcome of their judgment because I am in control of my outward appearance. How I present myself has an effect on my appearance and therefore affects how I am judged.

I began to think, “Who am I?” How do I portray who I am through my appearance?

Christian Fashion Reflects My Heart

From my sneakers to even my backpack, I began to analyze every article that I decided to put on my body and what it represented. In this, I found what I wore to be lacking. I wanted everyone to know that I loved Jesus, so I decided I’m going to make that statement evident, “I love Jesus!”

After this decision, I went on a Jesus shopping spree. I bought shirts, pins, buttons anything with Jesus’ name on it, and I began to wear them.

I noticed far more people began to stare. Some would react with a smile or nod while others just turned away. I wondered why this drew so much more attention, and it took me a while to catch on. I eventually realized it was not very common to see someone my age with the name “Jesus” written across his shirt. At first, it bothered me and made me feel as if maybe this isn’t “cool”. Then I thought, “I don’t care. Jesus is the dopest thing that ever happened to me, so I’m going to make this cool.”

Wearing the name “JESUS” is a lot more than a fashion statement for me. It’s more of a LIFE statement, especially as I live the life Jesus would have me to live. I know I am judged every day by one person or another based on my appearance, and that’s why I choose to place LIFE in my appearance.

 

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The Christian t-shirts you wear can show who you are and what you believe without saying anything at all. Fashion helps us share God’s love in a simple yet engaging way for ourselves as well as those around us.

 

 Do you ever use fashion to express your love for Jesus?
Share your style with us!

Single and Bitter: God Told Me I Was an Idolater, Part 1

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Bitter Singles

One day, I was in the car talking to the Lord and I asked, “God, why is it that sometimes when my desire for marriage comes to mind, I feel angry and bitter about my singlehood?”

Now, Team, I know these feelings are not of God, and when they would arise I would say, “The devil is a liar” or “I am content in Christ”.  Ever had to talk some sense into yourself? I knew enough to cancel those vain imaginations that tried to be bigger than the knowledge of God (2 Corinthians 10:5), but I never asked why it was happening.

Before I could even finish my sentence, the Lord said, “Because of idolatry!” ?

I couldn’t believe it. I was about to pull out my battle-ax-tongues on the devil; I was ready to go in! He was trying to bring me into self-doubt and challenge my identity – aw naw! But, my spirit was calm and I knew I had heard right – I knew the Lord had spoken.

When God Reveals You to You

I was feeling so defeated. Who’d of thought I was struggling with something I didn’t even know was there! How long until God cleanses me and gives me His heart?

I was about to start crying, but instead, I asked, “Well Lord, what can I do to get through this and get past this idolatry?” He said, “Pray”.  You would think that I’d be happy to have heard so quickly from the Lord and that the answer was something simple, but I wasn’t.

What hurt me was the fact that I’ve always been very introspective and self-aware. I thought I knew all my issues (pride) and for what to pray deliverance over, but there was something in me I hadn’t picked up on and it scared me to think about what else might be lurking.

Before I allowed myself to go down too low, I held back my tears and began to pray – binding and casting out idolatry. It wasn’t long before I felt that chain break off me, hallelujah! I immediately felt light and free and I went home to study the roots of idolatry.

After a keyword search, I was taken to Colossians. The third chapter talks about idolatry in detail and I learned that it’s not just referring to worship of other gods. Colossians 3:1-2 is the key to overcoming idolatry:

If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. (2) Set your mind on things above, not on things on earth” (NKJV).

This is not my first time reading these verses. I’d meditate on them often while trying to get my thoughts together and renew my mind. But, this is the first time I read it with the revelation of idolatry.

The Relationship of Idolatry and Covetousness

I don’t know if you can relate, but I was the type that coveted marriage. I yearned for a godly husband, 3 kids, a great career, and a beautiful home. I set my affections on all these earthly things. I had ideas about awesome like-minded friends, having playdates with the kids, group dates and travel with our spouses, and just living this great “earthly” life. I’m ashamed to say I used to pray, “Lord, give me all of this before you return!” I thank God for revealing to me that I was selfish and full of idolatry. I thank God for His mercy.

Look at it this way.

