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The #1 Reason You Feel Like a Failure (and How to Fix It)

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Start With These Truths

  1. God has plans for your life that make your wildest dreams look whack. (Ephesians 3:20 MSG)
  2. You’re going to win at what He’s called you to do. (Joshua 1:9 ERV)
  3. You have an adversary that will do anything to stop you from winning. (1 Peter 5:8-11 MSG)
  4. One of your adversaries is YOU. (Mark 11:23 MSG)

Now…

failureLife was hunky-dory when you were just doing whatever. No one had an opinion and you were comfortable with your mediocre life.

But, one day you discovered that God created you on purpose, for a purpose.

And, now, life has become a lot more difficult.

There’s a reason for this: Satan doesn’t fight his own teammates.

When you were living for yourself, you may not have been chanting demonic phrases, but you weren’t living to fulfill the will of God; therefore, you weren’t a threat then.  

Now that you’ve decided to live for God – reconcile with your sister, love your enemies, tithe, seek Him first, and be 100% who God has called you to be, Satan’s got you on his radar.  

He’s creating some extra work to frustrate you (Matthew 13:24-28).

He’s whispering lies about how inadequate you are.

Meanwhile, you’re growing more and more impatient, sad, and afraid because what you see looks so immensely different from where God showed you He would take you.

And, you wonder if Satan is right…

Am I the one God really created to accomplish this God-sized GOAL?

Can I let you in on a secret?

You’re being distracted and second-guessing yourself because you’re right where God wants you.

The thing is – Everything that took you to the top of your previous level will keep you at the bottom of your current level.

The old lone-wolf life you liked? Those days are over.

Prepare for God’s Success

First, you’re going to need God.

Where you’re going, you can’t get there by yourself. God will guide you step-by-step, day-by-day.

Next, you’re going to need a team.

God has given others an assignment to link arms with you. You’re moving into a territory that yesterday’s knowledge (and solitude) can’t sustain. You need talented, dedicated people to walk with you.

Third, you have to remember that harvesting the crop is work.

Harvesting the crop is a blessing that requires sweat and labor. You prayed for it to grow. Now, it’s here and you have to pull it up and plant again.  

Fourth, a “disadvantaged Christian” is an oxymoron.

I know you’re feeling like everyone else was groomed for their assignment. Everyone else has a wealthy parent, less debt, or is better connected. So, that means you’ve forgotten where your help really comes from (Zechariah 4:6).

The Holy Spirit is your helper.
The Word is your light.
Jesus Christ is your counselor.

You’re always ahead of the game when you’re walking with God.

But, don’t just walk, talk!

Admit where you are, ask for what you need, and believe you will receive it.

  • Have you prayed for a mentor?
  • Have you consulted God about a team?
  • Have you considered volunteering to increase or spruce up your skill set?
  • Are you fostering relationships with people/organizations that can bless you (and you, them)?
  • Are you following the top people in your industry?
  • Have you asked how they plan their day? What tools or apps they use?
  • Do you have a circle who supports what God is doing in you and through you?

So, what’s the play call?

You’re finding resistance because you’ve finally decided it’s God or nothing (Romans 14:8). Surround yourself with people who celebrate that decision and keep you lifted in prayer.

Start looking around. How do people on this level dress, speak, think and structure their day? A certain part of the work is over, but there’s still more work to be done. Don’t give up now.

Ask God to show you how to work smarter. And, whatever you do, never put your calling before Him. It’s His breath in your lungs, therefore, He should remain first on your mind and in your life (Matthew 6:33).

3 Practical Character Traits of Jesus Christ We All Can Pursue

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I Want to be Like Jesus

body of christWhen you think about being “like Jesus”, what characteristics of the Savior come to mind?

Some teammates will immediately think about what it would be like to go from city to city to heal the sick and raise the dead. Others may recall Bible verses on His power to cast out devils or feed thousands with just a couple of fish and a few loaves of bread. And I get it – all of that is within reach for us. How? We have the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead dwelling in us (Romans 8:11), and we are commissioned to do greater works (John 14:12).

The million dollar question is – Have we allowed the “same Spirit” to empower us with the basics, e.g., love one another, love your enemies, follow peace with all men, tame your tongue? The list goes on, right?

For me, there are some everyday, practical characteristics about Jesus that, frankly, I’d like to improve in my own life. See if any of these character traits resonate with you, too.

What Does Jesus Do, How Does He Do It?

The following character traits of Jesus may not be “sexy” or “deep”, but once understood and mastered, these traits are powerful additions to our every day lives. Jesus is, was, and forever will be:

Priority-driven.

Jesus understands the importance of prioritization for every effort and/or task. You will never catch Jesus majoring in the minors or doing any effort out of its prioritized order. He knows where His focus needs to be and when – even when others try to pull Him into their self-centered agendas and timeframes.

