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You’re Late, Flight Departed: How Distractions Divert Your Destiny

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While walking through Hartfield-Jackson Airport in Atlanta, on my way to catch my connecting flight back home, I noticed a sign at one of the gates that said, “Flight Departed.

I felt a twitch of anxiety.

I’d never seen that before. Normally when the plane leaves the gate, the closed door and empty desk are signs enough. Normally a sign for the next flight is posted. But “flight departed” was posted. Again. Anxiety.

Have you ever missed a flight? I have. It happened just once. And it was a catastrophic event. It was 4th of July weekend in 2005 and my girlfriends and I were going to the Essence Music Festival in New Orleans.

When we arrived at the airport, we barely got to the curbside desk when we learned it was too late to board. Even if we could sprint through the concourse at Usain Bolt speed, our seats had already been given away and our bags wouldn’t be able to be checked in.

frustrationWe tried everything to get on that flight. Cussed, cried, called Corporate Offices – all for naught. The next flight out was Saturday. Goodbye Thursday festivities. Adios Friday concert. Toodles Saturday brunch.

That’s two nights we basically gave away to the hotel, additional charges for “changing” the flight, the icy coolness of my friends trying to make the best of the situation – knowing in their minds they’d killed me about fifty-eleven times.

Did I mention that it was my fault?

Yeah. I just had to have that last perfect piece to go with that outfit. Ask me what that piece was. I’ll tell you: I don’t remember. That’s how unimportant it was.

But that sign got me to thinking that that was a habit of mine – going off course to do things that had nothing to do with the purpose and plan in front of me.

Watch out for Destiny Diversions

How many times have I gotten a God-idea and then sat on it because I thought I had time – only to see it on TV or online, not nearly as fabulous as “I would have done it”?

Or, what about having an assignment in front of me and deciding to help other people get their projects together – procrastinating with self-manufactured busy-ness out of fear or laziness or (choose your favorite emotion, excuse, reasoning).

There have been things that God has told me to do, where I have dragged my feet. In hindsight, I know I have delayed what God had for me and delayed others because of my tardiness. Remember, our blessings and obedience are sometimes tied to other people’s obedience: They can’t move until you do!

Their flight? Delayed. Or worse yet, departed.

When I was moving to my new city, the Lord specifically told me to be on time. I thought it had to do with a clock and appointments. I soon learned that His instructions were for Divine appointments. I’m better at it, these days; not being led astray by things that are not a part of my assignment, both Godly and in regular life.

But I ask you today, what distraction will you eliminate to make sure you catch your flight on Air Destiny?

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

Ask yourself these questions and answer as though you’re talking to God who knows everything about you:

  1. What stops you from being on time? What are you afraid of? Do you really trust God enough to be obedient?
  2. What Divine appointments have (or will) you miss by occupying yourself with things that don’t matter?
  3. What has it cost you – being late for an assignment (at work, school, church)?
  4. Who else have you affected by failing to be where you were supposed to be, when you were supposed to be there?

God’s timing is perfect. But when He tells us to move, we have to be timely and move specifically according to what God is telling us to do.

 

Have you been late or distracted in your faith walk?
How did you get back on track?

Derek Minor Shares the #1 Thing We Can Do to Change the World

Award winning Hip-Hop artist, Derek Minor, is enjoying success at CCM radio with his new single, “Change the World,” going No. 1 on Billboard’s Hot AC/CHR chart. The tune features guest artist, Hollyn, and is from Minor’s current album Reflection that released on his Refection Music Group (RMG) label, in partnership with Entertainment One. The project has been streamed on Spotify over 2.6 million times. Listen to “Change the World” below:

Change the World” is partly inspired by Minor’s first visit to Haiti in 2015 with the non-profit organization Hands & Feet Project that provides family-style housing and sustainable solutions for orphans in Haiti. Upon landing in Port-au-Prince, Minor was immediately overwhelmed by the country’s economic crisis and was moved to use his voice to make a difference.

