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After The Mistake, Don’t Forget The Way Of Escape

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The Preachy Writer Podcast

“The Preachy Writer Podcast” is a new podcast aimed at helping believers live for God. Referred to as a “mid-week snack” it edifies and encourages Christians to keep pressing toward Jesus. Never predictable but always timely it is sure to get your passion ignited. Join the Kristina every Wednesday to be strengthened, challenged, and encouraged.

Every man has sinned.

way of escapeEvery man has faults and shortcomings. But as a Christian, we have a Redeemer through Jesus Christ. While no man can claim perfection, The Father wants His people to know that failure is not the final destination. There is a way of escape.

Listen to this episode to help strengthen your walk and help you to know that no struggle or sin has dominion over the redeemed of the Lord.


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Rearrange It: How to Find What You’re Looking for in Life

Find What You're Looking for

All Hope is not Lost.

find what you're looking forA couple of months back, I decided to wear some extra jewelry to work. Whatever it is I wore that day (I can’t remember any parts of that outfit), it made me want to wear this sterling silver ring of mine. It’s a cute midi ring with a tannish-gold stone in the middle of it. It belonged to my paternal grandmother and it was one that my dad had given to me.

I recall being at one of my school sites and conversing with the site volunteer. As I talked to her, I remember my hands feeling dry, so I pulled out my body butter to moisturize. I distinctly remember taking my grandmother’s ring off my finger to rub the moisturizer into my hands… and that’s all I got. Later that evening, looked down to remove my ring and it wasn’t there! I was devastated and although the last place I recall having it was at school, I searched everywhere. I looked in my pockets, backpack, coat, the floor, I even went back to my car, and nothing. I took it as a loss.

Fast forward a couple of months to an intense, loud music Saturday deep cleaning day…

I’d finished cleaning the kitchen and bathroom and I went to tackle my living room. I wiped my tables down and vacuumed my carpet and area rug. I dusted around my television and sorted through my magazines. Once I finished, my living room was spotless, but something didn’t seem right. I took a good look and realized that I needed to rearrange my furniture.

I stared off into space until I could envision where everything should go. I moved my area rug and tables to the side. Then, I knew exactly where I wanted my couch to go. As I began moving it, I had to go from one end to the other to push past a table. Once I gave that first push, I looked down and you know what was shining back at me? **If you guessed my grandmother’s ring, you are a winner! Uh, your prize is the rest of my story, keep reading.**

Is it Time for a Change?

Find What You're Looking forMmmkay, I know you’re itching for my point. Here goes… I thought I’d lost my ring for good and it wasn’t until I rearranged my furniture that I found it. I know you think you’ve lost your joy, peace, confidence, and your passion for good, but you just need to “rearrange” some things to get it back.

See, oftentimes, things get so comfortable that we leave them as they are for far too long. Sometimes we need to move things around to find what we thought we’d lost for good. A real-life example for me is when my daddy died. Now, I am still trying to navigate through it (lots of emphasis on “trying”), but some things I regained when I decided to rearrange stuff.

I had to start praying and reading again, but this time, my prayers were different (rearranging); scriptures had new meaning (rearranging). I had to do some things differently throughout my work days so that I could begin to handle this major adjustment… this “new normal”, whatever that is. I still have to rely on God for strength and peace, but this go ‘round, I’m sitting in a different seat.

Just like rearranging furniture, rearranging in life is a task and it may take some thought. You may have to do a little staring at first, but trust that God will guide you through it. Here are a few things to keep in mind as you prepare to “rearrange”:

