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The Courage to Declare Independence Before You’re Free

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Dear Team,

Independence Day is an extravagant celebration and monumental declaration of freedom. The Continental Congress engaged in heated debates, petitioned the English Crown, and eventually rallied together in a unanimous vote to declare independence.  The yearning desire for “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” was overwhelming and motivated action – actions that changed the destiny of the nation and the world.

But, the fight wasn’t over yet. In fact, the war was only brewing and no one truly knew the sacrifices, battles, and resistance to come as the Revolutionary War drew to a climax.

Declaring Independence Before It’s Won

What I find so fascinating is that independence was declared before it was fully embraced. The Founding Fathers projected freedom before it was had – before it was a reality.

As I have worked with hundreds of individuals in nutrition practice, I have found that many feel trapped, captive and dependent, unable to break free from chains and additive patterns that immobilize and terrorize. The deception is that freedom will never truly come, that all the fighting will be in vain. Discouraged and exhausted from past battles, it is difficult to keep hope alive. These emotions torment our mind, catapulting our thoughts back into negative cycles that only strengthen the bonds further.   

But our Forefathers drew upon supernatural courage. Courage that walked away from all that they had ever known and sought to redefine the life they wanted to live and the life they dreamed to give to their children, grandchildren, and descendants.  The gift they share far exceeds liberty – they demonstrated how to stand up and claim victory, even when it was not yet seen.   

Maybe you feel chained to unhealthy food patterns and you don’t know how to break away. Maybe you feel imprisoned by untrue words that have been spoken over you. Maybe you feel paralyzed with fear and anxiety and unable to break loose. Whatever it is that holds you back from a vibrant and fulfilled life of happiness and joy only has as much power as you give it.

How can you reclaim your freedom?  It begins and ends with your response. Our Founding Fathers laid a foundation…

The Process of Freedom

1. Identify what is holding you captive.

The Declaration of Independence lists at least 30 facts about England’s violation of the colonists’ rights and unfair treatment. They clearly outlined the injustices and identified reasons for independence from the English Crown.  Similarly, we need to identify the cause of captivity and identify our God-given rights in order to then determine a plan to break free.  

So often, we identify the symptoms without the root cause. Symptoms can be similar among people, but roots are personal. For example, overeating is a widespread issue, but root causes are different and individual to each person.    

2. Declare the truth.

The colonists exposed the truth and made it plain for all to see.  “The truth will set you free.” (John 8:32)  The darkness of tyranny could not hide in the light of the truth.  The same is true today, but, only once we know and meditate on truth can it begin to invade our hearts and minds.  

According to Proverbs 18:21, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” (Proverbs 18:21)  You are empowered with the ability to speak life, but with this same tool, can actually produce death! Maybe you have brought death to a dream by speaking discouragement, hopelessness, and failure.  Begin listening to the words of your mouth for “what is in the heart, the mouth will speak.” (Luke 6:45)  Speak life.

3. Celebrate your victory.

July 4th was hailed a day of “pomp and parade” directly after writing the Declaration, NOT after the Revolutionary war was won.  Triumph was not in the final battle but in the decision to wholeheartedly embrace freedom.  Often, it is easy to feel discouraged along the journey, when we are still facing battles. But if you have set your mind on freedom, YOU will prevail. You can’t lose. Victory is not an IF.  It is not IF I can get my blood glucose controlled. Victory is not IF I can improve my energy. Victory is not IF I can resist the ice cream. Celebrate that you can and will.

So, what does abundant life look like?  How do you know if you are living a life in pursuit of true happiness?  Where does liberty equal freedom from captivity?

Only you can truly answer these questions, but armed with TRUTH, you will always prevail.  Join me in celebrating victory today.

Thank you to all of our servicemen and women, past and present, who honor God and country by demonstrating courage and sacrifice.  We celebrate you today!

TRUTH: The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly. John 10:10

When will you write your declaration of independence?

37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards Nominations Announced

CeCe Winans, Pastor Mike Jr., Tamela Mann, Jonathan McReynolds, Mali Music, Todd Dulaney, and Kelontae Gavin among top nominees for The Greatest Night in Gospel Music!

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Central City Productions has announced the nominees for the 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards, the annual celebration honoring excellence in Gospel music. The Stellar Awards will return to Atlanta for the live-taped ceremony on Saturday, July 16, at the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre, as part of an illustrious weekend of events that will include a special announcement about the upcoming launch of the Stellar TV Network. Stellar Award-winning artists Jekalyn Carr and Kierra Sheard will co-host this year’s event, which will air on BET, BET HER, and BET International in August, and will be syndicated in various local markets across the country between August 13 and September 11.