“I just wrote this song as an anthem, hopefully for people to create change,” Minor explains. “I think in today’s climate around the world, we have forgotten that our differences are beautiful. That God made each of us unique and that makes our world a better place. I think ‘Change the World’ speaks to that yearning inside for all of us to be heard and accepted with love.”

How Can You Change the World?

Team Jesus Mag publisher, Kim Brightness, caught up with the award-winning producer for a laid back interview above to discuss how we can actually “change the world“, what we should see when we listen to Reflections, what Derek considers the ultimate impact of his music career, and Derek’s current play call for the body of Christ and his prayer requests. 

Fans of Minor can catch his music live on the 9th Annual Rock & Worship Roadshow, which launched Feb. 24 in Cape Girardeau, Mo. and concludes April 2 in Baltimore, Md.  The 23-city tour features such major artists as Steven Curtis Chapman, Francesca Battistelli, Rend Collective, Passion, Family Force 5, Jordan Feliz and Urban Rescue.

Team, connect with Derek Minor today and let’s keep him lifted in prayer as he keeps making the name of Jesus great!

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About Derek Minor

Award-winning Derek Minor is enjoying chart-topping success with his new single “Change the World,” that reached No. 1 on Billboard’s Hot AC/CHR chart Feb. 6th. The song is from Minor’s current project, Reflection, that was No. 1 on Billboard’s Rap Album chart and debuted No. 7 on Billboard’s Christian Album chart.  Minor grew up in Middle, Tenn. and received a bachelor’s degree in Recording Industry Management from Middle Tennessee State University (MTSU) in 2006. He began his music career in 2007, through a record deal with an independent label that quickly folded. Minor quickly became a member of a small, elite class of Hip Hop artists who are adept at MCing, producing, and running their own companies. Two of his previous albums won Stellar Awards, Empire (2015) and Minorville (2013), along with Dove and Grammy nominations. Minor’s wordplay and relatable lyrics have made him an in-demand collaborator who has worked with the likes of Lecrae, Andy Mineo, and Colton Dixon. As a producer, Minor received a 2015 Dove Award for his production contributions to Lecrae’s Anomaly album. Minor’s Reflection Music Group roster includes celebrated acts Canon, Tony Tillman, B. Cooper and Deraj.

Jor’dan Armstrong and God-Inspired, Caribbean “VIBES”

What do you get when you skillfully infuse God-inspired lyrics with smooth Caribbean flavor?

You get… good VIBES!

And that’s exactly what you can expect from artist, songwriter, and producer Jor’Dan Armstrongwith the release of his 7-track EP so fittingly called, VIBES.

VIBES follows Jor’Dan’s 2016 EP, Confident, which debuted at no. 13 on the Billboard gospel album charts. At first listen, one might be shocked to know Armstrong isn’t from the islands. Yet, he was able to adapt and create a unique flow of his own that he hopes people gravitate toward –  in the same way he was attracted to vitalizing Caribbean “music and vibes” that “make you want to dance.” Armstrong carefully constructed VIBES with his best friend, business partner, and producer, Jeshua “TedyP” Williams.

I’ve always wanted to do a project like this,” he says. “I feel like it’s really dope that I’m able to be an artist [with] freedom in what type of music I want to do. I don’t feel the same every day as far as music. I think it’s so cool how Steve Jobs created iPods and music folders and things like that, to where we could pick any type of genre we wanted to hear and make it adapt to our day. I think the way that I create music is just really off of feeling. It’s really led by God and the spirit of God. Some days I feel like trap, some days I feel ratchet. Some days I feel classical, some days I feel worshipy – if that’s a word.

Artistic freedom is evident on tracks like his next single, “Count It.” Pulling on a sound similar to “bounce music” signature out of his Louisiana hometown, Armstrong says, “The song is basically about counting your blessings.” His style changes lenses, but the focal point remains fixed on God’s promises of abundant love, incomparable consistency and teachable moments.

VIBES is available for pre-order now, with an official drop date of March 3rd on all digital outlets.