  1. Clean up. If you’re anything like me, then clutter and dirt make you itch inside. Yeah, it’s a bit over the top, but you get it. Before I could begin to see the problem with my living room, I had to first clean it. Sometimes, you gotta get rid of stuff and clean house before you realize that a shift is needed. Allow God to cleanse you, your heart, your mind so that you may see clearly and things will go according to His will. “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalms 51:10
  2. Be open to the necessary changes. As I cleaned my living room, I realized that I was tired of the way it looked. I needed something to change in order for me to be comfortable with what was going on in my house. It was time for some movement. “Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitude.” Ephesians 4:23
  3. Rearranging is necessary. I would have never found my ring had I not moved that couch. I can’t tell you how many times I’d vacuumed, dusted, and placed things right in the area where it ended up. Many times, we need the new perspective that rearrangement brings. It comes with letting the past go and understanding that old stuff won’t work anymore. “Behold, the former things are come to pass, and new things do I declare: before they spring forth I tell you of them.” Isaiah 42:9

I pray you find that thing you think you’ve lost in life. Just know that it may be hidden, and rearranging may be the only way to find it.

EXCLUSIVE: Restorative Justice Will Be Televised in “The Redemption Project” with Van Jones

Restorative Justice Takes Center Stage

Who does justice better?

Who should define the restitution for a crime – “the State v. _____”  or the actual victim/survivor of a crime?

Audiences will be the judge as the new CNN Original Series, “The Redemption Project with Van Jones airs Sunday, April 28th at 9PM EST.

In this series, Van Jones follows the victim or surviving family members of a life-altering crime as they journey to meet face-to-face with their offender in hopes of finding answers or some sense of healing.

The series shines a bright light on perhaps the little known process of restorative justice – an alternative to punitive justice where the victim or survivor decides what they need in order to be repaired or restored, versus “the State” or legal system determining what the victim’s restoration should look like.

Gut-wrenching and Real

The Redemption ProjectGrab your tissues and brace yourself for a wild ride. While some viewers may believe the only point of view that matters is the victims’, The Redemption Project balances a glimpse into the lives of both the victims and the offenders. You will feel the very real pain from the void left in the hearts of loved ones who have experienced tragic loss – what that family member was like, what he or she meant to them.

And, while the opinion of some may be that the offenders’ only position is one of apology for or explanation of their actions, the series also gives insight into the background and experiences of the offenders that may have influenced their dreadful judgment and choices.

Hard, Awkward Conversations

How would you articulate questions that have been swirling around in your head for 5, 10, maybe 20 years to the offender who is to blame? Could you?

The actual dialogue sessions will have you on the edge of your seat, afraid to blink and miss one facial expression, one tear, miss one word spoken.

It’s a remarkable, first-hand look into the rather personal stand-off between victim and offender, the innocent and the guilty.

While it may seem rather intrusive to be a fly on the wall as people face their greatest pain and the worst fears of their lives, the show demonstrates the possibility of redemption for all humanity – against all logic – regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, or faith.

Will every episode end in satisfying closure? For many victims and survivors, the concept of closure may not even exist; there are understandably some holes in many hearts that will never mend shut with confrontation or a conversation.

But, where there is an absence of closure, rest assured that the notion of courage runs deep through the veins of every victim and offender in “The Redemption Project” series.

Tune in and watch the transformation of the victims and surviving family members. What can we learn from them? It is within their audacity to be courageous that forgiveness and redemption are conceived and subsequently surrendered.

 

Together Generation Partners for UNITE, National Day of Prayer

Join UNITE and the National Day of Prayer

Yale Kim, Event Director for Promise Keepers, shares encouragement around the National Day of Prayer.

Witness a new wave of young people rising up to take ownership of this national observance. On May 2, the next generation is hosting an event in the Twin Cities called UNITE, which has become the largest annual event on the National Day of Prayer. Tune in at unitendop.com at 7 PM as thousands of churches and individuals from across the nation join the online community to pray together for our generation. When we pray, God moves.

Let’s stand with them and encourage prayer in our local communities and our online networks.

By His Stripes, Healing is Our Portion

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The Word Declares God’s Healing Power

When I got born again, I began to learn about healing and the will of God concerning healing. There are many teachings concerning healing and if it is the will of God. I would like to emphasize that, yes, healing is the will of God and here are a few scriptures that talk about it.