Imagine that you get your daughter a playhouse or you build your son a great tree house in the yard. Your child loves it! Everything is scaled down to their size. They can be the mom or dad, princess or superhero, whatever their hearts desire.

Now, imagine at the end of the day, you call your little one in for dinner and they have a fit! They fuss and pout and tell you “No!” They love it so much they think they can live outside forever. Their little minds don’t realize there’s no electricity or running water or anything fit to sustain them for the long-term.

You continue to call them and assure them that if they come in, they’ll have more than they could ever ask or think. But, they keep telling you to wait because they’re having too much fun outside. Your child is so consumed with the playhouse that he or she doesn’t even care to come inside where it’s warm, where there’s light, where there’s so much more in store for them. Sound familiar?

Colossians 3:5 brings it home for us:

“Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness which is IDOLATRY”.

Team, everything in the natural is a foreshadow of greater things to come. We cannot forget that while making our plans. Nothing we desire in this life can compare to eternity in heaven with God. We are here to serve Him – not ourselves.

  So, What’s the play call?

  1. Set your affections on things above (Colossians 3:5).
  2. If there’s anything that you war with in the flesh (or mind), ask God why (get to the root), pray for deliverance, and be diligent to walk in freedom – not bondage.
  3. Find wisdom between planning for your (and your family’s) future and following God’s divine plan and guidance for your life every day.

Stay tuned for Part II.

 

Yes! I would like prayer. Please pray for me.

The White House Wants To Kill Social Security Numbers

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White House cybersecurity coordinator Rob Joyce said Tuesday that he believed the United States should begin to do away with Social Security numbers as a national identification method and move on to something more modern. Speaking at the Washington Post’s Cybersecurity Summit, Joyce—a veteran of the National Security Agency’s hacking division—said the time has come from.

Redemption at Redemption: A Member’s Response to Hope Carpenter

Chosen Above Fear

The late Dr. Myles Munroe said, “The graveyard is filled with untapped potential.”

I believe it’s due to fear.

In Jordan Jones’ HuffPost article, 9 Reasons You Won’t Pursue Your Dreams, 8 of the 9 reasons are rooted in fear. We’re afraid of the unknown. We’re afraid of the isolation that comes with success. We’re afraid of the new disciplines and habits we must learn in order to maintain that success. And, we’re afraid of messing up.

Fear is all throughout the Bible. Moses, Gideon, Peter, Jonah, and the ten scouts almost missed witnessing some of the greatest miracles because of fear.

But, when you have decided to answer God’s call on your life, feeling the fear and doing it anyway is a natural part of the journey. Change agents know that the messenger often gets shot, but it’s what takes place afterwards that makes the pain worth it.

What’s Your Fearless 3-Pointer?

My husband and I are huge LeBron James fans. I remember when I asked my husband why the Cavs kept shooting (and missing) 3’s instead of shooting two-pointers to make it a close game. All he said was, “Live by the 3, die by the 3.”

Speaking the truth even when it stings is Pastor Ron and Hope Carpenter’s 3-point-shot. This is one of the reasons why I love Redemption Church so much. I’ve attended too many churches where pastors never step on any toes because those toes belong to their deacons, their best tithers, or people who will try to ruin them.

Pastor Ron doesn’t fear man. He fears God and built Redemption to bridge cultures and unapologetically preach the Gospel. And, when he shoots, he doesn’t know where the ball is going to fall, but he knows it’s his shot and he has to take it.

This past Sunday, his wife and co-pastor, Hope Carpenter, took a 3-point-shot and missed the whole backboard. She was quickly booed off the court and people were calling for her to be cut from the team.  

Basketball analogies aside, she messed up. And, she hurt the very people she serves every week with her public comment concerning the national anthem. Personally, I wasn’t attracted to Redemption for Hope Carpenter, and even though I’m quite fond of her now, I’m not naive enough to believe that she and I agree on every issue. I’m not going to quit my job or make my husband sleep on the couch because we disagree on how things should be handled. Likewise, I’m not going to quit attending Redemption because of Hope’s stance on kneeling during the national anthem.