VIBES: Tracklist
1. “So Much Luv”
2. “Light Up”
3. “Count It”
4. “More Than Friends”
5. “Caught the Vibe”
6. “Teacher”
7. “No Way” ft. Darius Scott

Follow Jor’dan Armstrong on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and we pray continued good VIBES and good success for Jor’dan and his team.

The Real Father of Alternative Facts and How to Defeat Him

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In a January 2017 Meet the Press interview, Counselor to the U.S. President, Kellyanne Conway, explained to the world that White House Press Secretary, Sean Spicer, used “alternative facts” in his first statement to the Press Corps regarding the inaugural crowd size.

Conway fiercely defended Spicer’s false statement about attendance at Donald Trump’s presidential inauguration, stating “there’s no way to quantify crowds.”

Though Conway’s comment has turned the phrase into a viral point of political contention, the notion of alternative facts is nothing new.

The Father of “Alternative Facts”

treeGenesis chapter 3 recounts the narrative of the serpent and his enticement of Eve.  He begins his deception by asking Eve a question, which makes her question “what was God’s instruction?” (Genesis 2:16-17). The serpent says, “Did God really say that you must not eat from any tree in the garden?”

Although Eve knows God’s directive, she allows herself to be deceived.  God clearly told Adam that they may not eat of the fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.  God said if they eat of that tree, then they will surely die.

In this pivotal moment between mankind, the serpent, and God’s word, the serpent introduces an alternative fact – “You will not surely die.”

In the words of journalist Chuck Todd, “Alternative facts are not facts, they’re falsehoods.”

Deception.

Untruths.

Lies.

Unfortunately, Eve fell for it!  Rather than obeying God’s word, she believed the alternative fact.  She forfeited her confidence in the word of God for a lie. And, this deception and disobedience had eternal implications.

In God We Trust

In the age of fake news, mistrust in government, and national security breaches, what hope does the believer have? Like Eve, we cannot afford to believe the deception of the enemy. World news and all of the sensational headlines suggest faltering governments, economic peril, the threat of world war, and impending doom.

But, when everything around us proves unreliable, God can be trusted!

Here are a few reasons why we can trust in God. And, as our Promise Keeper, hold fast to the promises below as we maneuver through the enemy’s alternative facts.

Reasons We Can Trust God

  • God is not a liar. He keeps his promises and fulfills his word. (Numbers 23:19)
  • God is compassionate, faithful, and consistent. (Lamentations 3:22-23)
  • God’s purposes shall stand. God’s word is truth. (Isaiah 14:24, John 17:17)
  • God’s love is steadfast and endures forever. He is omnipotent, self-sufficient, unmovable, and infallible. God never fails. (Psalm 136:1-2, Revelation 19:6)

The Promise of His Peace

In Philippians 4:6-7, we are reminded to worry about nothing and to pray about everything.

When we do this, God’s peace, which goes beyond understanding, will guard our hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

With God’s peace shielding our hearts and minds, we are not distressed or disturbed when people, systems, or government fail us. With each new inconsistency revealed, we will be steadfast and not fall apart.

Psalm 29:11 assures us that the Lord will give us strength and that He will bless us with His peace.

The Promise of His Presence

Isaiah 41:10 reads:

Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

This verse provides us with a promise, instruction, and the reasons why we should obey it.

We should not fear or be alarmed by the enemy’s tactics because God is with us, He is our God. God will help us and hold us up.

The Promise of the Holy Spirit

The Father sent us a comforter, which is the Holy Spirit (John 14:16-18, John 16:13, John 14:26).  Jesus promised that He would not leave us as orphans.  God sent the Holy Spirit to be our help and our encouragement.  The Holy Spirit was given to us to guide us into all truth – not alternative facts.  The Spirit of God is also a teacher, who helps us to remember what we have learned, and assists us in applying God’s word to our lives.

So, What’s the Play Call?

As believers, we must not consider the latest CNN headlines more than we believe the word of God.