What did he tell his mother at the wedding feast (John 2:4)? What did He tell the brethren when they were trying to get Him to go to Judea and show off His works?  “My time is not come yet.” (John 7:3-6) Jesus doesn’t do the right thing at the wrong time. He doesn’t jump the gun. With every decision and move He makes, He takes into consideration the what and when with equal importance.

Principled.

There was a set of standards that always guided Jesus’ words and actions. He didn’t operate by the leading of His own will, but He came to do the will of His Father (John 6:38). Sometimes we forget that Jesus was born with free will, just like we are, and made the conscious decision to lay down His will and do the will of His Father. This was His life’s guiding principle.

The key to being properly principled is having a clear understanding of your purpose. We can see Jesus’ clarity in numerous verses that lend to – not my will, but thy will be done (Luke 22:42).

And, His commitment to His principles didn’t waver when life got hard, the devil was busy, or when the world would “understand” or “cosign” a detour from principles. Naturally hungry after a 40-day fast, who wouldn’t be tempted to turn stones into bread if they had the power? Not Jesus! “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” (Matthew 4:3-4, Deuteronomy 8:3).

A Producer.

Add Jesus’ ability to prioritize and His commitment to the principles of His Father and what do you get? You get a Savior who always produces results – mission accomplished!

Jesus not only started well, but He also didn’t get stuck in the middle of His journey. He FINISHED (John 19:30). And, as the author and Finisher of our faith, Jesus expects us to follow in His footsteps.

So, What’s the Play Call?

It all starts in our minds. Put aside your thoughts, your will, and let the mind of Christ thrive in you (Philippians 2:5). If we’re going to BE like Jesus, we’re going to have to THINK like Jesus.

And, by natural progression, the more we think like Jesus, the more we will become imitators of God – loving like Christ loves and becoming a fragrant sacrifice for God  (Ephesians 5:1-2).

 

Sleep: A Secret Weapon for Men of God

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What’s Sleep Got to Do With It?

What does sleep have to do with the way we lead our wives and children? How can sleep improve our relationships and our ability to influence the Gospel in our community?

Most of us men wear the lack of sleep as a badge of honor. We say, “I only got 4 hours last night, but it’s all good.”

Maybe some of us have demanding jobs that require many hours in the day. Some of us have small kids or parents we take care of.

God’s Word has a lot to say about sleep and the necessity of it in our lives.

Psalm 4:8 says, “In peace, I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, LORD, make me dwell in safety.”

Burn Out is Real

men of godThe Centers for Disease Control and Prevention states that adults need 7-10 hours of sleep per 24 hours a day. Science and God’s Word align with the importance of sleep and how it affects every area of our lives.

In order for us men to be the most effective for our families and in the world, we need to sleep well.

I burned out last year trying to save the world in Jesus’ name. I know, right.

So, you can burn out serving Jesus?”

Yes!

I found myself aggravated and passionless about the things I used to love. I hated the feeling of not wanting to do what I know God called me to do.

This burn out led me to seriously re-evaluate my schedule and how I let other things take precedence over my relationship with God and family.

Rest is important and necessary just like sleep; however, if we don’t sleep well we will not rest well.

Now, my relationship with God corresponds to an engaged husband and father. I am more productive today than I was then, and I am able to do more for the kingdom in less time.

So, What’s the Play Call?

  1. Notice what is eating up your time.
  2. Ask those who are unimpressed with you if you have been pleasant to be around lately.
  3. Make a schedule and follow it.
  4. Protect your family time, or if you are single, protect the time you use freeing your mind from work or school.

Doulos,
Chet

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Chosen: How to Carry the Mantle or Assignment You’re Not Ready For

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The Passing of the Torch

mantleThere’s a hole in my coat.

There’s a hole in the bottom left side of the lining of my coat, to be exact. And, I’m devasted.

I understand that this means absolutely nothing to you, and you probably don’t care about the hole in my coat. It’s not a huge hole and it’s not noticeable. In fact, it’s not visible to anyone but me and Jesus.

So, what’s the big deal about there being a hole in my ankle length winter coat? Well, see, my tailor was my daddy (excuse me, Master Tailor). In my entire 35 years of life, no other person has ever altered any of my clothing – but him (except the lady at the shop who attempted to alter my prom dress… she failed… daddy fixed it… never mind… she doesn’t count).

Every popped button, too long pair of pants, a split seam, ruined zipper, ripped buttonhole, all of it – he fixed it. Now, he’s not around to do it. So, that’s why the discovery of the hole in the bottom left side of the lining of my winter coat devastated me.

I lost it… I cried. It’s not so much that there’s a hole in my coat. But, it’s more so the reminder that I no longer have my daddy to turn to when I need help. I’m a complete daddy’s girl, therefore I would whine to him, even when I didn’t need him to fix the situation (daddy’s girl privileges).

What’s Already in Your Hand?

handIt brought to mind the fact that although my daddy isn’t here, there are so many things that he taught me, like how to stitch. Even more important than stitching or my coat, my daddy taught me morals (both naturally and spiritually) that I must now continue to carry on today. So many great things associated with my father that are now on me because – I’m his daughter.