Leading this year’s nominations is Gospel music legend CeCe Winans, widely considered the best-selling female Gospel artist of all time. Winans has 9 total nominations including Artist of the Year, Album of the Year, Song of the Year, and Albertina Walker Female Artist of the Year, all stemming from her critically acclaimed album, “Believe For It.”

Pastor Mike, Jr., the 2021 Stellar Award winner for Artist of the Year, received 8 total nominations, including Producer of the Year, Artist of the Year, Male Artist of the Year, Album of the Year, and Song of the Year, tied to “I Got It: Single’s Ministry Vol 1.” 2018 James Cleveland Lifetime Achievement Award honoree Tamela Mann, Jonathan McReynolds & Mali Music, and Todd Dulaney all received 6 nominations, with Mali Music receiving an additional nomination for a feature on a separate project. Kelontae Gavin received 5 nominations. Other artists with several nominations for this year’s Stellar Awards include Maverick City Music, Israel Houghton, Ricky Dillard, E. Dewey Smith, and Jason Clayborn, all of whom received 4 nominations each.

The 37th Stellar Gospel Music Awards will feature performances by Tye Tribbett, Marvin Sapp, Maranda Curtis, Ricky Dillard, Kelontae Gavin, Rudy Currence, Chrisette Michele, DOE, James Fortune, Jason Nelson, Travis Greene, Darrel Walls, and Jor’Dan Armstrong.

“Gospel music has encouraged millions of people through more than two unrelenting years of the pandemic, and the Stellar Awards will, again, deliver in bringing the praise and recognizing the artists who bless us with their inspirational sounds,” said Don Jackson, Chairman and CEO of Central City Productions, which established the Stellar Awards. “Those who love Black, faith, and family-centric programs can look forward to both the Stellar Awards and to all that our Stellar TV Network has to offer when it premieres in September.”

The Stellar Gospel Music Awards also bestows special honors to industry titans who continue creating a legacy of excellence that reaches and influences the masses, both within and outside of the Gospel genre. Six-time Grammy Award-winning hitmaker and producer Aaron Lindsey will receive the Aretha Franklin Icon Award presented by Aflac, and renowned choir leader and recording artist Ricky Dillard will receive the James Cleveland Lifetime Achievement Award presented by Toyota. The Ambassador Dr. Bobby Jones Legends Award is presented to Candi Staton, a music pioneer who, for nearly seven decades, has been a captivating Gospel music artist.

The Stellar Gospel Music Awards is proud to be presented this year by AT&T Dream in Black. This year’s sponsors also include Proctor & Gamble (P&G), Walmart, State Farm, Toyota, McDonald’s – Black & Positively Golden, and Aflac. The Stellar Gospel Music Awards are also proud to partner with St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Spotify.

View the full list of nominees here.

FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT: WWW.STELLARAWARDS.COM

About the Stellar Awards

The Stellar Gospel Music Awards show is Executive Produced by Don Jackson, with Jennifer J. Jackson serving as Executive in Charge of Production and Producer. Michael A. Johnson will produce and direct this year’s award show. The Stellar Awards recognizes the year’s best performances in the Gospel music genre, honors Gospel music icons, and acknowledges the accomplishments of individuals instrumental in advocating for the Gospel music industry.

About Central City Productions (CCP)

Founded in 1970 by Don Jackson, Chicago-based Central City Productions, Inc. is a national broadcast television producer and syndicator of its exclusively owned African American programming. Celebrating over 50 years of broadcasting Black excellence with uplifting and entertaining original television content, CCP’s award-winning television programs include the Black Music Honors (www.blackmusichonors.com), Stellar Tribute to the Holidays, Black College Quiz Show Series (www.blackcollegequiz.com), America’s Black Forum (www.americasblackforum.com), Mentoring Queens (www.mentoringqueen.com) and Mentoring Kings (www.mentoringking.com), among many others. For more information, visit www.stellartv.com.

Abortion in America: What Came Before and After the Ultrasound

From word pictures to video games, prenatal visualization technology has expanded our empathy for the unborn.

This article is the second of a four-part series based on the upcoming book by Marvin Olasky and Leah Savas, The Story of Abortion in America: A Street-Level History, 1652–2022.