In 1 Peter 2:24 the Bible declares, “…by His stripes ye were healed.” Through Christ’s death at the cross, He provided healing for us and if it was not God’s will for us to be healed, he would not have gone to the cross but He did.

by his stripesJesus did not just die to free us from our sins. He also died to redeem us from the curse of the law. Galatians 3:13 declares, “Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:”

Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law which was poverty, sickness, and the second death which is separation from God.

In the Old Testament, Deuteronomy 28, God reveals the blessings that come from obedience and curses that come from disobedience. The curses were poverty and sickness, but thanks to Jesus who fulfilled the law and redeemed us from the curse of the law – now by his stripes we are healed! Healing is our portion and God desires us to walk in healing.

The Word of God is God’s will for our lives. He wants us well because He loves us and also so we can fulfill our assignments on earth. To receive healing, we just need to believe what Christ has done for us and declare it over our lives. When symptoms try to come and make us doubt, we are to remind ourselves of the Word and believe because God is faithful to keep His Word.

So, what’s the play call?

Let us embrace the will of God and receive our healing by faith. Let us take the Word of God concerning healing to heart, believe it, and act on it! Confess that word over your lives every day until manifestation occurs. We can have what you say (Mark 11:23).

Jesus is the Calm for Every Emotional Rollercoaster

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Life is Filled With Ups and Downs

emotional rollercoasterEvery single person on this planet has experienced a time of being “down,” sad, broken or just plain “out of it.”

If you say you haven’t, please drop your secret below! Lol

Emotions are a part of being human, and we experience good ones as well as bad ones throughout our lives.

Teammates, the good news is that Jesus Christ is our balance, He’s our Coach, He’s our Guide, He is our Light, and He is our Comfort!

Yes, emotions are fleeting and they come as well as go, but with Christ, we can live stable lives!

Even in our most difficult times, He is there ready to provide peace, love, and hope!

Recently, I experienced a devastating miscarriage and the pain and hurt during that time was HEAVY. But God! He sent so much peace and love in that season, it blanketed me! I felt a myriad of emotions, of course…..BUT I allowed myself to draw from His strength and not rely on my own!

So, what’s the play call?

Allow yourself to be encouraged, even in sorrow! Be engulfed in courage, let and allow yourself to be IN courage!

Be strong and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD.” Psalm 27:14

Be strong! All of your help and strength is found in Him and in His joy!

Take your dose of courage daily from the playbook and through prayer. It’s yours, it’s your inheritance.

Wait in expectancy, similar to a pregnant woman. She knows her baby/manifestation is coming. It’s evident in her walk, her appetite, her cravings and in her consumption.

Don’t back up from God’s courage, nor His will; He desires His best for you.

Use wisdom, wait, allow Him to fight the battles; the war is already won! His strength is perfect even when our emotions are going crazy and our strength is gone. Whatever YOU need, God’s got it! Just ask Him.

Much Love,
Drea Frost

4 Practical Tips from God’s Parenting Guide

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Where Can Parents Find the Best Parenting Advice?

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Like most parents, the birth of my daughter was one of the most amazing and humbling moments in my entire life. I recall that at the age of thirty-five, McKinzie was born with ten perfect little

 fingers and toes; her eyes were brown and her smile was like fire to ice, it melted my heart.

At that moment, I didn’t think about how I would be able to take care of her as a single mother. All I could do is think about how much my Abba Father God loved me, His child. He loved me so much that He gifted me with her, something so precious and priceless despite my imperfections.

That is what parents do – they love, care for, and bless their children. They raise them to be God-fearing, law-abiding, humble and respectful vessels – manifestations of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.

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There is Guidance for Parents

I will be really transparent for a moment when I say parenting has been one of the most difficult responsibilities that I have ever had, and that is an understatement. But, it is also one of the most rewarding experiences I have ever had.

There is no mistake in saying that there is definitely a learning curve when it comes to being a parent for the first time and that it is impossible not to make mistakes. Then I think about how our Father God loves and cares for multitudes of His children and He has done so seamlessly, never taking His eyes, hands, or heart off of any of us.  Imagine that!