This ordeal made me wonder how the disciples felt when Jesus left them here, on this earth, to lay hands, heal, teach, cast out devils…. you know? The stuff they watched Him do in front of their very eyes – it made me wonder the weight they carried knowing that what they had were blueprints and examples, but not Jesus to do it for them anymore. There were many great things associated with Jesus that were now placed on them (and us) because they were His followers.

I suppose this is how I feel about fixing my own coat. It’s not that I can’t, but the weight of putting what I’ve learned to use is heavy. Carrying that mantle… Following great examples can be a burden. Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean that in a disrespectful way, but more so in a “big shoes to fill” kinda way.

You are Chosen

Here are a few things to keep in mind when we feel the weight of carrying a mantle we don’t quite feel ready for:

  1. Remember that God, Himself, called you. I have found myself in awe of the fact that God chose me (John 15:16) for all that He has called me to. But, I find comfort in knowing that He knows best, and I am His choice. “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee, and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.” Jeremiah 1:5
  2. God is your strength. When I look at the size of the task at hand, I always seem to have a moment (or 43) of weakness. You know what I mean, that feeling that maybe… just maybe, you can’t. Let God’s strength become perfect for you in those moments. “And he said unto me, my grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly, therefore, will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
  3. Accept God’s peace. This may not seem relevant to my story or point, but trust me, it is. When you feel the pressure to perform, God’s peace will sustain you in ways you cannot comprehend. “And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:7
  4. Ask for understanding. So often we feel so bogged down by expectations that we just take what’s thrown at us. It’s okay to ask God to reveal things to you, to show you how to handle it, or even just flat out what to do. “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” Proverbs 4:7

I pray that along with the weight you feel that you also feel God helping you. You got this… use what you’ve learned, Team.

3 Declarations to Win the War – But Don’t Bring the War Home

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Battlefield of the Mind

There’s no way I’ll survive this!

Remember when you said that?

The battlefield of the mind was filled with the carnage of broken dreams, empty promises, and public failure. You couldn’t buy a single vowel to spell “hope”. Every 2 steps you took were perfectly matched with 5 steps backward.

Eventually, your time on the clock ran out, only after your best attempt at an alley-oop fell short like all the others. Amazing how everyone including you forgot:

God specializes in overtime victories
for the underdog!

Thank God for the technicality of Jesus Christ, who holds the keys to death, hell, and the grave (Revelation 1:18).  Christ gives us the will and determination to never give up, in, or out!

You Won a Life War!

battlefield of the mindGod be praised! You stand victorious after a Life War – a season in your life where the struggle was real, all hell broke loose, and you perceived your circumstances as hopeless at best – that is, before you shook up the world as the Victor!

But, here’s something I’ve learned about winning a Life War and making your way home: If you’re not careful, the War you so strategically won will come home with you, take a seat next to you on the sofa, and look at you like, “What?”

Triggers. Flashbacks. Nightmares. Panic Attacks.

All of these remnants of War can make you feel like you’re still in Vietnam when you won the War years ago.

Sure, we’ve all got a heavy gold medal around our necks, and pieces of confetti stuck in our hair from the victory parade. But, if someone were to peel back the layers of our success, pearly white smiles, perfect families, fine possessions, grandiose titles, and mega-friends list – what would they find?

A Winning, Wounded Warrior.

We take many blows in the Wars of Life. Aside from physical abuse, most of the jabs, right hooks, and bombs are absorbed by our hearts and our mind. And, the mind IS the ultimate battlefield, and our enemy knows it!

Let’s be honest with ourselves: Did we win the battle, but our minds are still Prisoners of War (POWs)?

Here’s how to put down your rifle, take off your uniform, and wash the camouflage paint off your face.

War vs. Peace Mindsets

If you can identify and want to finally stop warring within yourself, here are 3 mindsets you must leave behind and replace with God’s view of your victory:

1.  “I am still at War!” vs. “The War is over, and I can rest now.”

You can take the Warrior out of the War, but sometimes it takes a little work and time to take the War out of the Warrior. Dragging the War around with you everywhere, especially to new opportunities for peace and blessings, is a self-sabotaging habit!

Forget those things which are behind you (Philippians 3:13). Give your new relationship, job, city, surroundings a fighting chance by pressing forward and leaving the old War in the past.

2.  “The enemy is everywhere!” vs. “I am safe where I am now.”

When you were in the War, you couldn’t trust anybody or anything – sometimes, not even yourself! Perhaps you relaxed your guard during the War and ended up in a minefield – now you feel there are always secret bombs everywhere!

Relax your mind, Team! Truly winning the Life War includes winning your freedom from paranoia! Not everyone’s out to get you; everything doesn’t have to be a trick or conspiracy. Don’t miss out on God’s new good thing by always expecting the worse. Seek God’s clarity and His plans, which are never crafted to harm you, but to give you a hopeful future (Jeremiah 29:11).

3.  “I will never forgive the enemy!” vs. “It is always in my best interest to sign a Peace Treaty.”