Instead of logging on to Twitter or your favorite news source when you first wake up, engage heaven. Talk to God in prayer.  Give Him the first part of your day.  Instead of letting the headlines determine your outlook for the day, look to the word of God.  Allow His peace and the truth of His word to settle any anxiousness that you may be experiencing.

Instead of feeding your spirit with current events, meditate on the word of God.

Rather than falling for the lies of the enemy, substitute alternative facts with the eternal truth of God’s word!

 

How do you guard your heart against the enemy’s alternative facts?
Comment below.

3 Embarrassing Ways Christians Let the Devil Win “Employee of the Month”

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Last night’s 59th annual Grammy® Awards shifted into a mini worship service when the winner for Best New Artist, Best Rap Performance, and Best Rap Album, Chance the Rapper, took the stage with Kirk Franklin and Tamela Mann (both winners of the evening).

“How great is our God, sing with me, how great is our God!”

Kicked off with Chris Tomlin’s anthem, “How Great is our God”, the collaboration on Chance’s single, How Great, exploded on stage with full orchestra and choir. But, what was the real stand-out feature of the performance for me?

The genius lyrics.

“Devil will win employee of the
month by the dozen / 
Til one score and three years from the third when he doesn’t…”

 

While Internet prophets and rap interpreters reason together on the meaning of those “bars”, let’s talk a little bit about how the devil wins Employee of the Month.

Is he really winning? And if yes, did you play a part? Where are we not showing up – dressed, trained, and ready for the game?

The Wins We Often Forfeit

Did you know that the enemy needs your permission, your cooperation to come out on top –  day-to-day, month-to-month (“by the dozen”)? Know that greater is He, Jesus Christ, who lives in us (1 John 4:4), and we are children of an unbeatable, undefeated God.

And if that’s not enough, as the body of Christ, our lives are hidden with Christ in God (Colossians 3:3), and there are no surprise attacks by the enemy that aren’t first vetted by the Father (Job 1:12).

Still, this Christian life takes work. Following Jesus Christ is not for punks.

While we are training and developing discipline in prayer, fasting, time spent with God, the devil and his team are on the prowl hard at work trying to destroy us (1 Peter 5:8).

You do realize that there are no coffee breaks in the fight of faith, right? There are no vacation days from serving God. Likewise, do you think the devil and company take smoke breaks (no pun), saying, “We’ll give the church a break this week, we won’t bother them.”

So, what role do we play when it seems like the enemy is winning? As we work out our salvation (Philippians 2:12), where are the holes in our performance, quality, timeliness – whereas the devil is on his game? In what situations do we drop the ball for the devil to steal and make a slam dunk?

Here are 3 areas in our lives to watch and avoid the embarrassment of giving the enemy the win.

1. Avoiding Responsibility

“The dog ate my homework” was barely cute in grade school. In the body of Christ, “the devil made me do it” – not taking ownership and responsibility for our actions places the enemy in a false position of power. How many times have we gone to God, like Adam (Genesis 3:12), and attempted to place blame on others for our own decisions?

Take your power back – even in your mistakes, Team! When we confess “I did it”, God is faithful and just to forgive us (1 John 1:9). Own your lessons and learn from them. Only then, will you grow stronger and be able to help others overcome the devil by your testimony (Revelation 12:11).

2. Believing the Lies

Like all worthy opponents, the devil talks trash.  He knows your weaknesses. The enemy knows what buttons to push. And, throughout the day, he strategically drops hints – thoughts and imaginations in your head that are in direct opposition to what God thinks and says about us.

Don’t believe the lies! When you do, you adopt the mindset of the enemy in agreement with his words. And, if the devil’s mind is made up to “devour” you, you’ll soon find yourself sharpening his teeth for the meal…and you’re the main course!

Counter every lie like our Coach has taught us – with every word that comes from the mouth of God (Matthew 4:4).

3. Living All Faith, No Action

Talk is cheap, Team. Same goes for “faith” talk. Do you have a good faith “talk game”, but no action? Are you riddled with apathy, and allergic to action?