Did you know that the Bible is not only our guiding light for life in general that addresses every single peak and valley that we face in life, including parenting? The Word is the ultimate training and parenting guide for Christian parents and it helps us rear our children as God does with us.

How Does the Bible Guide Us Parents?

1. Take everything (including our children) to God in prayer.

When we are tempted to worry about our children, it reminds us to think about how God our Father has directed us to guide our children towards the Kingdom of God. As parents, we should not be anxious for anything, but we must pray for everything and be grateful for all things including the good and bad (Philippians 4:6). Prayer is essential and after prayer, we must give it to God and allow Him to have His way.

2. Raise and care for our children as God cares for us.

Proverbs 22:6 teaches us that we should raise our children in the way God would have us to, and over time, they will not stray from these values. This verse is one of the clearest and concise connections between how we parent and the outcome of how we raise our children. As parents, we are charged with training our children—no matter what happens afterward. We must be steadfast to our parenting guide, The Bible, and in doing so our children will become adults with Christ-like values, morals, and principles.

3. Share the Word of God with our children.

Deuteronomy 4:8-9 says, “And what great nation is there, that has statutes and rules so righteous as all this law that I set before you today? Only take care, and keep your soul diligently, lest you forget the things that your eyes have seen, and lest they depart from your heart all the days of your life. Make them known to your children and your children’s children.”

It is in this message that Moses shares with parents that they are to talk about the Word of God and the discussion should be direct and intentional, in addition to prayer. It is in this same book, Deuteronomy, that Moses mentions the importance of educating our children a total of six times. This places the emphasis and importance of pouring into our children at the forefront of our minds.

4. Reminds us as parents that we are imperfect vessels of God.

Imperfect parenting is to be expected and should not be frowned upon. The Bible reminds us that we are human – only God is perfect. Psalm 127:3 tells us, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” Parents must remember that children are not trophies, but rewards reflective of our accomplishments from our Father God. They are an extension of who we are – perfectly imperfect procreations of humankind.

As parents, we fail at many things in our roles as parents and it is through God and the Word that we are put back on track. God fills the valleys with His holy waters so that we will understand and receive our guidance in parenting as we are advised through His words.

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

Parenting is a gift from God. As a parent, we are imperfect and just as we learn in all areas of our lives, we work towards mastering parenting through trial and error. However, we must remember that God provides His parenting guide with countless play calls in the Bible; we must open and read it in order to raise our children as our Father God desires us to.

Go to God with complete trust and know that He loves us. Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14). No matter how many times it might take, parents, remember God’s Word guides us faithfully and tirelessly in every area of our lives and our children’s lives.

Never forget that we are imperfect, but we must use God’s messages to direct us towards His plan for us and our children.

Read the Word.

Share the Word.

Guide your children towards God.

Repeat.

What the M87 Black Hole Reveals About The Creator of the Universe

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A Black Hole 50 Million Light-Years Away

m87 black holeOur teachers said that we “believe” black holes are real; however, no one has actually seen one – until now.

I believe the discovery of Messier 87 (M87) should rocket our faith into another dimension. Think about the facts for a minute.

Don Lincoln, a senior scientist at the Fermi National Accelerator Laboratory, said, “Seeing the closest known black hole is as difficult as a telescope in New York City seeing a single molecule in Los Angeles.”

Another important point Don makes is, “Luckily, the center of nearly all galaxies contain an enormous black hole. For example, the one in the center of our Milky Way galaxy has the mass of about 4 million times that of our sun, with a radius about 30 times that of the sun.”

Okay, picture our Sun and the enormous mass of it. Now multiply that mass x 4,000,000!

In the CNN Opinion piece, Don explains that in order to capture this very large black hole, they had to position radio telescopes all over the world.

This allowed us to capture the black hole in a single image. If we would try to do this with one telescope, we would come up short because of the sheer size of this particular black hole.”

I AM, Creator of All

There are 4 major reasons that the discovery of M87 is of absolute importance to us here on earth:

1. God is who He says He is.

Think about it, friend. We are talking about the God of ALL creation. Imagine the delicate workings of our genetics compared to the wide expanse of His power in the universe.