Winning a Life War often depends on the outcome of the Battle of Forgiveness. This holds true whether the struggle is to forgive yourself or someone else.

It’s hard to fight and love at the same time. Love is the usher that shows forgiveness to its proper seat in our hearts. But, love is often a casualty of war if we don’t wash our wounds in the blood of Jesus.

Our hunger for inner and outer peace will always be fed when we surrender our desire for punishment, revenge, and perpetual retaliation to God.  A truly free Warrior has freed the enemy within and without with forgiveness.

So, What’s the Play Call?

After you walk away from the War with your win, be sure to wash the War off.  Please don’t carry the War around in your mind.

It’s okay to honor your scars and tell others your story of survival and victory. And, don’t be ashamed of your limp – a limp simply means you had the guts to get back up, and you’re on your way to healing.

But, do not neglect to heal your heart, soul, and mind once you’ve won the War…or think you have. There may be one final battle to go, one that is won not through resistance, but reliance on God’s love to heal and restore.

Then, and only then, will you not only win – you’ll TRIUMPH!

Have you been going through life as a winning – but wounded – warrior?

 

7 Facts You Don’t Know About Added Sugar, Natural Sugars, and Sweeteners

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How Sweet It Is

Restricting sugar is a popular way to ‘reset’ and embrace the praised ‘clean diet.’ It’s known that sugar offers absolutely no nutritive value and negatively affects our body and mind.  Every year in January and early summer, the diet industry promotes sugar fasts and diets that restrict sweets and treats, promising to help us kick our cravings and get control of our hunger.  Sounds like a pretty good plan, right?

There is no denying that we consume too much sugar.  In fact, research shows that we consume over 3 TIMES as much added sugar as is recommended – sometimes naively and other times intentionally, or at least, knowingly.

But, if you have ever seen a Pinterest recipe for “clean eating brownies” or “keto scones” or “sugar-free royal icing”, it gets pretty confusing trying to navigate sugar and sweeteners in our diet.  

So, let’s clear up some confusion about sugar.  

7 Facts About Sugar, Natural Sugar, and Sweeteners

1. Americans consume about 66 POUNDS of added sugar per year.

sugar intakeThat is not so sweet!  On average, adults consume 19 teaspoons of added sugar per day and research shows that children consume even more!  If you need a visual, go grab your sugar jar and a measuring teaspoon, and pour 19 scoops into a mason jar or glass. There you go – envision eating that every single day for a year.

No one needs added sugar. Added sugars do not contribute any valuable nutrition to your diet. And, while it might make food taste better, knocking down the quantity is highly recommended.  

Do you know how much you are consuming?  The World Health Organization recommends no more than 5% of your total calories to come from added sugar. If you are consuming about 2,000 calories per day, that means no more than 6 teaspoons or 25 grams of added sugar per day. Learn more about the recommendations for added sugars (adults and kids) here.

Bottom Line: Aim for less than 6 tsp or 25 grams of added sugar per day

2. There are more than 60 different names for added sugar.

Sugar is disguised in a lot of different types of food within the ingredient list. Dextrose, cane juice, brown rice syrup, disaccharides, sorghum, nectars, and MORE – sugar hides itself in ingredient lists. This doesn’t necessarily mean that brands are trying to hide sugar, but a variety of types of sugar are used in processing depending on the chemical structure, flavor, and purpose in the product.

Here are a few keys when you glance over the ingredient list:

  • The suffix “-ose” along with nectar, juice, and syrup are some common forms of sugar that are easy to spot.
  • The ingredients are listed from highest in weight to least meaning that the lower in the ingredient list, the better.

It is important to note that while nutrition labels list ‘sugar’ grams, that is a combination of both added and naturally occurring sugars. These types of sugars are not the same. In 2016 the FDA updated the food label to differentiate added and naturally occurring sugars on the food label and manufacturers have until January 2020 to comply. Expect to see new food labels on all of your favorite products this coming year. This new change will make it a lot easier for consumers to make educated decisions at the grocery store. The FDA has a picture of the updated nutrition label for you to view.

3. Coconut sugar has a lower glycemic index than table sugar.

sugarThis lovely caramel colored sugar has been getting a lot of publicity as a better alternative to table sugar and while it does boast a few benefits, using this type of sugar won’t make you any healthier. It’s still sugar and it still contributes excess calories.

Coconut sugar does boast a slightly lower glycemic index than table sugar. That means that when included as an alternative in a baked good or recipe, blood glucose may respond better.  It also has some trace minerals like zinc, calcium, potassium and even some antioxidants, but you would have to eat a lot to actually gain any benefit from these nutrients. Coconut sugar also contains a type of fiber called inulin. However, once again, it won’t help you meet daily fiber needs unless you decide to load up your oatmeal with a few cups of coconut sugar.

As a sweetener, coconut sugar may have a few benefits, but it also comes with a hefty price tag at the grocery store.

