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5 Things the Christian Church in America Can Learn from Muslim Converts

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Muslims are converting to Christianity by the thousands.

Last year’s Momentum Conference, hosted by the Voice of the Martyrs (Canada), featured persecuted Christian speakers from around the world, and highlighted the growth spurt of the church in Muslim countries and communities, undoubtedly at a higher rate than in America.

Consider the recent State of the Church report published by research firm Barna in September 2016. The report highlights that approximately 73% of Americans identify as Christian, that there’s an overall decline in America’s church attendance, and how only 46% of American Christians believe they have a duty to share their faith.

International Christian worker and evangelist, Bassma Dabbour Jaballah, was one speaker at Momentum, who works on the front lines of sharing Jesus Christ in the very Muslim communities she was raised.

muslim convertsKnowing full well the risks and the ultimate cost of converting to Christianity, Muslims are being exposed to the love and liberty that is the embodiment of Jesus Christ, accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior – even at the threat of losing their families, jobs, friends, heritage…their lives.

Winning Souls Who Have the Most to Lose

Brothers and sisters in Christ with Muslim backgrounds, like Bassma, risk their lives to share Jesus Christ in countries where the name of Jesus is not welcomed.

“Unspeakable peace, unspeakable joy prompts you to share Jesus everywhere.”
– Bassma Dabbour Jaballah

Watch this interview with Teammate Bassma as she shares the freedom to follow and share Jesus:

After hearing her heart and listening to her sermons and interviews, I noticed a stark difference between the passion and commitment of Muslim converts to Christianity and the Christian church in America.

Our brothers and sisters in Christ who are living or serving in Christian-hostile countries are steadfast and unmovable!  With scarce resources, little to no theological education, and zero public platforms, Muslim converts are living faithful lives that honor Christ under the most extreme circumstances.

Story after story, testimonies abound

David Garrison, a missionary pioneer with the Southern Baptist International Mission Board, has traveled to every corner of the Muslim world. The purpose of his work is to research the conversion from Islam to Christianity and interview courageous Muslim converts.

Sheikh Hasan is one such convert from the Horn of Africa. He shares his conversion experience with Garrison:

‘An African evangelist gave me an Injil (New Testament) in the Arabic language. Because the Injil was in Arabic, God’s language, I knew that it must be true, so I began to read it.’ That night Hasan had a dream. ‘I saw a tall minaret. I was disturbed to see a man with an ax chopping the minaret down. When I looked closer, I saw that the man…was me!’

The shock of the dream awakened the sheikh in a panic. ‘I had the same dream three times,’ he said. ‘The next day, I found the evangelist who had given me the Injil. “What does this dream mean?” I demanded. He looked at me and smiled. “You will win many sheikhs to faith in Jesus Christ.”

Today, Sheikh Hasan travels from village to village, speaking to sheikhs, who are leaders of the Islamic community. ‘So far,’ he told me, ‘I have led 400 sheikhs to faith in Jesus Christ.’

Has the threat of violence, poverty, or death slowed down Bassma or Hasan?

We know the body of Christ in America has not seen the turmoil of our brothers and sisters in MENA. But what will be our response when we do?

Can the church in America afford to be complacent and believe that Christian persecution only happens “over there”? Have we not seen the handwriting on the wall – how America has become more hostile to Christian values and Biblical standards?

The time is now for the church in America to take a page from our Muslim-background brothers and sisters. Though some are even babes in Christ, they carry the gospel with such bravery and boldness. It puts the church in America to shame.

Christian Characteristics of Muslim Converts – What Can We Learn?

Let’s not simply look at persecuted Christians in Muslim countries with admiration and no action. What patterns of Christian living have these converts mastered, that if we were honest, we can admit we still have work to do? How can their iron sharpen us?

Here are 5 Christian lifestyle characteristics or convictions I’ve noticed, and I encourage us all to take prayerful notes and implement any needed change:

1. Win others with love.

Christian workers in Muslim countries have a keen understanding of the word serve, and their service in love, with emphasis in combating social injustice, is what draws people away from Islam to Christ. But, not only their love to those they’re trying to win, but they have deep honor and respect for one another (John 13:35). They are unified in the work of faith, which wins the trust of those to whom they witness.

