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The True Source of ‘Happy’ for a Happy New Year

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What a year. 2020 met us with the hopes of new beginnings, changes in diet, travel plans, personal and professional goals, family traditions, and excitement for a fresh start.

Never in a million years would I have imagined that I would be writing an article at the end of a year that included nine months and counting of a world pandemic… not a pandemic in the United States of America, but the World.

Let that sink in.

As I type, I’m struggling to find the words to encourage every person who’s reading this right now. While I’m not about to share some secret message of assurance that 2021 will be different, but I’m sure that what we have endured through this year has definitely equipped humanity to:

  • Live life to the fullest.
  • Love deeper.
  • Cherish family and friends more.
  • Appreciate what you have without complaints about what you don’t have, and,
  • Trust God in a way that you never have before. 

Does that sum it up for the most part?

Make Preparation for a Happy New Year

contentmentBut as I ponder this year and think about the fact that I’m now on the last day of December, my posture of prayer and thought has been, “Lord, prepare me for YOU.” Yes. Read that again – God, prepare me for You because what I do know is that if I have YOU, I have everything I need.

Everything that was deemed ‘normal’ in my world was changed. I went through every human cycle of being uncomfortable that led me back to what I already knew. I needed to be reminded not to place more value on temporary people, places, or things. We are ‘passing through’ and this is not a final destination.

The earthly pause that we all took from every sense of normalcy forced us to prioritize what was important in a way like never before. So for this, I won’t allow the shock of this year to dampen my spirits for the new year to come. Yes, the year in its totality was difficult, but God still showed me that He is very much so in control. He stated in His Word – He has not left me or forsaken me.

A Happy New Year Requires the Right Diet

study God's wordThis year did not rob me of God’s blessings even though it was difficult at times to see. I never hesitated to say with confidence when asked, ‘How are you doing?” I would reply, “It’s been difficult BUT I am grateful for God keeping me during this time.”

God was and is my source for life and my well being. I never went hungry, I kept employment, I had shelter and I had friends, family, and co-workers checking on me constantly. Unfortunately, that was not the same narrative for a lot of people worldwide. And while I’m grateful, my heart can’t help but grieve for the many people who have not been able to sustain themselves or their families.

To put it simple…I would say that I’m a pretty RICH girl because to me, true wealth can be found in the intangible components of life. Going into this new year may easily feel intimating not knowing if things are going to get worse or better, but the very thing that is going to determine your new year is what you are feeding your mind and spirit.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Your spiritual diet will be a key factor in seeing the new year in a positive way despite the previous year. You did it before, right? So, you can do it again! Here are 3 play calls that will help you stay positive and encouraged as you enter into a year of uncertainty.

  1. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” ~ Philippians 4:8
  2. “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” ~ 2 Timothy 1:7
  3. “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast,
     because they trust in you.” ~ Isaiah 26:3

Have a happy new year!

The ‘Yes Face’: Can Others See Hope and Positivity in Your Face?

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When President Thomas Jefferson was traveling with companions across the country on horseback in the early 1800s, he approached a large river that needed to be carefully crossed. A stranger appeared and wondered how he was going to get across. He looked at the President and asked if he could get a ride across the river. Thomas Jefferson said, “Sure, hop on!” As the stranger slid off the horse on the other side, one of the companions questioned why he asked the President for a ride. The stranger replied, “I didn’t know he was the President. All I know is that his face said yes, and all your faces said no!”

For some of us, our face has said no many times. Our face has already spoken before we even open our mouths. A friend of mine always says that too many Christians were baptized in lemon juice. They have a scowl on their face and pursed lips. Everything about them says no – their attitude, countenance, demeanor, posture, and facial expressions.

“I never forget a face, but in your case, I’ll be glad to make an exception.”
– Groucho Marx

Do More Christians have a No Face Instead of a Yes Face?

anger issues menUnfortunately, many coaches, athletes, teachers, neighbors, bosses, friends, and church members that I knew wore the No-Face. They didn’t know they were coming across that way, and I don’t think they wanted to wear the No-Face. Thankfully, I had some amazing people in my life who would win the gold medal in the Yes Face competition. My high school football coach, my fifth grade English teacher, my college equipment manager, and my mom are just a few gold medal winners. 

Truth is, our fellow teammates and the world watch our non-verbal communication. They know what we are saying without us saying a word. We are being evaluated during our conversations and interactions with others. People watch followers of Christ from a distance and want to know if they can trust us enough to get on the horse and get a ride across the river.