4. Honey and maple syrup have more sugar per serving than regular white sugar.

sugarComparing teaspoon to teaspoon, honey and maple syrup have more sugar in grams than white refined sugar. The reason is that they have a higher concentration of sugar and are sweeter. Therefore, replacing white sugar in a coffee beverage with honey isn’t necessarily any better for you, unless you are using less.  

Honey and maple syrup are popular sweeteners because they are considered ‘natural’. While these sweeteners may not be bleached or refined like table sugar, they are still a source of sugar that will raise your blood glucose and insulin.  They will contribute to excess calories in your diet.

Maple syrup may be one of your best options with the glycemic index of 54. The glycemic index of sugar is 65 and honey is 58.

5. You can make treats without any added sugar or artificial sweeteners.

Fruit is naturally sweet and is a great way to sweeten foods and baked goods without having to add a bit of sugar or sweetener. These moist blueberry muffins are sweetened with a few pureed dates and juicy blueberries. If cookies are your craving, these Easy Oatmeal Raisin Cookies blend bananas and raisins with typical oatmeal cookie ingredients for a chewy baked good. Did you know you can stew blueberries on the stovetop with a bit of water for flavorful preserves to top pancakes or almond butter toast? These Oatmeal Date Balls are the perfect afternoon sweet treat blending dates, oats, almond butter and a splash of vanilla.

It’s true that these treats are not as convenient as store-bought because you have to make them (although all of the recipes above are super easy), but that is the entire point. Preparing them yourself means you are more intentional about the sweets and treats you are consuming instead of allowing them to slip in unnoticed and unplanned.

Homemade treats mean that you control the quality of ingredients, the frequency you make them, and the level of sweetness and types of sweeteners, if any.  

6. Unlimited quantities of natural sugars aren’t beneficial for your body.

Naturally occurring sugars come in food packages. This is great because it means there are other nutrients in addition to the naturally occurring sugar that make this food health-promoting. Fruit and plain yogurt are two examples of foods that have naturally occurring sugars. Fruit also has fiber, vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants.  Yogurt boasts calcium, vitamin D, protein, and fat. There are no specific recommendations to limit natural sugars, but an unlimited supply isn’t beneficial either.

Meals and snacks should always include a protein or healthy fat.  This slows the release of glucose (sugar) into your bloodstream so that you have a steady supply of energy and avoid blood glucose peaks and valleys. Eating a meal of fruit only will contribute to hunger, cravings and low energy not long after. God created fruit to be pleasantly sweet and enjoyed. Pair it with some nuts, nut butter or yogurt to create a satisfying and nourishing snack.

7. Sugar alcohols can cause GI upset.

sugarThe Keto diet and very low carb diets have reintroduced sugar alcohols back into recipes and as a common kitchen ingredient. These sugar derivatives are low in carbohydrate and very sweet. Because they are not fully digested, some individuals may experience gastrointestinal distress. There are a few factors that contribute to whether someone will experience negative symptoms including the quantity consumed, the type of sugar alcohol, and personal level of sensitivity. Individuals with IBS or those who tend to have a sensitive GI tract may not handle these well. Sugar alcohols (like xylitol) can be recognized in the ingredient list because they end with the suffix “-ol.”

So, what’s the play call?

A wise man is hungry for truth, while the mocker feeds on trash.— Proverbs 15:14 (TLB)

An intelligent person is always eager to take in more truth; fools feed on fast-food fads and fancies. — Proverbs 15:14 (MSG)

Is Holy Spirit convicting you to do something different? Remember conviction is not shame-based. Conviction is a strong but clear urging to move towards truth and grace. Shame says that because of your actions you are wrong or bad. Conviction carries the hope of grace.

Some people really do find a sugar fast to be a helpful reset, but it’s not the only way to experience transformation in your life.  Often, it’s the tiny steps, day after day, that yield sustainable, long term change/results. So, let’s get really practical and intentional:

  1. Take inventory and assess your personal intake. Get curious without guilt. Browse your pantry and fridge, check condiments, dressings, granola, cereal, oatmeal packets, bars, and yogurts. Look up your favorite coffee drink, that salad you always buy at your local cafe’ and the frozen yogurt flavor you choose when you take your kids out for a treat.
  2. Choose the top 2-3 foods or beverages that are contributing added sugars and write those down. Pray. Ask Holy Spirit for wisdom, guidance and the fruit of self-discipline.
  3. Swap higher sugar foods/ingredients for lower sugar options 1 at a time. Choose foods that will have the highest impact on your health and wellness. Remember it’s not about simply using a sugar substitute, but lowering your threshold for sugar and sweets.
  4. Decide to make your own ‘treats’ at home to control the quality of ingredients. Freeze extras in individual portions to keep it out of sight.