I chalked it up as her speaking from a place of ignorance; I knew that social media would quickly educate her on the error of her ways. I knew the responses would sting a bit, but actually, she took a beating.

Her past was brought up. She was called every name. And, some people were seeking out members to make sure they knew what she said and to encourage them not to attend Redemption anymore.

It got ugly. Fast.

Are You Afraid to Be Used?

I thought to myself, someone who wants to take the leap into their calling is fearfully watching this. And, this is the very fear that continues to steamroll their dreams. Someone who is on the fence about following Jesus is looking at Christians and wondering if they can really admit their thoughts, behaviors, and past. Can I be human?

Leaders are watching. They’re wondering where can I be honest about how I feel and people not want to destroy what I’ve built.

What happened to “What the devil meant for evil God will use for good?”
What happened to “Jesus will reach way down and pick you up?”
What happened to “Create in me a clean heart and renew in me the right spirit?”

Isn’t that what we want to be spoken to us when we mess up?

What Doing it Scared Looks Like

I also thought that this would be a wonderful time for the world to see what it looks like when a personal belief hurts someone you love. As I saw church members go back and forth over whether or not an apology was necessary, I knew that this had the potential to divide the church. Thankfully, Pastors Ron and Hope demonstrated beautifully – both online and at church – what to do when you have offended a brother.

Last Sunday, I was able to witness what we all want when we make a mistake. I got to see people practice what they preach: Love, Grace, Mercy, and Forgiveness.

Pastor Ron & Hope both looked weary when they first walked in. We all know how it feels to have to stand before people after making a grave mistake (or do we?). It hurt me to see them look so ashamed. But, hopefully, we sent the message that it’s okay to mess up. It’s okay to have flawed thinking. We’re not going to run at the first sight of a blemish. We’re not going to forget everything we know about you because you’ve shown us a side that we didn’t expect. We’re not going to be Christians who talk a good game during practice, but bail right after tip-off.

I was called a slave, a coon, stupid, and a clown for supporting my pastors. And, the more people went in on Hope, the more love I poured on her because I simply can’t stand bullying – and that’s what Christ wants us to do – SHOW love! More than anything, I just want Jesus to be pleased with how I represent Him.

I believe Redemption represented the Kingdom well today. I’m proud that even in disagreements, we are able to love our sister and brother as ourselves.  

So, what’s the play call?

A lot of people never step into their calling because they fear the inevitable – messing up. And, what do we tell them?

“Failure is an event, not a person.”
“Take the leap and build your wings on the way down.”
“The person who never failed never tried anything new.”

Don’t we cheer and amen when the pastor says, “I want people around me who still believe God has a purpose for my life even when I mess up.”

Well, God still has a purpose for Hope’s life. Her last shot drew nothing but air, but she has humbled herself and is getting back into the gym. I believe she and Pastor Ron are the kind of people who will never stop trying to perfect their shot. They have made it their life’s mission to be a light in the darkness. They don’t shy away from challenges and where they are ignorant, they are willing to learn. What more could you ask for in pastors? What more could you ask of yourself?

During Pastor Hope’s last sermon, she said, “Don’t rebuke the test. Pass it.” She’s living those words right now.

Pastor Ron has been saying that God has promised a larger platform. This has certainly made Redemption popular.

The critics think this is exposing Ron and Hope. No, no. This is making Jesus famous.

Watch the Carpenters and the Redemption Church family be instrumental in combating racism in the South – in America.

Remember, God doesn’t waste a thing!

Seeking the Treasures of Lady Wisdom

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Today’s Scripture Lesson: Proverbs 8

Proverbs is an interesting word. It’s the title of a book from the Bible, but we also hear it used when speaking of eastern religion. Confucius is known for doling out wisdom in the form of proverbial one-liners. In general, we can think of this word as an indicator of wisdom. In fact, Christians often refer to the book of Proverbs as “wisdom literature”.

Wisdom is so very much at the heart of this particular Old Testament scripture that wisdom is no longer an “it”, but rather a character “who” speaks directly to us.

Who Is Lady Wisdom?