10 Defining Characteristics of a Yes Face

What does a Yes Face say – without even saying a word? A Yes Face is:

  1. Positive
  2. Trusting
  3. Confident
  4. Refreshing
  5. Smiling
  6. Available
  7. Approachable
  8. Inviting
  9. Gentle
  10. Forgiving

A Yes Face is simply the outward expression of an inward experience. As followers of Christ, the inward experience is the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. The fruit of the Spirit is the cord that connects our hearts with our faces. Our countenance should exude our confidence in Christ. A Yes Face has a Spirit-filled heart. A Yes-Face has a godly heart.

“Just as water mirrors your face, so your face mirrors your heart.” Proverbs 27:19

Is your face screaming no and people can’t hear your heart? What does your face say about you? If you need a face change, start with the heart, and ask God to fill you with the fruit of the Spirit. He loves transforming hearts. Your face will follow your heart.

Let’s see those Yes Faces! Start with the heart. Think about it.

So, What’s The Play Call?

  1. How can a locker room full of No-Faces impact the team dynamic? How about Yes-Faces?
  2. Who in your life would win a Yes Face gold medal?
  3. What is your face saying? What would your teammates say?
  4. How is God changing your heart so your teammates and others can see it on your face?

How Does God Define Success?

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I can confidently say that I have never met someone who didn’t desire to be successful and prosperous. I believe no one in their right mind wants to fail. I know I don’t. But one day, as I began my meditation on the Word of God, a question struck my spirit: What is success to God?

People have inaccurately defined success as abundance. So, if a person has a career that makes money, houses, cars, things, or earthly legacies, people generally would identify them as successful. But, does God feel the same? You and I are believers, and we must see things as God sees them and define them according to our playbook, The Word of God.

What is Success?

Dictionaries define success as an accomplishment. But surprisingly, the word “success” is written only one time in the Bible.

Joshua 1:8 says, “This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.”

There is so much to this Scripture, and it speaks volumes to the church. The words “prosperous” and “success” are terms that the church magnifies. Every person is seeking their path to prosperity and success. However, God’s Word does not base success and prosperity on the increase of goods, unlike the world. Look at the scripture; nowhere does it correlate success with business, finances, money, or blessings. Success is based on obedience to God.

We’ve all heard it before, the “prosperity gospel.” But, there were people all throughout Scripture, including our Savior, who were not increased with goods and found themselves “abased” at times (Phillipians 4:12), but they were successful. Is having money and possessions a sin? Certainly not. But, you and I must change our perspective on what success is and who we congratulate as successful when their success does not align with how God defines it.

Joshua 1:8 provides three stipulations to attaining success and prosperity:

  1. Not allowing God’s law to depart from your mouth.
  2. Meditate on His law day and night.
  3. To do all that is written in God’s law.

When all three are complete, the Scripture closes with a promise of prosperity and good success.

Desire Good Success

One thing I found very interesting about Joshua 1:8 is that it specifies a type of success. The term “good” precedes the word “success” as an adjective. Adjectives are potent in understanding Biblical revelation. For example, John 14:6, which speaks about Jesus being the way, truth, and life details to us through the article/adjective “the” that there is a single way, truth, and life. Therefore, phrases like “my truth” are Biblically incorrect because the Word declares there is no other truth than that of Jesus Christ. Joshua 1:8 teaches us in a like manner that the success God is referring to is “good.”

Moreover, since we can conclude that success can be good, then there must be an opposite. So, what is the opposite of “good” success?

I did a podcast episode about the word “good” and how its Biblical meaning is more than just the quality of a subject, but it’s also defined as approved. Understanding this, we can identify this kind of success as an accomplishment approved by God. On the other hand, we can also sum up the opposite of good success as accomplishments unapproved by God.

You might be wondering, what would make an accomplishment unapproved by God? Simple; it is when it breaks God’s law in any way.

All Good Success is not Good

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Let me make it straightforward. You may see a person with a great career, houses, cars, equity, and label them as successful. Indeed they are, but they may have attained this success through drug dealing. As believers, there is no way we can label their “success” as good because God is not pleased with the way or method in which they became successful.

Or, what if a person is a believer, and gained their increase in goods the honest way? But they fail to complete the three stipulations of success, and never do the Word of God? Would this person be successful if they achieved much without godliness? Certainly not. The increase in goods is not what follows a person into eternity. We may be saved by grace, but we are judged according to our works (Revelation 20:12).