 

20th Annual Super Bowl Gospel Celebration Airs on BET Networks, Saturday, February 2, 2019

HOSTED BY COMEDIAN RICKEY SMILEY, THE ONE-HOUR SPECIAL WILL HONOR DENVER BRONCO’S LINEBACKER VON MILLER WITH THE “FAITH IN ACTION” AWARD

PERFORMANCES WILL INCLUDE KIRK FRANKLIN, THE WINANS, TASHA COBBS LEONARD, TAMIA, LECRAE, HEZEKIAH WALKER, KORYN HAWTHORNE, AND THE NFL PLAYERS CHOIR

Returning to BET Networks for the sixth consecutive year on February 2, 2019The 20thAnnual Super Bowl Gospel Celebration will be hosted by National radio and TV personality Rickey Smiley. The annual NFL-Sanctioned event will take place during Super Bowl LIII week, filming in front of a live audience on Thursday, January 31, 2019 at Atlanta Symphony Hall.

The one-hour special will feature performances by Kirk Franklin, Tasha Cobbs Leonard, The Winans, Lecrae, Hezekiah Walker, Tamia, Koryn Hawthorne, and the Super Bowl Gospel NFL Players Choir. Additionally, the celebration will honor Denver Bronco’s linebacker Von Miller with the annual “Faith in Action” award for his work with his charity Von’s Vision.

The Super Bowl Gospel Celebration special will premiere exclusively on BET Networks on Saturday, February 2, 2019 at 8:00PM ET/PT.

Originating at Super Bowl XXXIII in 1999, the annual event joins together key NFL Players, top Gospel/Contemporary Christian and mainstream GRAMMY® Award-winning artists and special guests all on one stage to bring audiences an evening of uplifting music and inspirational messages.

By far, the largest multicultural event to take place during Super Bowl weekend in its 20-year run as an NFL-sanctioned event, SBGC has featured artists including Patti LaBelle, Yolanda Adams, Gladys Knight, Natalie Grant, Mary Mary, Fantasia, Donnie McClurkin, Anthony Hamilton, among many others.

For information and tickets, visit superbowlgospel.com.

ABOUT THE SUPER BOWL GOSPEL CELEBRATION:

The Super Bowl Gospel Celebration was launched in Miami in 1999 during Super Bowl XXXIII weekend. The event became the first, and remains the only Gospel concert sanctioned by the National Football League (NFL). The show has drawn crowds in the thousands and has demonstrated growth year-after-year, selling out venues in major Super Bowl host cities including Dallas, Tampa, Detroit, Jacksonville, Houston and Phoenix.

ABOUT BET NETWORKS:

BET Networks, a subsidiary of Viacom Inc. (NASDAQ: VIA, VIA.B), is the nation’s leading provider of quality entertainment, music, news and public affairs television programming for the African-American audience. The primary BET channel reaches more than 90 million households and can be seen in the United States, Canada, the Caribbean, the United Kingdom and sub-Saharan Africa. BET is the dominant African-American consumer brand with a diverse group of business extensions: BET.com, a leading Internet destination for Black entertainment, music, culture, and news; BET HER, a 24-hour entertainment network targeting the African-American Woman; BET Music Networks – BET Jams, BET Soul and BET Gospel; BET Home Entertainment; BET Live, BET’s growing festival business; BET Mobile, which provides ringtones, games and video content for wireless devices; and BET International, which operates BET around the globe.

ABOUT ATLANTA SYMPHONY HALL:

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3 One-Word Lies That Keep Marriage in the Sunken Place

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Minimalistic Lying?

marriageWhen marriage experts and marriage counselors say that communication is the key to a happy marriage – it is most definitely one of the most important keys to marital peace and bliss.

And although communication in marriage takes place when not a word is spoken, verbal communication – what we say and how we say it – has caused many unions to beautifully thrive or die a horrible death.

You see, the tongue doesn’t straighten itself out on its own because we’re speaking to the one we made a loving vow to – oh no, Cleavers! That little member is still out of control (James 3:8), and often “cuts up” more because it is the person with whom we have the most intimate relationship with on planet earth.

But, let’s not make our unruly mouths the scapegoat here. Spouses – especially spouses on Team Jesus – are still humans who are in the process of dying to old, evil ways. We’re just doing so alongside someone who’s on their own journey to cleanse and heal the heart (Luke 6:45, Psalms 51:10). And, nothing infects the heart like the sinful nature of fearful lies.

Every Lie is Traced to Fear.

lies fearDid you know that you can trace every lie you’ve ever spoken to some element of fear? Think about it. Perhaps you were afraid of the consequences of your actions, or perhaps you were afraid of letting someone down. Some of us are afraid to be authentic, or afraid of the pain or discomfort of the truth.

How does this show up in marriage? Easily. And, it doesn’t take a ton of words, either. See if you’ve ever told one of these one-word lies, and let’s see how we can apply God’s perfect love to cast out our fears (1 John 4:18):

1. Yes. 

Has your spouse ever asked you a question, and you responded in the affirmative – but in your heart of hearts – you wanted to say no? “Baby, does this look/taste/smell/feel good?” “Did you {insert honey-do list item}?” “Do you want to go {insert place that gets on your nerves}?”