Wisdom is given a feminine pronoun with a few companions named “Understanding” and “Knowledge”. In the same way the Bible presents faith, hope, and love, Wisdom is presented as one part of a durable cord of three strands. From the strength and security of that cord, she reveals that:

  • She is greater than jewels.
  • She is greater than gold and choicest silver.
  • She dwells in prudence (care, caution, good judgment).
  • She finds knowledge in discretion.
  • By her, kings reign and princes rule.
  • By her, rulers decree justice.
  • She is understanding.

While this is a beautiful list, one of my favorite revelations is this:

My mouth will utter truth.” (Proverbs 8:7)

There is a wonderful parallel here with what Jesus says of the Holy Spirit in John 16:13-14:

But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth; for He will not speak on His own initiative, but whatever He hears, He will speak; and He will disclose to you what is to come. He will glorify Me, for He will take of Mine and will disclose it to you.”

The Wealth of Wisdom Revealed

As we read this chapter, we find that Wisdom is greater than any earthly treasure.

When looking at Proverbs 8:20-21, it is natural to assume Biblical wisdom is just like wisdom in eastern religion. Standing alone, these verses give the impression that she is the means by which we receive earthly treasure. However, she reveals in verses 22-31 that her treasure is rooted in something altogether different.

Because she is a “who” rather than simply an “it” or a “what”, Biblical wisdom finds fulfillment in that which she is rooted.

The first phrase of Proverbs 8:22 shifts our focus away from the assumptions of earthly wealth in verses 20-21, as she states:

The Lord possessed me at the beginning of His way…”

While Israel entered covenant to be God’s possession, Wisdom, the text tells us, was established in Him.

Furthermore, Wisdom finds joy as God’s possession and in His presence. Verse 30 reveals this truth and illustrates the motivation behind it. Wisdom tells us:

I was beside Him, as a master workman; and I was daily His delight, rejoicing always before Him.”

Though I didn’t know it at the time, I was privileged to receive a veiled glimpse of this relationship when my oldest daughter was about 2-years-old. There was a moment when I referred to her with one of my terms of endearment. Her only response was such great joy that she giggled and danced before me. The joy of my heart responded with pure delight. And, together we laughed.

Isn’t this the relationship God desires us to have with Him?

Wisdom’s Rich Perspective

I’ve recently been reading Numbers, and I hope to have a study available to you on this incredible scripture soon. While that study is forthcoming, let me share with you something I wrote in my notes as I read the story of God sending quail to the Israelites who had complained to Moses because they didn’t have any meat to eat.

They went so far as to express their desire to be back in Egypt, where they had meat. As I considered their desires and confessed my own comfort-seeking, consumer mindset, I realized there are two questions we tend to ask, even if only tacitly. While we come up with many answers, there is ultimately only one way that Wisdom would actually answer these two questions.

  • What’s in it for me?
    • God
  • What’s in it for God?
    • Me

It’s really that simple and that beautiful. What’s in it for you? God. What’s in it for God? You.

Throughout the book of Proverbs, Wisdom teaches us that when we turn our desires to the world and forsake our devotion to God, in reality, we’re hoping for the very things that kill and destroy.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Wisdom gives us the play call in verses 32-35:

  • Listen to wisdom.
  • Heed instruction.
  • Find wisdom, for in it you find life and obtain favor from the Lord.

Will you follow her lead?

 

Yes! I would like prayer. Please pray for me.

You Can Have the Whole World, Give Me Jesus

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Sweatshirt: Jclu foreverUndershirt: H&M Jean ShirtNecklace: His grace her beauty StatementJeans: Old NavyShoes: Aldo 

Gain the World for What?

Sometimes, I want to pull my hair out when I think about all the wrong decisions I’ve made in my past. Every single day I thank God for pulling me out of my pit of despair.

No, I wasn’t the alcoholic, rebel, sleeping-around-type-of-girl, but I was the girl who filled the void of an absent father with material things. I was the girl who looked for attention in worldly things. I was that lost girl.

Mark 8:35-36 says “For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”

The day I gave my heart and life to Christ, I decided to let everything go – every little ounce of me – my pride, my pain, my past. Just give me Jesus.

Jesus restored my life with flaws and all. He said come as you are and allow me to be the center of your heart. Every day, people are losing their lives for all the wrong reasons when God just wants you to lose your life for Him to save you.