Millions of expectant parents have now seen ultrasound video of their unborn children. The technology is new, but the desire to see what’s invisible is not. We can trace six steps in prenatal visualization technology during the past 170 years—and then wonder what the seventh will be.

The first three steps involved word pictures. Stephen Tracy’s The Mother and Her Offspring (1853) was one of the first books I’ve seen that took readers week by week and month by month through the early development of unborn children:

At forty-five days … the head is very large; the eyes, mouth, and nose are to be distinguished; the hands and arms are in the middle of its length—fingers distinct. … At two months, all the parts of the child are present. … The fingers and toes are distinct. … At three months, … the heart pulsates strongly, and the principal vessels carry red blood.

The second step emphasized woman-to-woman lectures about the unborn. In the 1850s Elizabeth Blackwell, the first female to receive a medical degree in the US, pleaded with mothers to “look at the first faint gleam of life, the life of the embryo. … The cell rapidly enlarges. … Each organ is distinctly formed. … It would be impious folly to attempt to interfere directly with this act of creation.”

In the 1860s Anna Densmore French explained fetal development to teachers who planned to pass on this knowledge to their teenage students. French said, “Women would rarely dare to destroy the product …

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Is Social Media Killing Our Relationships?

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The Antisocial Reality of Social Media

bible and social mediaWe live in an age where we are constantly inundated with information. The world is always just a click away. We fill our homes and offices – and even our pockets – with advanced technology and interactive screens for instant access to the world around us. However, the more we connect digitally to the world, the bigger the void seems to become in our personal lives and the farther removed we are from the reality of our humanity.

You see, teammates, when it comes to social media and digital communication, it is not always as simple and straight-cut as it first appears to be. We may have thousands of friends and followers online when, in reality, we face real challenges such as loneliness, anxiety and worse, depression.

Of course, we comment on online posts without a second thought, but in actuality, we find it difficult to talk to people face-to-face.

We spend time choosing the very best selfies to post on our feeds – and yet, we forsake the everyday moments and milestones that really make up our daily lives. We get sucked into thinking that the farce is true – that everyone is #livingmybestlife – we are not.

We often feel alone in this space, that we are never good enough, and that we need to strive to keep up with those around us.

We spend so much time worrying about what others think and, in the process, we are losing our spouses, our children, and even ourselves, to a world that does not exist beyond our computer screens or smartphones.

Beyond Social Media: Constant Reach and Engagement with Jesus

Friend, I am here to tell you that there is someone who will never make you strive to feel loved. In fact, He gave His life so we could feel connected on a much deeper level.

Far from the superficial world of social media, Jesus yearns to restore us to the Father and keep us close to His heart. Before we lose the very relationships that keep us in community, let’s take some time to break the unhealthy obsessions we have with social media.

So, What’s the Play Call?

It’s time to rebuild those relationships we’ve lost in the digital age. Here are a few tips to help you:

  • Put boundaries in place. Curb the amount of time spent on social media every day. Set a limit and keep family time sacred and device-free.
  • Spend meaningful time with family. One-on-one chats are crucial to cement our relationships and help us realize what matters most in life.
  • Read the Bible. If tempted to spend time online, choose to read the Word of God instead. You may be surprised by what God wants to share with you today. “I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint…” (Jeremiah 31:25).
  • Reach out. Reconnect with old friends and family you only engage with on social media. Too many times, we follow the lives of our close friends and family online only. It’s time to make a point of reconnecting and rebuilding those relationships we have lost.
  • Share good words with others. Instead of ticking a ‘like button’ or “tapping a heart” on social media, message the person and share something positive with them directly. “Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor,” (1 Corinthians 10:24).
  • Break the habit. Go on a social media strike for a few days. Completely disconnect, log off from your devices, and enjoy the freedom of living off the grid to rejuvenate spirit and body.

Wake Up Call: Don’t Forget About Eternity

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Eternity – The Soul’s Destination and Life’s Wake Up Call

Teammates,

eternitySometimes this life seems like it will last forever. However, with death increasing all around us, you know that life is temporary. As I sit and meditate on God, He has pressed upon my heart something to share with you. I could not help but write a simple but strong reminder to you today. That is:

DO NOT FORGET ABOUT ETERNITY.

As a believer, we must not allow this temporary life to consume our existence. We are heirs to the promise of salvation (Galatians 3:29). We live in this world, but we cannot forget that there is a life to come. Sure, everyone desires comfortability, prosperity, and success in this life. There is nothing wrong with having those things. But, there is greater prosperity that resides within our soul, and we must prioritize that.