What’s going on here? We may think we’re just keeping the peace, or going with the flow – but those yeses are dishonest and they don’t honor our true feelings. The fake “yes” also dishonors your spouse, how? Because they will waste their time and energy responding to an affirmative that doesn’t really exist.

2. No.

Has your spouse ever asked you a question, and you responded with “no” – but you know good and well the answer was “yes”? “Did you {insert something you’re not supposed to do or your spouse has asked you not to do}?” “Do you need me to {insert a real need you have}?”

What are we afraid of? Getting caught? Being held accountable? Showing vulnerability?

3. Nothing.

This lie right here is so big, they’ve named a food after it – the Nothing-Burger! “Baby, what’s wrong?” “What did you want to talk about?” “What did I/he/she/they say to make you upset?

The nothing response is rooted in denial. Our marriages will never grow or heal from what we won’t acknowledge and face head-on. So, we may think we’re dodging bullets with this little word, but we’re actually building an arsenal of weapons the enemy will use against us and the marriage in the future.

How to Deal With That Sinking Feeling

With all of the yes-nos, no-yeses, and Nothing Burgers, is there any question as to why some of our marriages are sinking fast? Forget the beef – Where’s the Truth?

Remember our first Team Huddle Mail of the year? This is the Year of Truth! We’re allowing the Word of God to sanctify us, and we’re intentional about being a Friend of Truth (John 17:17)!

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What better place for the family to start embracing Truth than within the marriage?! And, everyone has a role to play.

Rise Together for Each Other

submissionIf you’ve been less than honest with your spouse, realize that the Truth heals and fear steals. You’re doing more harm than good to yourself and the union. Issues that go unspoken and unaddressed can sink your marriage – and you – into a dark, depressed state of bondage that can drive you to unhealthy behaviors, poor eating, hopelessness, and divorce. If you can’t get what’s on your chest off your chest one-on-one, consider personal counseling and/or a marriage counselor to help you address any unknown fears or issues.

To the wife or husband who’s thinking, “She’s talking to my wife/husband – I speak my truth!” (These are my choir members LOL).

Ok, great. But, does your wife/husband feel safe enough to talk to you honestly and transparently? Do they walk in fear of your judgment or retaliation? Sure, telling the truth is everyone’s responsibility, but is there anything you can do to make the process easier if your spouse is struggling?

Try sharing with your spouse that you understand their feelings and whenever they’re ready to have that honest conversation – you’re there. To some spouses, marriage doesn’t feel like a team – but rather a boxing match, where everyone has their own corner.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Submit to one another as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:21). Invite more God in your marriage through prayer and acts of kindness, and escort your ways and thoughts of what’s best out the door.

I pray that God would move every Cleaver reading these words to drop their boxing gloves and embrace their spouse. Lord, rescue every marriage from sinking deeper into despair. Cause your Cleavers everywhere to love as You love, Lord. Give each of us a heart for the other – seeking to listen, understand, feel, and please the other. Perfect our love, O God, so we can kick out fear, lies, and open our hearts to receive the freedom that real love brings.

In Jesus’ name, amen.

Anger Issues, Men, and the Pursuit of Godly Character

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I Have Anger Issues, But I Love God.

Have you ever wondered why it is so hard to be a man of character in our society? Reacting with anger for some men is normal, however, it only brings pain to those around us. I should know – anger used to fill my emotional tank as a young man. If someone cut me off on the road or looked at my girlfriend, I would be filled with rage.

The hate inside of me fueled acts of violence and distaste toward anyone who viewed the world differently from me. I destroyed many relationships and excited fear in those who loved me. I wore hate on my face like a mask, and eventually, I couldn’t get it off. Anger was all my heart knew, until…

Follow the Steps Of A Righteous Man

If we desire to live a righteous life before God and others as men of high character, let’s start with these 3 steps, as shown in the book of James:

James 1:19-20: “This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.”

1. Listen carefully to God and others.

Have you ever experienced the sweetness of sitting in the presence of God and not asking Him anything? Sitting in the presence of God quietly is a discipline and takes practice. An athlete will discipline himself every day to grow stronger. It is the same with spiritual disciplines in our life.

My grandpa always did tell me that I should listen to anyone who talks to me because you never know when you’re going to hear something that you need to hear. This is so true from a cultural and spiritual perspective. God speaks through other people to us, so listen!

2. Don’t talk so much, man!

There is freedom in this nugget of truth. Next time you have a conversation, try to listen more than you talk. You will be amazed at what you see and hear. Most people are hurting and looking for someone to encourage them. Try it!

3. Remember that anger is a choice.

Jesus living in us gives us a choice whether or not to fall into the trap of unrighteous anger. Jesus is bigger than our emotions! His Word is our security and hope for the future!

So, What’s The Play Call?

Brother, God’s Word is true, but our emotions can mislead us. Use the practical steps that James 1:19-20 teaches us and overcome your anger issues.

Listen carefully to God’s voice in the midst of tense conversation, and look for opportunities to share Jesus and His character. God sent us men as His Gospel bearers for our families and the world!