So many in the body of Christ today are infected with dead faith. Our friends or co-workers are living defeated lives, but we’re afraid to share Jesus Christ. People are suffering from real poverty and social injustice, and we simply offer “I’ll be praying for you” or “God is in control.”

The devil is not afraid of your action-less faith. Show the enemy your works. Do something! Back up the scriptures you quote with a life of action that aligns with good works.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Honor God in excellence.

Whatever you say or do, do it for God’s glory in the name of the Lord (Colossians 3:17). With God’s glory as your constant focus, the spirit of excellence (not perfection) will guide you on the path to growth and strength to overcome the enemy every time.

Lecrae on “Blessings” and What the Body of Christ Often Overlooks

Count it Up

Can you remember the days of driving your car with little to no gas – laying hands on the dashboard to reach your destination? Have you ever had bills stacked so high, you had to rob Peter to pay Paul, and Paul still came up short? Or, perhaps you, too, grew up on fried bologna sandwiches, like the 2-time Grammy®, 7-time GMA Dove award-winning president of Reach Records, Lecrae.

Better yet, ever consider that your worst days would have been someone else’s best days?

Lecrae’s latest single, “Blessings“, featuring Ty Dolla $ign, has been lighting up the airways since its drop on January 27th. Slated to appear on his next album, the first project after partnering with Columbia Records, “Blessings” is a reminder to us all to count it up!

A modern-day King David with fierce hip-hop swag, Lecrae’s “Blessings” echoes what Psalm 103:2-5 has emphasized throughout the ages – don’t forget God’s many blessings!

How Could We Forget His Blessings?

David and Lecrae are on to something. We need the reminder. Unfortunately, it’s rather easy sometimes for us to forget how far God has brought us. And, when our major blessings and motion picture testimonies fade with time – when we’re no longer scraping, struggling, and crying out to God for a breakthrough – we’re often too complacent or familiar with the calm to recognize our common graces.

We caught up with Lecrae at the Super Bowl Gospel Celebration; here’s what he had to share:

So, What’s the Play Call?

Don’t forget the common blessings God gives you. Remember that “it could always be worse”. Think about the blessing of breath before you use your breath to complain.

Make the intentional choice to find the blessing in every lesson. Every hardship shines with a golden nugget for us to take with us for the journey ahead.

Try a daily Gratitude Jar – write down something you’re grateful for every day, and place it in a jar. At the end of the year, COUNT IT UP! Your blessings will undoubtedly outnumber your bad days.

Keep yourself encouraged! Support artists with uplifting messages, like Lecrae. Get your copy of “Blessings” on Amazon, Google Play, iTunes, and other digital outlets.

HOW WILL YOU INTENTIONALLY REMEMBER
GOD’S BLESSINGS IN YOUR LIFE?

The 18th Annual Super Bowl Gospel Celebration: Faith and Football Meet Again!

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On today, Friday, February 3, 2017, the NFL Sanctioned Super Bowl Gospel Celebration (SBGC) will kick-off Super Bowl LI with its 18th Annual star-studded music jubilation at Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas. This year’s Celebration will be hosted by husband-wife duo, actors (Tyler Perry’s Meet the Browns) and gospel singers David and Tamela Mann. The annual event joins together key NFL Players, top Gospel/Contemporary Christian and mainstream GRAMMY® Award-winning artists and special guests all on one stage to bring audiences an evening of uplifting music and inspirational messages. Tickets are available for purchase through Ticket Master and Ticket Servant. The concert will air on BET and Centric TV on February 5, 2017 at 11:00 AM ET/CT (special will re-air at 11:00 PM ET/CT).

Taking the stage for this year’s concert will be ten-time GRAMMY® Award-winning and best-selling female gospel artist of all time CeCe Winans, six-time GRAMMY® Award-nominated and five-time Dove Award Female Vocalist of the Year, contemporary Christian singer Natalie Grant, and world renowned and EMMY® Award-winning contemporary soul violinist Damien Escobar. Other performers include gospel singers Yolanda Adams and Jekalyn Carr, hip-hop artists BJ the Chicago Kid and Lecrae and R&B singers Lalah Hathaway and Anthony Hamilton and special surprise guests.