M87 was designed by God for a specific purpose in His wonderful and sovereign plan just like you and me.

2. God knew about M87 before we did.

It took us hundreds of years developing algorithms and technology to discover M87. God knew it was there before Genesis 1:1.

God knows about our circumstances and He is in complete control. Just like God is in control of this super big black hole that sucks light and time in space!

3. God is the most talented artist.

M87 is massive and beautiful. God took some time designing this majestic and mysterious black hole. However, God didn’t send His Son to die for it.

God sent Jesus to die for you and me. This shows His great love, care, and concern for us. Wow, what love and grace our Father has shown us.

4. Use this discovery to start a Gospel conversation.

Do you have a friend that doesn’t believe in Jesus? Use this discovery as an opportunity to show God’s great love for human creation and His authority over all things.

Are you on the fence of surrendering to God’s will through Jesus? Seeing God as Creator and the power He has, do you think it’s worth taking a chance on not following Jesus?

So, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

  1. Submit to God’s authority over your life. The freedom that comes along with that is black hole type of cool.
  2. Trust in God’s authority over ALL His creation and follow Him.
  3. Jesus didn’t say repeat a prayer or go to church every day. He said to count the cost of losing your life and follow Him (Matthew 16:24).

Thank you, God, that you know what is best for us. I trust you. I believe in you. I submit to you. Jesus, I will follow you through this season even if I don’t see the fruit.

I am rooting for you, Teammates!

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Doulos,
Chet

The Platinum Rule: Give Back the Good Given to You

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The Golden Rule Goes Platinum

give backWe’re all familiar with The Golden Rule growing up, right? Whether you grew up in the church or heard it taught by your favorite school teacher, The Golden Rule, based on Matthew 7:12, instructs us to:

Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you.

This verse goes on to say that this mindset is the very essence of what the law and the prophets were trying to teach us.

What I find interesting about The Golden Rule is – it requires some forethought on our part before we actually get to the doing. There’s an invisible questionnaire that our minds complete as we adhere to this play call. “How do I want people to treat me?” We must look inward and take inventory of the desired way we want to be treated. Then, treat others in the same manner.

I’d like to offer that there’s another rule that’s kin to The Golden Rule; I call it The Platinum Rule of Reciprocity. Basically, The Platinum Rule says,

“Give back the good given to you.”

Comparing The Golden and Platinum Rules

give backWhat’s the difference between The Platinum Rule (TPR) and The Golden Rule (TGR)? How are they similar? And, why is the Platinum Rule so important? Well, TPR differs from TGR in that:

TPR Replaces Forethought with Acknowledgement

TPR gives us the answers to the test – if we’d only acknowledge them. When we receive kind, favorable treatment from others, without demand or an ask, we’ve been given on a “platinum” platter the answer to how to treat that person. No pre-work, self-insight, or foreknowledge needed. We only need to follow the good example of love and grace we’ve been shown.

With TPR, Others Go First

TGR tells us to “do first” – be the doer or giver of good to others in the way you’d want them to do good to you. With TPR, you are first the recipient of grace, kindness, or favor. Whether deserved or not, favor knocked on your door – TPR is our call to respond to the good you’ve received.

The Platinum Rule is similar to The Golden Rule in that:

TPR Reveals Our Responsibility to Do Good

Pick a rule, either rule – doing good rules! Whether we’re taking inventory of our actions with others, or responding to the actions of others, our intent and focus are always to show love and kindness to all.

TPR in action – why does this matter?

Have you ever done a kind gesture to someone and expected the same in return – but came up short? Have you ever received the favor or graciousness of someone, but didn’t return the favor? Or, have you ever reminded someone of a good deed you did for them, and they responded with less grace or with, “But, I didn’t ask you to do that.”

In certain areas of life – we have terrific memories, right? We remember the kindness, grace, and sacrifice we’ve given others. And, our nature is to want what we give, receive what we’ve earned. It’s always a great feeling to show someone goodness and grace and receive the same back when you need it. But not only that, it’s honorable and a great sign of mutual respect to give back kindness and grace to others.