Here is another example, people are claiming success but are indirectly involved in sin. For example, a person may accomplish a lot by owning a brothel. Although they are not personally prostituting, they make way for others to sin against God. Their achievements are not an example of good success.

I am an author; if I become a New York Times bestseller by writing a book that glorifies any kind of sin, I am not successful. I would prefer two people to purchase my book containing the unadulterated truth of God, rather than one million purchasing a book that defies the law and promotes sin.

Jesus warned the Laodicean church in Revelation 3:17 of this “unapproved success.” These were people that had money and goods. Yet Jesus told them that they were “wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked.” Those are sobering words coming from the King.

I write with great passion because it pains me to see many of my brothers and sisters striving for a success that God has not ordained. Or, secretly envious of those who compromise the faith in the name of success.

Live The Approved Life

I sincerely desire that you live the life God wants you to live. I want you to have prosperity and abundance, but not at the expense of your soul. The Bible says in Matthew 16:26, “For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?”

I want to illustrate something for you. Let’s say you receive a prophecy or a dream, and in it, someone tells you, “You are going to be a person of great influence. Many will follow you. You will lead. Your name will be written and remembered for generations to come.” At first glance, you may be praising God because this sounds like success. But this can be a “word” given to both a “Deborah” or a “Jezebel” if you are a woman. If you are a man, a “David” and a “Saul.” All four people had the fruit of success, but one man and one woman’s fruit was good, and the others, evil.

I hope this is clear to you because the fruit increase may seem right until evaluating the type of fruit produced.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I hear people say, “If Jesus were in my day, I would have followed Him.” How easy it is to utter those words, but the truth is, if we are not careful, we can be the very people that will reject Jesus now.

Jesus said that in the last days if it were possible, the very “elect” would be deceived (Matthew 24:24). That indicates to me that the cunningness of deceit in this last day is very strong. Think about it; if Jesus were here now, people would say he was not successful. He had nowhere to lay His head (Matthew 8:19-20). He had to go fishing to pay His taxes. He was incarcerated and died at 33. John the Baptist lived in the woods, eating locusts and honey. He wore animal hair for his clothing. But it was those in “high places” or those labeled as successful who are responsible for both Jesus’ and John’s deaths.

It is time that you and I seek a clearer vision. We have to look through the eyes of God and His Word, or we will find ourselves approving what God has rejected. To the world, godly success won’t look as prestigious. But, if you never inherit this earth’s good, think about the crown of life that will sit tall and beautifully upon your head when God, the Father, and Jesus our Lord welcomes you into the Kingdom.

Now. After all that you have read, what is success to you?

 

Meet the People Who Minister in America’s Food Chain

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In early spring, the coronavirus pandemic sent the global food supply chain into disarray. In US grocery stores, prices surged, and many items—not just toilet paper—simply disappeared from shelves.

At some fruit and vegetable farms across the country—particularly those that sell directly to consumers or stores—business remained strong or even improved. But other farms watched the market for their produce dry up overnight, forcing them to cut operations, pull acreage out of production, and endure the heartbreak of tilling harvest-ready crops into the ground.

At the base of this teetering agricultural system are migrant farmworkers. Just under 10 percent of laborers come to the United States on H-2A visas, which allow them to work in agriculture for up to 10 months. The other 90 percent of seasonal farmworkers live domestically and often earn minimum wage, patching together jobs in hospitality, restaurants, and a rotating schedule of crops. Nearly half are not authorized to work in the United States.

For many workers, the pandemic has made an already difficult living even more daunting. Growers and packing houses laid-off workers. The virus moved quickly through some farms and buildings that house agricultural workers, many of whom don’t have health insurance.

CT met with pastors, farmers, field workers, and activists in California and North Carolina who were ministering to migrant farmworkers before the pandemic and continue to do so today. In ministries of word, mercy, and justice, these Christians are approaching the complex challenges facing laborers in ways that are varied and, at times, even contradictory.

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San Joaquin Valley, California

The sun had not fully risen when Tom Rios sat down with the men in his morning Bible study. To accommodate the schedules of the workers who participate, the study convened at 5:30 a.m. Today, they were meeting in Rios’s backyard just outside of Kingsburg, California, nestled between fields and orchards along the banks of the Kings River.