Soul Prosperity

3 John 1:2 “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.”

The soul is eternal, and the prosperity that is for the soul means living in eternity with God. I’m like Apostle John – it is my hope that all people can enjoy life and be in good health. However, so many people have sought the prosperity of this life and left the reality of eternity tucked away like a myth in the back of their minds.

Eternity is so much closer than we can think. The return of Jesus is near. Life is being cut short every day. But how many of us are truthfully preparing?

Are you living with eternity in mind?

Do you live with the understanding that one day you will stand before God and have to make an account for every single thing (Ecclesiastes 12:14)?

These are some hard things to consider. But, it is an inevitable reality we will all one day face.

Our Citizenship is not of the Earth

eternityHebrews 13:14 (NLT): “For this world is not our permanent home; we are looking forward to a home yet to come.”

The Bible clearly tells us that this world is not the home of believers. If we understand that, then we must equip ourselves for our permanent residence.

For example, people move to the U.S. with no intention to stay. Whether they come to work, get an education, or any other reason, they know when they arrive that their time here is temporary. They don’t get caught up in the customs and way of life of Americans. Instead, they focus, making no permanent connections to a foreign land. This is how we ought to be as sojourning believers in this world. Our heart should be fixed on our eternal home with God.

This is not an attempt to tell you to live frivolously in this world. But, I need to remind you about eternity. Indeed, we have to live life while we are in this world, but don’t forget to store up for the things that are eternal. Prepare yourself. Don’t allow this world to make you oblivious to the reality of eternity.

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

Luke 12:40, “Be ye therefore ready also: for the Son of man cometh at an hour when ye think not.”

Teammates, I’m not trying to scare you or make you nervous. I want you aware and prepared. I write this with great compassion and love because it is my desire to see you enter in the Kingdom of our Father. There are some people who have heard their whole life “Jesus is coming back!” and, of course, have yet to see it. But just like the message of Noah, who preached rain, one day it happened. Even if Jesus doesn’t return in your lifetime, eternity will meet us all, and we have to be prepared.

You may ask, “How do I get prepared?” Here are some starting points.

  1. If you haven’t done so, accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior (Romans 10:9-10).
  2. Repent and Turn from Sin (Acts 3:19).
  3. Learn of the Lord and Follow Him through His Word. He will reveal God, the Father to you. (Matthew 11:29).

To conclude, no matter what happens in the world, do not forget the eternal goal which is to attain the prize through Christ Jesus (Phillippians 3:14).

I love you all!

Dr. Thema Bryant Bridges Trauma Healing and the Church

Incoming American Psychological Association president Dr. Thema Bryant’s “psychology for the people” approach is already helping break Christian stigmas around therapy.

Thema Bryant’s calling to psychology started when she picked up her family’s home telephone as a pastor’s kid growing up in Baltimore.

Her father, Bishop John R. Bryant, led Bethel African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Church—one of the biggest congregations in the city and the oldest in Maryland.

“People would often call our home in moments of crisis,” said Bryant. “When people are in a moment of crisis, it often doesn’t matter who answers the phone, they kind of get started with whatever the issue is, and I was always drawn to bearing witness and to being willing to hear and listen and to encourage from very early on.”

Bryant went from being a curious and compassionate pastor’s daughter to a clinical psychologist specializing in trauma. Last year, she was named president-elect of the American Psychological Association (APA) and will begin her term in 2023.

Although she will be the fourth Black woman to hold the position, Bryant believes her background sets her apart and offers critical insight into the mental health needs brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic, particularly among the Black community. A recent profile of Bryant in The Washington Post was titled “Meet the psychologist drawing from the Black church to reshape mental health care.”

Bryant grew up in a faithful family; her mother was also a minister, and her older brother became a pastor. As an ordained elder in the AME church, she is unapologetic about grafting her approach to psychology in her faith.

“I believe there are many different callings,” said Bryant, a psychology professor at Pepperdine University and director of the school’s Culture and Trauma Research Laboratory. “I …

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Better Than Top Coat: The Blood of Jesus Covers and Protects

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I go to the nail shop for a manicure about every 3 weeks. When I go, I get gel polish over the acrylic nails because it lasts a lot longer, whereas regular polish usually chips. Now, when you get gel polish, they use a UV lamp to dry your nails instead of a blower or fan so that the polish sets. Unlike with regular fingernail polish, where you sit with your hands under the blower at the end, with gel you have to put your hand under the lamp each time they apply a coat of polish.