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Do You Know Where You Are Going After Death?

  1. Agree with God that you mess up and there is sin in your life (Romans 3:23).
  2. Believe that Jesus took your place on a torture device (1 Peter 2:24).
  3. Turn away from the sin/mistakes in your life (Acts 3:19).
  4. Receive Christ into your heart (John 1:12).

Doulos (Bondservant to Christ),
Chet

HISTORY® Premieres 8-Part Event “JESUS: HIS LIFE” on Monday, March 25

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Epic Retelling of the Life of Jesus Christ Airs Over Four Weeks Leading Up to Easter

life of jesus christHISTORY’s eight-part event “Jesus: His Life” explores the story of Jesus Christ through a unique lens: the people in His life who were closest to Him. Each of the eight chapters is told from the perspective of different biblical figures, all of whom played a pivotal role in Jesus’ life including Joseph, John the Baptist, Mary Mother of Jesus, Caiaphas, Judas Iscariot, Pontius Pilate, Mary Magdalene, and Peter.

Each figure takes a turn guiding viewers through the emotional and epic story of the most famous man in history, through His birth, death, and resurrection, all conveyed through a combination of scripted drama and interviews with prominent religious and historical experts. Utilizing some of the world’s most respected Biblical scholars, historians, faith leaders, and theologians, the series weaves together the canonical Gospels, historical sources and cultural context to create a complete portrait of Jesus – the man and the Messiah. The series reveals His journey through a complex world of kings, politicians, reformers, and soldiers in a turbulent power struggle during a time of revolutionary change. “Jesus: His Life” brings viewers into this dramatic world to reveal the greatest story ever told.

The series premieres two episodes back-to-back weekly beginning on Monday, March 25 at 8 pm ET/PT, with the finale airing just before Easter. A+E Networks holds exclusive worldwide distribution rights for the series which is produced by Nutopia.

“‘Jesus: His Life’ brings together some of the world’s top scholars, historians and faith leaders from diverse ideological and theological perspectives to tell the story of Jesus in a new way,” said Mary Donahue, SVP, Programming and Development for HISTORY. “Viewers will see and experience the life of Jesus as never before, through this powerful and thought-provoking portrait of a man who is one of the most influential people in human history.”

The series interviews and consulted with a diverse group of scholars, faith leaders, and theologians from across the ideological spectrum to provide a rounded picture of the life and times in which Jesus lived, including:

• Robert Cargill – Assistant Professor of Judaism, Christianity and Classics, University of Iowa
• Christena Cleveland – Associate Professor, Duke University Divinity School
• Bishop Michael Curry – Presiding Bishop and Primate of the Episcopal Church
• Nicola Denzey Lewis – Professor in the Department of Religion, Claremont Graduate University
• Joshua DuBois – Author and CEO, Values Partnerships and Head of White House Office of Faith-based and Neighborhood Partnerships under President Obama
• Rabbi Joshua Garroway – Associate Professor of Early Christianity and the Second Commonwealth, Hebrew Union College
• Mark Goodacre – Professor in the Department of Religious Studies, Duke University
• Nyasha Junior – Associate Professor of Hebrew Bible, Temple University
• Mark Leuchter – Professor and Director of Jewish Studies, Temple University
• Kimberly Majeski – Associate Professor of Biblical Studies and Christian Ministries, Anderson University
• Father James Martin, S.J – Jesuit Priest and Author
• Ryan McAnnally-Linz – Associate Research Scholar, Yale Center for Faith and Culture
• Scot McKnight – Professor of New Testament, Northern Seminary
• Father Jonathan Morris – Catholic Priest
• Candida Moss – Professor of Theology, University of Birmingham (UK)
• Rev. Dr. Otis Moss III – Senior Pastor of Trinity United Church of Christ
• Joel Osteen – Senior Pastor of Lakewood Church, New York Times Bestselling Author, and Executive Producer
• Michael Peppard – Associate Professor in New Testament, Early Christian Studies, Religion and Public Life, Fordham University
• Reverend Gabriel Salguero – Pastor and President of the National Latino Evangelical Coalition
• Stephen Schneck – Associate Professor of Politics, Catholic University of America
• Simon Sebag Montefiore – Historian and Author
• Reverend Shively Smith – Assistant Professor of New Testament, Boston University School of Theology
• Pastor Susan Sparks – Preacher, Comedian and Author
• Miroslav Volf – Founder/Director, Yale Center for Faith and Culture and Professor of Theology, Yale University Divinity School
• Ben Witherington III – Professor of New Testament for Doctoral Studies, Asbury Theological Seminary
• Annette Yoshiko Reed – Associate Professor of Religious Studies, New York University

Jesus: His Life” is produced for HISTORY by Nutopia with Jane Root and Ben Goold serving as executive producers. Eli Lehrer, Mary Donahue and Evan Lerner serve as executive producers for HISTORY. Joel Osteen also serves as Executive Producer. A+E Networks holds exclusive worldwide distribution rights for “Jesus: His Life.”

 

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