The Biblical Basis for Positive Reciprocity

restorerOk, putting aside my made-up TPR, there is a biblical basis for positive reciprocity. The Word of God encourages and requires us to give back the good we’ve received in:

To whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48).

Be not deceived, Teammates. When you’ve been given much – opportunities you didn’t qualify for, second chances you didn’t earn, mercy where judgment lurked – how much more do you think will be rightfully required of you? With much grace and kindness comes the full-blown responsibility to give it back and pay it forward. Doing good is like a seed that keeps on giving!

Give and it shall be given to you (Luke 6:37-38).

We live by the principles of what you give you will receive – and this doesn’t just apply to negative things like judgment, gossip, lies, etc. If you give forgiveness, you will receive forgiveness. If you show grace and mercy, you will receive grace and mercy. Let no one tell you that something is wrong with you for expecting the good you have given in return. When we sow good, it’s appropriate to expect a harvest of good in return (Galatians 6:7).

Repay no one evil for evil (Romans 12:17:18).

The converse of this scripture is also true – repay everyone good for good. Let’s not leave the good others do for us hanging out there high and dry. In the spirit of “it’s better to give than receive”, give it back! Willingly and sacrificially return kindness and favors.

So, What’s the Play Call?

No right-thinking person signs up to be taken for granted – everyone wants to be remembered, even Jesus did (Luke 22:19)! Protect the mutual respect and honor of your relationships by returning the love, grace, and kindness you’ve been given.

It takes nothing away from us to treat people with the same care and dignity they show us. The sooner we master The Golden Rule and The Platinum Rule, we’ll be in a better position to follow The Titanium Rule… doing good to those who hurt, mistreat, and use us (Luke 6:28). Yes, doing good and showing love to all never stops… who’s ready for the next level?

3 Practical Ways to Lose the Weight For Good

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$148 BILLION.

That was the worth of the global weight loss and weight management market in 2014. Only 5 years later, it is expected to reach $206 BILLION!

Companies, brands, and businesses are throwing out information in every form of media imaginable to gain the attention of consumers.  How to…

“slim down”
“lose weight”
“regain the body you want”
“trim up your waistline”
…and more!

Lots of claims!  Lots of information! Some good. A lot faulty. And much of this information is just plain confusing.  

“Experts” claim that if we simply follow a formula, a specific plan, we can see incredible, lasting results!  Phases, steps, waves, stages…good foods, bad foods, high glycemic foods, detox foods, maintenance foods…it’s exhausting and few can keep up.  The rare individual that follows the meal plan down to the smallest detail often has to turn eating, meal prep, and grocery shopping into a second job!  And, most of us don’t have time for an unpaid second career.

So, is it really that complicated?  Is weight loss really as formulaic as these “health professionals” claim?  

I believe, in fact I know, that eating well is not rocket science.  You don’t need a Master’s in Human Nutrition in order to live a healthy lifestyle every single day.

The part that seems to be so complicated, so messy, is changing up the routine- doing something different than what feels and looks “normal.”  Part of this process is opening up ourselves to the idea that life and routines may need to be tweaked, changed, or adapted.  

Here’s how to begin…

Identify Where You Are Now

restSometimes we are scared of the truth and thus, avoid it.  Some of us, myself included, can easily make excuses for all the “challenges” that have “come up” and derailed us, but the reality is no one – NO ONE – can own your body – just you!  We are responsible for the pace we keep, the schedule we live, and the food we eat.  

When I was losing my last few pounds of post-pregnancy weight, I eventually did take some measurements and step on the scale.  I also attempted to put on my favorite pair of jeans.  I had to give myself a reality check.  I had to see where I was and determine where I wanted to go.  Otherwise, it would be easy to keep wishing, but not experiencing, what I really wanted.