The highlight of this year’s show will be the NFL Players Choir, which features 40 current and former NFL players. The choir has become one of the most anticipated performances during Super Bowl Weekend, which is now celebrating its ten-year anniversary. Musical Director Myron Butler will also be returning this year to lead the choir.

“We founded this event to bring even more inspiration and celebration to one of the biggest events of the year – the Super Bowl,” says Melanie Few-Harrison, Creator & Executive Producer of Super Bowl Gospel Celebration. “Each year we aim to touch lives in a meaningful way and make the Super Bowl Gospel Celebration bigger than the last with artists and special guests. We look forward to kicking off Super Bowl 51 in Houston and making our mark as the best most uplifting event we’ve had in our 18-year history!”

For more information about Super Bowl Gospel Celebration, visit: www.SuperBowlGospel.com.

For behind the scenes, exclusive clips and photos from Super Bowl Gospel, log on to BET.com/SuperBowlGospel and join the conversation on social media using the hashtag #SuperbowlGospel.

Facebook & Twitter: @SuperBowlGospel and @BET

About The Super Bowl Gospel Celebration:

The Super Bowl Gospel Celebration was launched in Miami in 1999 during Super Bowl XXXIII weekend. The event became the first, and remains the only Gospel concert sanctioned by the National Football League (NFL). The show has drawn crowds in the thousands and has demonstrated growth year-after-year, selling out venues in major Super Bowl host cities including Dallas, Tampa, Detroit, Jacksonville, Houston and Phoenix.

About BET Networks:

BET Networks, a subsidiary of Viacom Inc. (VIA)(VIAB), is the nation’s leading provider of quality entertainment, music, news and public affairs television programming for the African-American audience. The primary BET channel reaches more than 90 million households and can be seen in the United States, Canada, the Caribbean, the United Kingdom and sub-Saharan Africa. BET is the dominant African-American consumer brand with a diverse group of business extensions: BET.com, a leading Internet destination for Black entertainment, music, culture, and news; CENTRIC, a 24-hour entertainment network targeting the African-American Woman; BET Music Networks – BET Jams, BET Soul and BET Gospel; BET Home Entertainment; BET Live, BET’s growing festival business; BET Mobile, which provides ringtones, games and video content for wireless devices; and BET International, which operates BET around the globe.

Team Jesus Magazine is honored to cover Super Bowl Gospel Celebration this year! Follow us on Periscope and Facebook Live @TeamJesusMag for red carpet festivities with your favorite NFL players and gospel artists.

In Sickness and in Health: What’s Your Bedside Manner?

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It’s been said, Cleavers, that the only thing that should take place in your bedroom is sex and sleep.

Well, recently I brought the dreaded “S” into our bedroom for a good 10 days: Sickness.

Due to physical exertion, I triggered pre-existing nerve damage causing a flair up of sciatica. Plus, since I always want to out-do myself, I also pulled a major muscle in my left side.

Fortunately, this is not our first rodeo with sickness. We have switched roles between patient and caregiver several times during the marriage journey.  I can hear my husband saying “you are a walking accident waiting to happen; you know you’re too fragile to keep up with me.  I am the brawn, stick to being the brain.”

There’s a little truth to all he said, whether I like it or not. Now, the doctor’s orders are 10 days of bed rest to decrease the swelling to get back to 100%.

For many of you reading, we know how we usually pick which parts of the doctor’s orders we will follow.  That’s why my good caregiver is going to ensure I am obedient to 100% of the doctor’s recommendation.

The Word of God tells us:

To do what is right is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.” Proverb 21:3

Likewise, if we don’t want to sacrifice our health, we must learn to follow ALL of the doctor’s instructions.

How’s Your Relationship Bedside Manner?