When I took that one hard, scary, step FORWARD, Jesus was already waiting with His arms wide open. He desires the same with each and every one of you, no matter what you’ve done in life.

Right now at this moment, God isn’t looking at your mistakes. He’s looking at your pain and how He can take it all away. Don’t lose your soul over temporary things, allow your soul to be saved by an Everlasting God with Everlasting love.   

 

Yes! I would like prayer. Please pray for me.

Derek Minor Releases Multiple EPs Through “Up and Away Series”

Award Winning Hip Hop artist, Derek Minor, is scheduled to release several EPs throughout 2017 and early 2018 for his Up and Away Series, with the first project, Your Soul Must Fly, releasing Sept. 1. The record’s first single, “Take Off,” features guest artists Ty Brasel, Canon and KB.

The innovative set up for Minor’s new music is a result of the partnership between Minor’s record label, Reflection Music Group (RMG), and EMPIRE Distribution out of San Francisco.  Minor’s concept that everyone is created to be a reflection of greatness, has been developed into these multiple installments of music in order to be the soundtracks of this pursuit.  Each record will be distributed across such digital platforms as iTunes, Google Play, Amazon.com, Spotify, Soundcloud, and Rdio.  Fans will be able to keep updated about the Up and Away Series pre-orders, music, videos, song-by-song explanations and more at www.derekminor.com. Take an inside listen to Minor’s strategy for the upcoming projects and the rollout here.

Minor will be performing his new music on the Newsboys fall tour, “Big Church Night Out Tour,” that is being produced by Premier Productions.  The tour will visit 42 cities across the U.S and will have a four-month run from Sept. – Dec. Besides Minor, the tour will also feature Sidewalk Prophets, 7eventh Time Down, Blanca, Adam Agree (Audi Adrenaline), among others. Tickets may be purchased here.

Minor’s new projects will continue the successful run that the talented singer/songwriter has enjoyed so far this year.  He received a strong response with his four-week No. 1 Billboard song, “Change The World” (feat. Hollyn), which was from his previous album Reflection. The video received over half a million views online and the album streamed over 2.6 million on Spotify. At the same time, Minor delivered high-energy performances on the 9th Annual Rock & Worship Roadshow this spring, where he did the first “take over” for CCM Magazine’s Instagram account backstage at the concerts.

Team, for continued updates and to stay connected with Derek Minor, please visit:
www.derekminor.com
www.facebook.com/thederekminor
www.twitter.com/thederekminor
www.instagram.com/thederekminor

Good Health Testimony: How One Teammate Changed Her Diet and Exercise and Won!

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Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can. — Arthur Ashe

lamicaThat’s what teammate Lamica decided.  After meeting with her health care provider and learning some distressing news, she decided to take action – now.  Having maintained a fairly normal weight up until her 40’s and escaping the need to take any medications, she considered herself ‘pretty healthy.’  But the reality was, she didn’t know how lousy she felt until she began making some changes to her diet and exercise patterns.  Lamica joined ‘the team’ in the Summer Slim Down, saying that the plan gave her “easy things to do” and provided ideas she hadn’t considered before.

She is changing her life, invigorating her future, setting an example for her family, and transforming her family tree.  The process of adapting new food and lifestyle patterns requires commitment and assurance that the future holds more potential than momentary pleasure.  But, she hasn’t done it alone.  Nope!  Lamica has been working alongside so many of you who are doing the sweaty work and seeking to honor God in how you eat and move your body!

We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the Word of our testimony (Revelations 12:11).  If you are in the process of transforming your health and relationship with food, you are an overcomer too – one step at a time.  This is Lamica’s story.  It’s not finished, but none of us are.  She is learning how to love God, love others and serve the world by first caring for the only temple that allows her the energy, mental capacity and physical ability to do so.

Be encouraged…

A Good Health Testimony

What inspired you to begin making some changes to your diet and lifestyle?

LB: For the past year or so I noticed I had been extremely tired. I would have frequent morning headaches even after a full night’s sleep and then feel sluggish all day. For a while, I attributed it to a change in my work schedule.  So, I began taking vitamins to boost my energy levels. Three vitamin choices and 6 months later, I was still exhausted.  