They discussed Romans 1:16–17. Christ alone, Rios explained in Spanish, is sufficient to satisfy a just God. He is the only mediator between God and man.

No hay otro,” Rios said. “No hay otro.”

José Macias nodded along. This truth changed his life, he said later. He works for an irrigation company, pumping water to the fruit orchards that …

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When Your Heart Needs a Little More Healing Than You Thought

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My house is an older house and all of my outlets were two-prong instead of three. We recently had an electrician come to switch them all over. From the information he was given, he only needed to change the outlets. He’d be out on Tuesday and the job would take about 4 hours.

The guy gets to my house on that Tuesday at about 9:00 am and gets right to work. He goes to the basement to cut the power and notices that my breaker box would need to be replaced. This was important because it’s where all my electricity runs through and if this thing were to go out, I’d have a huge problem. He decided to fix that at the end and go ahead with the initial plan.

Real Heart Matters Run Deep

tired burned outAs he began removing outlets, he noticed that the wiring was old as well. Once he began removing stuff, wires started crumbling right in his hands. It was so bad that he asked me if I was sure I hadn’t had any power outages and said it was a wonder that I hadn’t had any fires (imagine my horror).

What started out being a 4-hour job, quickly became two days. By the time he was finished, it’d taken him five workdays (6-8 hours each day). Whoa… I know. This meant that not only was he and his coworker at my house for five days, but I also had to be there. It gave me a bit of anxiety. You know, not only having to be in my space but someone I didn’t know being there as well. I spent most of the time in my bedroom and I was exhausted, bothered, and ready for them to be done.

So, I did what any mature adult would do, I called my mom. She listened then calmed me down (because I threw a tantrum). She helped me to rationalize that this was a good thing, a necessary thing. My home was being improved, upgraded, and taken care of. The time would be worth it. The isolation would be worth it. I’d be safer and I would have something to show for it.

Y’all know I needed all of that because, well, I wasn’t mentally prepared to devote an entire week to sitting in my bedroom while strangers pulled my house apart.

Healing is Coming for Your Heart Matters

heartMany times, we’ll find that our lives are much like my house. No, not the old part, but the part where we need some maintenance done.

There will be times when we decide to do some self-improving and find that our issues are much deeper and severe than we were prepared for. You know, like the old wiring in my house. We may even notice that our breaker box (our heart) needs some healing.

See, we may ignore or neglect our own heart matters for so long that they worsen over time. Frustration with that one person may become resentment. Feelings of offense can lead to unforgiveness. All that shutting people out can easily lead to feelings of loneliness. Yep, that’s bad wiring, and you may not even notice it until you set out to fix a surface-level problem. And, just like that, you’ll be caught off guard and led down a road that you were unprepared to travel.

You may experience some isolation, the way I did, sitting in my room. But, there are some things that God cannot rid us of until there are no outside distractions.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I know it’s tough to see yourself this way, but it’s necessary. Here are some things to recall when you need a little more work than you thought you did:

  1. Ask God to search your heart. Just as I had no idea of the condition of the wiring in my house, you won’t know the actual condition of your heart until you ask the Expert to search you. “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:” Psalms 139:23
  2. Let God clean your heart. Many of the things that plague us lead to heart matters. This is why we must willingly allow God to cleanse us. “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalms 51:10
  3. Ask God to help you cope. Listen, there were a billion times in that 5-day period that I had to ask God to help me deal with what was going on. Anxiety started to set in, I was upset and tired. We experience these same emotions when there is construction going on inside of us. “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.” Isaiah 41:10
  4. Don’t let anxious thoughts get the better of you. Thoughts are something else, aren’t they? I mean, all it takes is one and we’re headed off the deep end. Let God give you peace. “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (NKJV)

Please note that you are being improved, upgraded, and taken care of. The time will be worth it. The isolation will be worth it. You will be safer, and you’ll have something better to show for it.

The Work of the Church: Serving the King and the Least of These

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Photo credit: Matthew Woitunski

Church Work vs. Service to Others

serviceAre you in a rut? The Christian kind — when you serve all day or all week at church, but don’t really feel like you’re touching the heart of your King? Does your true service to others feel non-existent?

I found 5 areas where we are called to serve that directly blesses Him. But, don’t take my word for it, read it from Christ Himself:

“For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me…Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” Matthew 25: 35-36, 40

Often times, we underestimate the power of kindness shown in secret. Work done outside the four walls of the church, unnoticed and without immediate reward, seems worthless or worth less than holding down the position of usher, deacon, greeter or Sunday school teacher.