Are you able to receive instructions as the patient? Are you able to administer the instructions as a loving caregiver?

In order for the marriage to stay healthy while one spouse is ill, both the caregiver and the patient have to carry their weight.

Within your marriage, you want more good days than bad, right? Well, the bad days are promised, but the key is how will you work through the bad days together.

The Patient’s  Role

As the patient, you have the privilege of receiving the desired bedside manner you need, but also the duty to receive and carry out the instructions given by your caregiving mate. Patients have to be DOERS of instruction (James 1:22).  What’s the ideal way to interact with your spouse?

Have Patience.

Even as much as your mate knows about you, s/he is not a mind reader.  Be clear about your needs, limitations, and what you are expecting of them during your period of illness.  It may be a new situation for them; give them time to adjust to the new arrangements with a good attitude.

Don’t be Selfish or Self-Centered.

It is not all about you!  Yes, you are the patient, but you are still a part of a relationship. Don’t become so absorbed in your needs and wants during this period. Be sure to take time to encourage your mate to continue self-care so they will have the strength and stamina to take care of you.

Do What You Can for Yourself.

Allowing or requiring someone to wait on you hand and foot is tempting, but not expedient. Zero movement on your part puts increased, unnecessary responsibility on your mate. After a period of time, this could possibly turn them into a patient. And you wouldn’t want that, right? Try not to become an unnecessary burden (2 Corinthians 8:13).

The Caregiver’s Role

The caregiver is given the opportunity to be nurturing and serve their mate. Even if it’s a stretch for you to be nurturing, see this season as a growth opportunity to step up to what the new situation requires. How can a caregiver maintain a helpful attitude?

Put on the Patient’s Shoes.

“If this was me…” Well, it’s not you. Caregivers have to step out of themselves and have empathy for the patient. Treat your spouse as the individual they are, not how you would want to be treated, or how you would handle the situation.

Don’t Judge Your Spouse’s Pain.

You may have had or been through the same diagnosis, but it’s important to remember that everyone does not have the same thresholds or tolerance as another. Allow the patient spouse to establish the schedule of medications that fit their pain needs, as long as they stay within the guidelines of the doctor’s orders.

Do More Than Asked.

To eliminate feeling annoyed with a barrage of requests, think ahead of all upcoming needs and group them together. For instance, when bringing medicine, go ahead and bring water and food to coordinate three steps into one.

Be careful, patients and caregivers. Do not to get stuck in these roles! Allow yourself to recognize the transition back into the good days, and not become stuck in the behaviors and role play of sickness.

So, What’s the Play Call?

In sickness and in health, continue to show love.  This is the time when your actions should speak even louder!

Recognize the limitations of your mate to reduce re-occurring damage. Be their keeper and help them not to endanger themselves.

Recognize if you need outside help. This situation may be beyond your ability to nurture them back to health alone. Seek experts to deal with mental or physical disabilities that require a lifetime of re-adjustment. Get the assistance and skills needed to cope with the change.

Celebration of Life for Bishop Eddie Long

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Legacy of a General

bishop eddie longToday, thousands of family, friends, and congregants from near and far gathered at New Birth Missionary Baptist Church to celebrate the life and ministry of Bishop Eddie L. Long. Reflections and fond memories were shared during civic and community tributes by former Georgia Governor Roy Barnes, Civil Rights Leader and Trumpet Awards founder, Xernona Clayton, and friend, football Hall of Famer, Deion Sanders, including tributes from ministry leaders and the family.

We were honored to pay our respects along with thousands of worshippers in the congregation; we all faithfully followed the instructions of the worship leader:

“This is a time for celebration and worship, not mourning.”

Uplifting and moving songs by the New Birth Memorial Choir, which overflowed from the choir loft onto the stage, set the jubilant tone for the homegoing service.

The service began with Bishop Long lying in state, donned in white regalia, his cross, and rings – which were removed and given to First Lady Elder Vanessa Long.