While I don’t believe in shaming, I do believe that the truth sets us free (John 8:32). Whatever truth needs to be revealed in your life is not designed to throw you into a pity party or a shame cycle.  By choosing truth, by owning your current reality, you open the door to see beyond those surface behaviors.  You allow an excavation process to uncover wrongful beliefs about yourself – those that keep us in negative or harmful cycles.

Sometimes truth is revealed through a conversation with a healthcare provider. Sometimes it is discovered through a fitness assessment or lab results.  Sometimes it is from cleaning out the closet and getting rid of what no longer fits your body.  And, sometimes it is unveiled through an experience.

But this is true, if you don’t know where you are, you won’t know if you get there, AND, you don’t know how much progress you are making.

Let’s see some results!

Focus on ONE Change

In the areas of weight loss and slimming down, most individuals could think of several, if not an entire list, of things they should change.  BUT, that is not the road to success. Instead, begin with 1 – and only 1 change.  

There is immense power in focusing all your energy on 1 change.  It may even seem too simple or easy, and that my friend is the key!  You want to get a small win that will propel you to the next one.

This 1 change should not be a weight loss goal.  Instead, this change should be an action or behavior that will contribute to your goal of weight loss.  This change may be to address fast food lunches, late night mindless snacking, afternoon vending munchies or beverage choices consumed on a regular basis.  But, make sure your change is specific and small and will lead to an easy win.  Here are a few ideas…

I will order a grilled chicken sandwich and a fruit cup for lunch instead of fried chicken with fries.”

I will go to the grocery store this Saturday with a list so that there are healthy options available when I get home from work hungry.”

I will drink 32oz water before lunch every day.”

Your change entirely depends on where you are and where you want to go.  But remember that the goal is to make it an easy win that motivates you into a lifestyle you are desiring to create for yourself.

No change is too small or silly.  This is your life and you get to call the shots and reap the rewards!

Reward and Acknowledge Your Progress

peaceDon’t brush off a win, celebrate it!  Track your progress and see your results.

While the ultimate goal might be weight loss, I encourage you NOT to celebrate the scale numbers.  But I DO encourage you to celebrate the changes, adaptations, and consistency you have made.  

By rewarding weight loss directly, it is easy to give unnecessary and excessive power to those numbers.  In truth, numbers on a scale are a vague, unclear picture of our overall health and well-being.  Longevity, confidence, energy and a purpose-driven life cannot be measured on the scale.  

Reward changes you make to your patterns, behaviors or schedule. Affirm consistency. Applaud commitment.  

When you get a home-cooked meal on the table 2 nights in a row…
When you decide to walk while your child finishes ball practice…
When you opt for the healthier snack during the afternoon munchies…

Celebrate your wins!  But, don’t reward with food.  Sometimes affirmation and a mental pat on the back is sufficient, but some wins need a bit more celebrating.  Here are a few ideas:

Buy a new workout outfit
Get a pedicure
Schedule a massage
Donate clothes that do not fit any longer to a charity
Subscribe to a fitness or healthy cooking magazine (this one is great!)
Buy a new workout song, album, or audiobook
Pick up a bouquet of flowers
Treat yourself to a cooking class to have fun and improve your skills
Plan a weekend getaway or day trip
Hire someone to clean your house this month

So, what’s the play call?

Weight loss is NOT a straight line.  There are many factors that influence the way your body loses weight and the rate at which it does.  But one thing is for certain, you must own your reality, execute the power of focus and celebrate small wins.  There are no magic meal plans or weight-shedding food phases.  Your change is in you, but it requires focused energy and accessing power you have already been given.

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. –2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV)

There are so many distractions and mixed messages that interrupt good intentions.  And when our bodies don’t produce weight loss like a carefully calibrated machine, it is frustrating.  Move your eyes from the scale and begin celebrating the lifestyle you are creating.  Think about the behaviors you are teaching your kids and the way you can change the health of your family tree!  

 

REFERENCES
Rohan. (n.d.). Weight Loss and Weight Management Market worth $206.4 Billion by 2019. Retrieved June 8, 2017, from http://www.marketsandmarkets.com/PressReleases/weight-loss-obesity-management.asp

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