Typically, I only pay attention as I put my hands under the lamp so that I don’t bump my fingernails and scratch my polish. But this particular time, I actually paid attention as my nails “baked”. After the first couple of coats, I noticed that, when I put my hand under the lamp, it illuminated the color I’d chosen. Once my nail tech finished painting the color on my nails, she added a top coat. This time, when I looked under the lamp, I realized that I couldn’t see the color on my nails anymore, it was just bright white. It reminded me of when you wear white sneakers into a room with UV lights and it just looks bright. I saw how that clear coat really does protect the polish. 

The Blood of Jesus Covers All

blood of jesusIf you ever wondered how The blood of Jesus works, I’m pretty sure it’s something like this top coat. And that, teammates, is my point of the day.

Once we accept God’s salvation, the blood is applied and hides us until that’s all God can see. But, just an FYI, our being covered does not mean that we won’t experience the heat that comes with everyday trials and circumstances. We will. However, it does mean that we cannot be destroyed by it. We’ve got to continue enduring the heat in order to be perfected, but the heat cannot cause us harm.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I know that it often seems as if we will not survive the heat of certain situations, but Jesus died so that we would be permanently protected and baked into His glory. Here are a few things to help you remember the benefits of His “top coat”:

  1. You are covered in tough times. Know that as the death angel was made to pass over the children of Israel when the blood was placed over their doorposts, the enemy is constantly made to pass over you. “For the LORD will pass through to smite the Egyptians; and when he seeth the blood upon the lintel, and on the two side posts, the LORD will pass over the door, and will not suffer the destroyer to come in unto your houses to smite you.” Exodus 12:23 
  2. Jesus endured suffering to protect you.But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.” Isaiah 53:5
  3. You are saved from God’s wrath. Now, we are to keep His commandments, but we are also guaranteed His merciful covering. And we all know, there is nothing like having God’s grace and mercy on your side. “Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.” Romans 5:9
  4. You are forgiven. Once that top coat has set on my nails, I am free to move about the country Lol! What I mean is, I can wash dishes, do my hair, and everything else without worrying that my nail polish will start to chip away. Likewise, with the blood of Jesus, you are free to live your life without worrying if your past will come creeping up on you. The blood of Jesus provides forgiveness and a covering for your wrongs. “In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;” Ephesians 1:7

Know that it is always better to be covered and God’s protection trumps any other. Accept the covering of the blood of Jesus Christ.

 

5 Ways to Keep the Diet Culture from Damaging Your Identity in Christ

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diet cultureEver find yourself looking in the mirror and not liking what you see? Ever step onto the scale and gasp at the bigger number? Have you ever looked at a picture of yourself and thought ‘I look fat’?

I know I have. And it completely changed my mood for the entire day. Like instantly I’d think, “I need to lose weight”, and ironically, I’d find myself scrolling through social media thinking everyone looked better than me. Subconsciously, I might even think I’m not good enough.

The problem is, we’ve had it so ingrained into our culture that looking good means looking thin, it’s hard to be content. The world looks at you and decides—in an instant—who you are: fat, thin, strong, muscular, pear-shaped, apple-shaped, chunky or skinny.

Every diet promises a thinner you. A healthier you. A more confident you. But none of them promise a deep, everlasting view of yourself that never changes no matter how much you weigh or what angle a certain pic was taken.

Only Christ can do that.

The Keys to Godly Health

christian livingThe only healthy way to actually get healthy is to focus on an inside-out approach that targets your spiritual health first. Because how we view ourselves is shaped by what we think of ourselves. And what we think of ourselves must never be based on world views and opinions, but rather on the foundation of Christ and our identity in Him. When we understand who we are in Christ, we can use that confidence to aim for the physical goals we want to achieve.

Diets will tell you what to eat and what not to eat and promise you, ‘if you follow all the rules, you’ll get that perfect body’. But God designed us uniquely and we don’t all fit into one same mold. We don’t all burn calories or process nutrients in the same way.

But we can stand firm on God’s promises because they don’t come with rules. We can be transformed by the renewing of our minds, and the love of God within us, that has the power to make everything new.