But, Christ gives us simple examples of how to serve Him. He values our actions towards those whom the world views as less than valuable. I encourage you to read through this section of scripture and ask God to show you literal ways to serve Him by serving those around you.

Christian Church Work: How Can We Be Your Hands and Feet, Lord?

When I asked Him this question, here’s what He shared with me. As you go about your day, search for:

Those who are hungry and thirsty

I live in a decent-sized city, so it’s not difficult for me to find people carrying cardboard signs exclaiming their hunger. There is an incredible physical need in this world to combat poverty. Our bodies can’t function to the fullest without proper nutrition, but what often goes unnoticed is nourishment for our malnourished souls.

Did you know that you can eat and still be hungry? You can drink and still be thirsty? Jesus met a woman at a well and introduced her to Himself, a well that would never run dry (John 4:14). It might seem easier to buy a sandwich for someone to satisfy their growling belly, but let’s not forget to stay focused on giving the gift of Jesus Christ that will satisfy their soul.

Those who are left out

We all desire community. It’s a basic necessity, according to Psychologist Abraham Maslow’s renowned pyramid of needs. People want to belong and feel as if someone cares about them. Perhaps the term stranger didn’t necessarily refer to someone outside the body of Christ, but rather inside.

Is there someone in your congregation who always sits alone? Let’s always be willing to expand the boundaries of the circles we keep by welcoming and serving others.

Those without a covering

Practically, there is immense value in clothing someone. My daughter and I were taking a walk to the store and we passed by a man who appeared to be homeless. His clothes were dirty and full of holes. My heart hurt because I didn’t have the money to buy him a new shirt or pair of pants.

The Lord heard my cry and reminded me of another way I could cover this man, in prayer. What a beautiful reflection of Christ — to cover someone especially when you’ve seen their shame.

Those who are sick

God is the same yesterday, today and forever. The same power that raised Jesus Christ from the dead lives in us, and we have the privilege of declaring healing over every sickness and disease. This is the absolute truth, but in the verse above, Jesus described service to the sick as “looking after Me” not “healing Me”. Let’s ultimately believe God for healing, but remain compassionate caregivers to those in need during the process.

Those who are bound

I’ve always admired those who worked in prison ministries. They cast out judgment and fear to speak life to those whose lives are lived behind bars. I have never had the opportunity to actually go to a prison, but I have had the experience of being bound myself.

When I see that someone is bound by the enemy, I don’t stand tall in my new place of freedom and look down upon them. I visit them, the same way Jesus visited me in my own pit. It’s entirely humbling and uncomfortable at times, but it brings honor and glory to our King and freedom to our brothers and sisters.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I pray that we would always be mindful of Christ’s definition of service. As we grow in our walk with the Lord, let us not ever forget to honor the least of these by serving others, because in doing so, we honor our great and mighty King.

Holding Water: Our Role as Love Covers a Multitude of Sins

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I’ve Got a Testimony – About You!

love covers a multitude of sinsWhen presented with the opportunity to tell your “testimony” or experience, can you recognize the opportunity to show love through silence to those who’ve offended you?

Yes, you’ve been through some terrible trials and tribulations. We’ve got blow-by-blow accounts of what “they” did and said, and some of us have the scars and scabs to show just how deeply we were hurt. And, “they” were wrong. Dead wrong.

But, thanks be to God – it’s a new day! You’ve done the work and reached the benediction of forgiveness, and you’re growing in grace and peace. Awesome.

One day, you’re asked about the experience or this person, directly. You know that in order to tell the “whole” truth, it would require casting the one who hurt you in a negative, disparaging light. It will drastically shift opinions about that person, or perhaps cause them to take a hit financially or in their relationships with others.

What do you do? Do you run and tell it, or do you hold water?

A Time to Tell It, A Time to Hold It

To EVERYTHING there is a time and a season – including silence and speaking (Ecclesiastes 3:7).

There are times when we are to definitely “cry loud, and spare not (Isaiah 58:1).” There are times when only the most extreme honesty and transparency will allow the healing process and needed change to begin. There are times when one-on-one confrontation in black and white is necessary to bring resolution to real problems (Matthew 18:15).

And, there are also times when everything we know and feel doesn’t need to be said.