The church was encouraged to have the proper perspective about his attire: “Bishop is dressed to meet the King. A bishop is the prince in the church, so he is dressed to meet the King as a member of the royal priesthood.”

Bishop’s casket was soon removed from the sanctuary at the family’s request so that the congregation would know that the moment was about Jesus – not a time to focus on Bishop Long.

Eulogized by long-time friend and brother in the ministry, Bishop Neil C. Ellis, the New Birth family was encouraged to keep the Kingdom vision that God had given to Bishop Long alive:

“Keep the standard high, keep the vision fresh, keep the cross in view.” – Bishop Ellis

The legacy of Bishop Eddie Long will live on in the countless lives he touched with the gospel of Jesus Christ and service to others.

Here’s one of our favorite clips of Bishop Long and the fruit of his ministry, winning souls to Christ:

The days ahead will be challenging for the Long and New Birth family. Our prayers to all that God would be close, and provide comfort, healing, and strength.

Is There a Heaven for a Gangster, or You?

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“…At one time you all had your backs turned to God, thinking rebellious thoughts of him, giving him trouble every chance you got. But now, by giving himself completely at the Cross, actually dying for you, Christ brought you over to God’s side and put your lives together, whole and holy in his presence. You don’t walk away from a gift like that! You stay grounded and steady in that bond of trust, constantly tuned in to the Message, careful not to be distracted or diverted…” Colossians 1:21-23 (MSG)

Is There a Heaven for a Gangster?

Or a murderer? Or a prostitute? Or a scammer? Or an adulterer? Or an {insert your –er}?

Short answer: Yes.

Long answer: Yes, but repentance is required.

Let’s talk about repentance for a bit.

It’s a big word, ten letters in all. It sounds like something a preacher would holler from the pulpit in the midst of a hellfire and brimstone sermon. It would sound pretty scary to a sinner like me, before I knew better.

Repentance simply means to change your mind.

It’s not a change your mind, like, “I want apple pie. Better yet, let me get sweet potato pie. Or pecan pie. Maybe.”

It means to decide to allow the Holy Spirit to change your mind about the things that are drawing you away from God. It means to submit your heart so that those things that used to appeal to the desires of your heart would never appeal to you again.

Now, about those gangsters and murderers and scammers and prostitutes and adulterers…

The New Testament G’s

Saul was both a gangster and a murderer. Bartimeus was a scammer and a tax collector.  Mary Magdelene was a prostitute.

Yet, God still invited them all to follow Him.

Y’all do remember that Saul used to persecute people who followed Jesus, kill them and/or throw them in jail, right? BUT GOD offered him the invitation to follow Him. And Saul said, YES!

And that’s the key. Heaven for any of us depends on if we put down our old life and say YES. I don’t care what you’ve done – and neither does God.

According to Revelation 22:17, there is always an invitation available. It doesn’t matter if people think you’re undeserving, Jesus says come! Crip, Blood, Latin King – Come! It doesn’t matter if you yourself think that your life has been a series of anti-God decisions, Come! Stripping, selling your body, selling dope, selling stolen goods, Jesus says, “Come!”

What’s Your RSVP for Heaven?

All He asks is that you allow the Holy Spirit to change your mind about your old life and choose a new life in Him.

“Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have THE RIGHT to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city.” Rev 22:14 (NIV)

Jesus died for our sins. This is true. He died so that our sins would be forgiven. It’s unconditional. But remember when Jesus meets the woman at the well who has had 5 husbands and is fooling around with boyfriend #6? He tells her to go and sin no more. She says YES in her actions – runs off to tell people about the man she met who told her all about her life.

So, yes. There is a heaven for a gangster and anyone else who has lived a life that resembles hell on earth. But, the same loyalty that was given to the old lifestyle will now be required in the new.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Work out your own soul salvation with all seriousness and urgency. Meditate on and apply 2 Chronicles 7:14 to your life this week, it reads:

If my people who belong to me will humbly pray, seek my face, and turn (repent) from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, forgive their sin, and heal their land.”

 

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