When we trust God’s Word, we can feel confident that though we may not look like the best version of ourselves, with Him we can aim to be the best version of ourselves. And when we know who we are in Christ, we can kiss those diets good-bye.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Here are 5 things you can do to avoid the trap of the diet culture:

1.   Recognize your inner critic voice.

“I’m fat, not thin enough, not attractive enough” etc. Replace that critical voice with biblical affirmations that will remind you of your identity in Christ; who you truly are. Say these scriptures out loud over and over again until that inner critic disappears.

Ephesians 2:10: ‘For we are God’s handiwork created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

Psalm 139:14: “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

Genesis 1:27: So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”

2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

2.   Find a healthy balance by avoiding extremes.

Diets focus on restriction and deprivation. They create more weight problems in the long run because they sabotage your relationship with food and your body. Mindfully recognize that you have the power of choice when it comes to choosing what to eat, how often to exercise or even how much sleep to get. Look for balance instead of swinging from one extreme to another.

Scripture says, “All things are permitted but not all things are of benefit. All things are permitted, but not all things build people up.” 2 Corinthians 10:23 (NASB)

3.   Choose getting healthy as a form of spiritual worship.

Whether you choose food that will honor your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit or exercise as a way to keep your body strong and limber. When we take care of ourselves as an act of worship, it brings a whole new dimension to the choices we make.

3 John 1:2 (ESV): “Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.”

4.   Understand your getting-healthy intentions.

Why do you want to get healthy or lose weight? Write down all of the reasons and analyze your intentions. Go deeper than just writing, “I want to lose weight to get healthy.” By analyzing your reasons, you’ll be able to recognize your true intentions and avoid superficial goals that won’t last. Ask God to help you in this process.

James 1:5 (ESV): “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.”

5.   Cultivate an attitude of gratitude for your body.

Yes—even if you don’t like the way you look in the mirror right now, remember, how you look on the outside is not who you are on the inside. If we anchor our self-worth to Christ, we can feel confident in ourselves even if we don’t like the reflection we see. And if we cultivate an attitude of gratitude for what we do have, it’ll help us care for ourselves in a way that supports those getting-healthy intentions.

1 Samuel 16:7 (NIV): “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him.” The Lord does not look at things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.

 


Bianca SchaeferBianca Schaefer is a health consultant, writer and life coach. Her mission is to shine the light on Christ through nourishing foods, an active lifestyle and the belief that anything is possible through Christ. She is putting the finishing touches on her first book, which intersects physical and spiritual health.

 

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Christian Living is a Team Sport, Don’t Go At It Alone

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I think there’s something inside each of us that says we can stand on our own – that we don’t need others. From the youngest to the oldest, many of us have the mentality to do things by ourselves. We are self-sufficient and independent.

I once heard an athlete say, “We would have a great team except for all my teammates.” Yes, we talk team, but we value self. Not only does this happen in sports, but it also happens in our spiritual lives. Doesn’t loving God come down to just me? Yes and no.

Christian Living Takes a Village

Yes, you do need to love God with all YOUR heart. No, you cannot do it alone. Don’t fall into that trap of isolation. Living the Christian life is a “we” thing, not a “me” thing. There is a great African proverb that states,

If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”

Isolation is the Christian’s silent enemy. But don’t get solitude and silence (two powerful spiritual disciplines) mixed up with isolation.

Isolation is pulling away and saying, “I can live out my faith on my own, and I don’t need anyone to help me.” There is pride in isolation. We begin to think we can live out our faith through our own power. Once we distance ourselves from those who know us best, small (and large) changes begin taking place in the absence of accountability. Isolation makes people believe that sin can be committed free of consequences.

King David held that mindset until the prophet Nathan showed up (2 Samuel 12). And isolation also makes us think that we are the only people wrestling with a particular sin, problem, difficulty, or addiction. We begin to believe that no one else will understand us, so why should we open up and seek help? We think that if we keep a lid on our problems, we’ll contain it.

Accountability is our Friend

promised landAccountability is non-negotiable in the Christian life. It stops the sin of isolation. So many people I know have gone down in flames because they did not have someone in their life to hold them accountable. Even though the word “accountability” is not in the Bible, Christ and His disciples modeled it well, and there are numerous verses that reveal the value of it. Even the disciples were sent out by pairs.

The blessing of accountability has allowed me to live for Christ with greater purity and passion. Truthfully speaking, I don’t know if I could survive if not for the people who hold me accountable. I need to have a brother in Christ getting in my face and making sure I’m doing what I’ve committed to do (i.e. spending time with the Lord daily, keeping my eyes pure, spending quality and quantity time with my family, making wise financial decisions, and training my body). It is called 360-degree accountability with every aspect of my life evaluated.