After hearing my symptoms my doctor decided to do a sleep study.  I ‘failed’ the sleep test and the results revealed that I had sleep apnea.

They gave me three potential options for treatment:  

  • Use of a CPAP machine while sleeping
  • Surgery
  • Lose weight

Losing weight was the only option I thought would work for me.

What was the first step you took?  

LB: I immediately began taking my dog on longer, more frequent walks.  Instead of going out twice a day, I increased it to 4x a day.  My son joined a local gym and added me to his account as a guest.

How long have you been working on these changes so far?

LB: Most of these strategic exercise changes began July 2017, but I did begin making some dietary modifications this spring.

Did you feel overwhelmed?  What helped you focus?  

LB: In the area of exercise, I was a little overwhelmed because I have never been an athlete or athletic in any way. I told myself that I would learn one new thing every week and implement it at the gym.  These were small steps like how to use a specific weight machine.  

What are a few specific changes you have made nutritionally?

LB: I terminated my relationship with Ben & Jerry’s ice cream as of April 2017!  I was consuming 2 pints per week, so I figured that I had to be radical in cutting off my attachment to ice cream since I was eating it so consistently. The first month was the most difficult, but I haven’t been tempted to go back.  I always think about how long it will take me on the treadmill to burn off the fat, calories, and sugar – it’s not worth it!

I discontinued late night eating.  After 7pm, if I get hungry, I take it as a sign that I need to drink a bottle of water. Usually by the time I finish an 8oz bottle I feel fine.  If I’m still hungry I will have a small apple.

I eliminated all soda from my diet and replaced it with water.  This was an easy way to cut out extra sugar and calories (learned this from the article What Are You Drinking? that discussed calories in beverages).  This concept was enlightening – I had never thought about the calories in the beverages I was drinking.

I replaced high-calorie snacks (potato chips, chocolate chip cookies) with fruits and vegetables (apples, peaches, bananas, carrots and hummus).

How have the Summer Slim Down and Good Health articles helped you along this journey?  

The articles have helped a lot, especially the Slim Down Series!  These are several takeaways I found insightful and applicable:  

Eat more living foods. This was a concept I implemented immediately! Summer time gave me the perfect chance to visit the local Farmers Market and I had the opportunity to try a few different salad recipes that I hadn’t prepared before.

Plan workouts a week in advance.  This strategy has helped me get organized, focused, and avoid wasting time. Planning gives me time to do YouTube research on how to properly use machines and proper form so I feel confident in the gym.

Eat only 1 regular sized plate at gatherings and parties.  I stuck to this tip the entire summer!  While I admit that it was difficult and felt out of the ordinary in the beginning, I stuck to it!

Since you mentioned that you began this journey to lose weight and improve your health due to sleep apnea, can you share any physical or health changes so far?  

  • My clothes fit better; I am down 1 dress size.
  • I’ve lost 3 inches on my hips and 1 inch off my waist!
  • I’ve noticed that I’m getting much better quality sleep – maybe it’s because I’m so tired from my workouts! I also go to bed an hour earlier.  
  • Snoring has reduced significantly.

Is your family making changes too?  How has your decision and the steps you have taken affected them?  

LB: My family has not knowingly made any changes, but I have adjusted what I have been feeding them.  I have found some healthier recipes to prepare, but they haven’t noticed the gradual change in what I am cooking. I have 3 college age sons and a husband who eat almost everything I put in front of them.

Do you ever feel unmotivated to exercise? How do you address that?  

LB: I feel good about my choice to exercise and like to go to the gym early in the morning to use the free weights without a lot of people around.  I stay motivated knowing I will have one day off per week and I really look forward to that!  Cardio exercise is not my favorite, but my son encourages me to do that first and get it out of the way.  He coaches me to make it quick and intense so I try to run my mile as fast as I can!  Then, I get off and don’t even look at the treadmill the rest of the workout!  

Have you encountered any challenges making changes to your diet?  

LB: The changes have been gradual and small so it has not been difficult for me.  I have the ability to make a conscious choice about what I put into my body.  No longer am I eating without thinking anymore.