This is why listening to a loving Holy Spirit who lives within (Romans 8:10-11) is so important. With discernment and a submitted tongue, we will all know if and when it’s time to spill the beans, or when it’s time to join OUR love with God, who is Love, to cover a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).

Co-labor with God Under Someone’s Cover

love covers a multitude of sinsThis is what we’re talking about today, Team. Did you know that we can prematurely un-cover our brothers and sisters while God is doing surgery on them under the covers of love? Who would ever break into an operating room and yank the covers off the patient – or worse yet, pull them down from the operating table while surgery’s in progress?

Team, we must respect God’s individual plans for our lives and understand that we are all in process at different times, in different ways.

Therefore, even when what we have to say is true, we cannot sacrifice the character of others because we are right. And, God will always let us know when we’re about to do so. You’ll feel that hesitation in your spirit that checks you – “Don’t say that, here’s wisdom on how to glorify Me without exposing them.”

The key is dying to self-righteousness under the shadow of an all-righteous God.

But, I Can’t Hold Water

Oh yes, you can! Be aware of how the enemy fights against these moments to mirror God’s covering love. The sign lies in crucifying our flesh as it fights for the right…

  1. To be right.
  2. To show how right we are.
  3. To prove them wrong.
  4. To prove how wrong they are or were.

Though all four are problematic, can you see the difference between 1 and 3, and 2 and 4? Numbers 2 and 4 expose extreme cases of self-righteousness where we’re not just satisfied with being right or them being wrong. There’s a stronghold churning within, laced with insecurities, where the level of our rightness has become an idol to our identity. When God wants us to cover someone’s faults, our right to be right must be humbled under the will of God. He is giving us a beautiful chance to work with Him; He’s not working against us.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Maximize your moments to exercise love one to another by honoring your opportunities to cover one another’s faults – just as God’s love covers yours. Remember, when you sow covering, you reap covering (Galatians 6:7).

When God’s will calls for us to “hold water”, we must keep matters confidential – even when the matter is a part of our own experiences. Give every hurtful, sad, angry event, and experience over to God – it belongs to you now, Lord!

Count it all a greater joy to collaborate with God and His will for others, than to “be right” by wrongfully exposing your brother or sister.

Play nice with your sister or brother’s cover – you never know when you will need to borrow it.

In Jesus’ name, God bless!

 

Little Things Can Lead to Big Success or Big Headaches

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I am always amazed at how disciplined wrestlers are. They say no to the goodies brought to class for birthdays and only eat a small portion of huge holiday meals. Wrestlers watch every item that goes into their mouth and weigh the pros and cons of each bite when cutting weight to qualify for their weight class. Then, after the season ends, they go back to a less regimented lifestyle.

As Christians, do we guard our hearts with such care or do we only do it for a short period? Do we watch every item that enters our ears, eyes, and minds? There are so many things in this world that we could live without. Not everything seems bad, but the bigger question is, “Is it good?” If it is not bringing us closer in our relationship with Jesus, then it is taking us away from Him (James 4:4,8).

Little Things Need Big Attention

pornographyIs this a movie I would be comfortable watching with Him (God) sitting next to me, or music I would listen to with Him, or a book that I would read with Him? If not, then it is probably not something I need to do.

Life is full of choices every day. Someone once told me that I didn’t need to pray about every little thing, but that’s not true. God wants us to pray about everything, even the little things. It is those little things that we ignore that can slowly take us farther away from the person He wants us to be.

What if those wrestlers ate everything that wasn’t high in calories? It would still eventually add up to a lot of calories. The same is true for our small choices. They can be our success or downfall.

Today, I challenge you to really pay attention to everything around you that influences your life, your thoughts, and your relationship with Jesus. Then, fill your mind with things that honor God. In the end, you will be blessed and He will be glorified. Think about it.

So, What’s The Play Call?

  1. Is there something in your life that is keeping you from drawing closer to God?
  2. What can you do to make it easier to make good choices?
  3. In your life, do you have people who can be good sounding boards or can help you down the right path?

 

Church IS Essential: SCOTUS Gets It Right on Religious Liberty

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supreme courtRecently, the Supreme Court issued injunctive relief to houses of worship challenging New York City’s COVID-19 restrictions on in-person gatherings, the first time it has granted such relief during the pandemic. I have mixed views about the decision and early reactions to it.