If you do not have someone like that in your life, watch out. You are wide open to the sin of isolation! Don’t think you can live for Christ without being connected. Live the Christian life as it is intended to be lived – as a TEAM sport. Think about it.

So, What’s The Play Call?

  1. Why do so many people think that the Christian life is an individual thing? From where does this thinking come?
  2. Do you have an accountability partner? How have others helped you in your spiritual journey?
  3. What other examples in the Bible come to mind when thinking about lack of accountability?
  4. Why is isolation so easy and accountability so hard?
  5. Why is there power in confessing sin to another person?

 

You’re Not Fainting, You’re Reaping

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Faint Not.

If you’re like me and the average human being, if the choice was yours you’d prefer to skip all of the pain, suffering, and frustrations that often come with reaping the good. “Umm… can we just skip to the good part?”

God’s process never works like that. I liberally use the absolute “never”, because the more I get to know the Lord, the more I understand His love for us. And, because He loves us so much, He would never do us harm by only allowing life to bring joy, happiness, and beds of ease.

If that were the case, when would we ever need God? When would our souls ever thirst for Him like the deer pants for water (Psalm 42:1)?

So, yeah. As we walk this life with God, there will be seasons where it feels like you’re going to faint under the pressure. And oddly enough, that’s actually a good sign. How?

That Fainting Feeling is a Sign.

god-given purposeHave you ever felt faint or actually fainted? It’s scary. There’s an awful sense of fear and panic due to the imminent loss of physical and emotional control.

Ever notice how that fainting feeling comes with distress – not the abundance of peace? When’s the last time you felt immense fear and panic when you were happy without a care in the world?

We often miss this perspective on fainting that the scripture is trying to teach us:

If reaping the good is guaranteed if we don’t faint, then that fainting feeling is a sign that reaping is coming!

Teammates, you’re not fainting – you’re reaping!

When Reaping Hurts, Read the Signs.

As painful as the feeling of fainting may be – wanting to give up and throw in the towel, whispers of doubt whether God will save you, feeling hopeless and fatigued because you’ve given your all and you’re now on ‘E’ – it’s actually a good sign. The feeling of fainting is:

A sign of God’s closeness.

If you’re feeling like you’re about to faint, you’re most likely walking through a trial, tribulation, or an extreme wilderness experience. With that being said, you have God’s utmost attention this very moment, even if it’s dark and you’re feeling around for God and can’t seem to find Him. God said in His Word that He is not only close to those who are brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), but He is a VERY present help in the time of trouble (Psalm 46:1).

A sign of learning and discovery.

If you’re feeling like you’re about to faint, class is in session! You have been chosen in this season to advance your knowledge of God. I like how T. D. Jakes puts it in his book, God’s Provision: There is something about going through dilemmas and crises that bring us to the place where we discover things about God which we would not have known under other circumstances. In this aspect, God is with you has your faithful teacher, gentle guide, and strong sustainer. He wants you to pass the test, and He won’t leave you, ever!

A sign of your fruitful inheritance.

If you’re feeling like you’re about to faint, it’s an indicator of unrealized blessings. You know that weight of panic you feel in your chest? No worries, that’s just the weight of the abundant inheritance that’s coming your way! Those feelings of doubt, fear, depression… they’re all a sign of your flesh warring against the very real truth that deliverance is coming, God’s best for you is en route, and unspeakable joy is on the way to overtake you! Trust God’s promises over what you feel.

So, What’s the Play Call?

There’s an inheritance dedicated just for you that you haven’t caught up with yet. Even though we can’t bite into the fruit the same day we plant the seed, there’s a process at work bringing the fruit to the table that we can’t see. God never promised the process won’t be painful, frustrating, or come with disappointments, but the promise is guaranteed! And though it has not yet fully manifested, it already exists – it’s real, it’s yours, and the enemy can’t stop it!

There’s only one condition we all must follow – don’t faint. Don’t die in the wilderness, teammates! Don’t give up before God gets to show off His amazing blessing for your life. It is not God’s intention to kill you in this season, but to kill the mindsets, perspectives, strongholds, and sin in our lives that keep us from living abundantly in His purpose.

Hang in there with God. It won’t always be like this – the good part is closer than you think!

Here’s a little encouragement for the journey…

 

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