Do you ever feel “deprived?” If so, how do you respond to that feeling?  

LB: I have never felt deprived because if I want something I can eat it.  My realization is that in the past I did not exercise any self-control. Now I have shifted my thinking about how I am caring for the temple that God gave me. I know that I have to be healthy to fulfill his purposes and I am taking my health a lot more seriously.

How has your perception of caring for your “temple” changed through this process so far?

LB: My perception of caring for my ‘temple’ has changed a lot! I knew my body is the temple of the Holy Ghost, but I had not connected my unwise food choices and patterns as dishonoring it.  

One revelation is that I was an emotional eater – I put my emotions into a pint of ice cream at least 2x a week. This practice revealed a ‘heart issue’ meaning that I was using food in place of God.  I can now waltz past the ice cream section in the store without a second look – it feels great!

The sin was the practice of making food an idol and submitting myself to a fleshly craving rather than submitting myself and emotions to God in prayer.  Like the deception of the enemy, it was promised that I’d feel better after I ate all that sugar…Ben & Jerry said they were my friends but they only made me fat!

Do you ever experience peer pressure to eat a food that is not what you want to choose?  How do you practically and mentally handle that?  

LB: I make up my mind and stick to my decision.  This is a life change, not a 6-week diet. Every day, I can choose to eat what I want to eat.  Now I am more conscious that I do have a choice – God gives us the power to choose.

The best way I handle peer pressure is to have a plan and then stick to it. Deciding in advance what I will and will not eat, before I leave the house, leads to the most success.  

Have you identified any negative thinking or lies you believed about yourself or your body that was affecting your dietary or exercise choices in the past?  

LB: “As a man thinks so is he.”  Before, I didn’t have any confidence that I could even begin my journey toward a healthier me.  I had believed the lie of the enemy that I was too old, too out of shape, and too in love with ice cream. Had to stop the negative talk and agree with God’s Word and what He says about me.  “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength!”

Every day I pray, “Lord give me strength to do this workout so I can be  ‘fit’ for your kingdom –  GOD make me KINGDOM FIT!”

What are 2 practical things you do every day to stay mentally healthy and persevere?

LB: Lay out my workout clothes/shoes the night before outside of my bedroom so that I don’t wake my husband up for my early morning workout.

Pre-plan meals for the week instead of thinking about it after work. This leads to less stress and less temptation to eat what I shouldn’t.  

What has been the hardest part of your journey so far?  What got you through?

LB: The hardest part was changing my mindset before I started.  Once I made up my mind it became much easier to execute.  Before, I was not serious or committed.  I was interested in improving my health but hadn’t come to a place where I wanted to actually take action.  

In the past, drinking enough water was a huge struggle, but now after a sweaty workout, it is all I want!  

Is there a scripture you meditate on that encourages you when you feel weak?

LB: 2 Timothy 4:17 “But the Lord stood with me and gave me strength.”  I picture him in the gym with me helping me with my work out.  When I feel like giving up, I remind myself that He is with me.  

2 Corinthians 5:17  “…Old things are passed away (old eating  habits, old thought patterns) and all things are new (new attitude, new body, new strength).”

What are some upcoming health goals you have for yourself or changes you still want to make?

LB: I want to see muscle definition in my arms without worrying about looking like a ‘flabby Patty.’

How would you encourage someone who desires to make some lifestyle changes but is struggling?  

LB: If you desire to make some lifestyle changes, I’d like to encourage you to evaluate your self-talk.  What lies about yourself and your ability are you believing? Combat that negative talk with the truth of God’s Word.

What is 1 thing you encourage someone to do, today, to take just 1 step?

LB: Pick only one thing and work on it until you master it. This could be walking for 15 minutes, or drinking a single bottle of water per day.  Do only one thing and work on it until you master it.  

What an inspiring story!  You have a teammate who is doing this with you!  And, if God can transform Lamica, He will help you too!

Lamica has discovered that there is no magic supplement or formula to transform her health.  She is renewing her mind with the truth, making conscious and intentional decisions, and drawing upon supernatural strength each and every day.  And, yeah, sweating a little bit too!

 

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