First, I don’t think this decision is as momentous as commentators are suggesting. It is fairly fact-specific injunctive relief, and the nature and scope of pandemic orders vary greatly around the country. It’s hard to generalize much from this decision, and I’m concerned that public messaging about it will fuel a broader culture wars narrative from religious leaders like John MacArthur who insist “there is no pandemic” and continue to hold services for 7,000 unmasked people. An injunction against a 25-person cap is not a green light to return to regular worship. Given the current state of the pandemic, it’s not even a yellow light.

The dire rates of transmission we’re seeing all around the country, the Thanksgiving holiday travel, and our growing awareness that indoor, in-person gatherings are a major cause of transmission all increase the likelihood that even more restrictions may be becoming. That’s another reason it’s best to view this order as limited and fact-specific.

That said, I think the Court’s decision is correct and offers some important observations. One of the most important is that these shutdown orders cause irreparable harm because they restrict First Amendment freedoms—and that virtual worship is not a constitutionally sufficient alternative. In other words, worship is absolutely an “essential activity” and to say otherwise is constitutionally incorrect …

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5 Tips to Overcome Holiday Blues and Walk in Peace & Joy

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It’s that time of year again, Team – the holidays. Typically, people either love or hate the holiday season because it has a way of making us examine our lives. It might have something to do with it being the end of the year, maybe we’re faced with the reality of what we did or didn’t accomplish and why. Or, it could be that the cold and darker days slow us down long enough to take stock of what and who really matter.

If you have a great family and a cool job, it means so much more, and if not, it seems to hurt so much worse. Let’s touch and agree that we will beat any holiday blues this year and walk in the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Don’t Let Holiday Blues Steal Your Joy

holiday bluesPut the holiday blues in its rightful place this season – far away from your heart and mind – and find peace and joy in the Holy Spirit (Romans 15:13):

1. Redefine the holidays and what they mean to you.

There are no rules; create your own traditions no matter what the holiday season looks like. Maybe on Christmas, instead of opening gifts and loading up on carbs, you take a hike or go to the spa. Maybe you and your friends and family could have a game night or binge watch old movies. We don’t have to be pressured into the commercialized version of the holidays or try and relive or upstage our childhood memories. Even if you have kids, you can do what is best for your mental health and budget.

2. Volunteer and give back.

I know there are a lot of restrictions right now with COVID-19. The shelters and soup kitchens may not allow volunteers to serve as they have in the past. Still, there are many other ways to give back. You can start a coat or toy drive for families in need. You could send cards to the elderly in senior homes. There are so many ways to be a blessing to others. Do some research to see where you might be able to help. When we give to those in need, we give to God (Matthew 25:40). Giving does something for your soul, it truly makes you feel good. Acts 20:35 says, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

3. Get outside.

I know it’s getting cold, Team, but if you can, you should get outside. The winter months tend to turn us into little hermit crabs, but being inside too much can have an effect on you. If you like the lights, there are a lot of drive-through light shows during this time, so take a cup of hot cocoa and enjoy. Of course, there are plenty of non-holiday themed activities, but the point is to stay active. If you don’t have anyone to go with you then maybe go to your favorite café and do a Zoom coffee date. Go to a drive-in movie theatre or create a playlist and take a drive. I know it gets dark early – but live a little!

4. Don’t feel like you’re a bother, stay connected.

For some reason, we try not to reach out to our friends as much during the holiday season because we feel like they’re too busy or we don’t want to seem needy. This is ridiculous! Your friends love you, let them be there for you. As someone who doesn’t live near family, I struggled with this for a while, but I realized that God blessed me with these connections for a reason. It’s okay to lean on them.

5. Consider everything you do have and be grateful.

Maybe you don’t have your dream job, but you have a wonderful family or spouse. Maybe you’re single this year, but you have a great job and a lot of awesome friends. Maybe you’re not able to see your friends and family because of COVID-19, but you have your health and sanity – plus you can video chat with them. Refuse to focus on the things you wished were different and appreciate all that is a blessing in your world.

Negative thoughts sometimes get triggered by random things, and it’s usually subtle, but be mindful to redirect the negativity. Philippians 4:8 tells us to think on things which are lovely, of a good report and praiseworthy. This doesn’t always come easy. It happens when we intentionally disrupt and redirect bad thoughts.

We have to train our minds to stay positive; we can choose joy! Meditation is a powerful tool that works in you to transform your thinking.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Victory over holiday blues is ours for the taking. When you’re finding it difficult to stay positive, happy, or joyful, meditate on Romans 15:13:

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Be Blessed!

 

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