Do Christians in America stand united against social injustice? Can the church in America effectively win souls for Christ divided and bickering? When we attack and dishonor each other, will the world run to our doorsteps to receive this Jesus we preach about?

2. Glory in persecution.

Muslim converts enter the family of God under the threat of imminent persecution. There is no reprieve, no grace period – upon hearing of their conversion, they can face the immediate penalty of death. Oh, but what honor they find in being persecuted for the risen Savior (Matthew 5:10-12)! Many have been beaten and jailed for their faith in Jesus Christ, released, and go right back to proclaiming the gospel!

Are Christians in America equipped to handle persecution for Christ’s sake, when many of us barely maintain our faith when faced with gossip? How often does the church in America ascribe persecution as a “trick of the enemy” vs. an honor and privilege?

3. Honor discipleship training.

When asked how the church can pray for those on the front line, Bassma replies, “There is a need for discipleship training and resources… When the Christians are trained and disciples, they have a huge impact on their Muslim neighbors who are seekers.” The plight for souls does not end at the sinner’s prayer. Muslim-background evangelists understand the need for actual training that will build the faith of new converts, and replicate the process of evangelism with new witnesses.

Does the church in America place enough emphasis on discipleship training? Are new converts even interested? Has the American church painted the picture that “receiving Christ as Lord and Savior” is the end of the story? How does your church prepare members for witnessing or evangelism?

4. Come as little children.

Bassma says, “It doesn’t need too much theological understanding to follow Jesus. That’s why He called us to be like the little children.”  The simplicity of salvation – confess that Jesus is Lord and God raised Him from the dead – is available to all who hear it. From there, like a loving Father, God will nurture and increase that seed to maturity.

Do we in the American church add too many restrictions, requirements, and clauses to accepting Jesus Christ? Do we accelerate babes in Christ to unrealistic levels of knowledge and duty – becoming stumbling blocks to the work of Jesus Christ in them?

5. Pray without ceasing.

Muslims have mastered the discipline of prayer, with the call to pray five times per day. The seed of prayer is well instilled in the life of Muslim converts to Christianity, for most since childhood. Though former prayers to Allah are now prayers to the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the understanding of the importance and power of prayer still rings true in the life of these believers.

When’s the last time you or members of your church had a massive turnout for a prayer service? How many times per day, per week do you pray? Is the house of God in America a house of prayer, or so many other things (den of thieves)?

So, What’s the Play Call?

Check your commitment to Jesus Christ. Ask God if there are places in your heart, in your life that you haven’t fully committed to Him. Then, fully re-commit all that you are to God.

Be loyal to the end, Team.  As our sister, Bassma, puts it, “The peace, the joy of eternal life…it’s worth the price.”

Please pray without ceasing for persecuted Christians all over the world.

Rest In Peace: Bishop Eddie Long Will Be Missed

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Photo New Birth Missionary Baptist Church

Today, with profound sadness, New Birth Missionary Baptist Church announced the passing of Bishop Eddie Long, according to the AJC.

Highly regarded for his vision, boldness, and unapologetic courage to walk in the supernatural, Bishop Long will be missed as husband, father, grandfather, and more by his family, as well as a pastor and friend who was passionate about bringing souls into the body of Christ.

Team Jesus Magazine covered the release of Bishop Long’s book, “The Untold Story: A Story of Adversity, Pain and Resilience” and his 2016 appearance on the Steve Harvey Show. Even in Bishop Long’s death, the beauty of God’s redemption shines bright and rings true for all who will surrender their lives to Jesus Christ.

We personally offer our sincere condolences to the family, our friend Edward Long, and give honor to God for using Bishop Long and New Birth as a personal beacon of hope and faith during trying times in our lives.

According to the church’s statement:

New Birth Missionary Baptist Church celebrates the life and legacy of Bishop Eddie L. Long who is now spiritually healed and home with the Lord. Bishop Long, Senior Pastor of New Birth, transitioned from this life early Sunday morning after a gallant private fight with an aggressive form of cancer. As a man of God with unyielding faith, Bishop Long maintained his commitment to our Heavenly Father as he proclaimed that cancer would not kill his faith nor his spirit. First Lady Elder Vanessa Long, Bishop Long’s wife of 27 years offered the following. “I am confidant through my belief in God that my husband is now resting in a better place. Although, his transition leaves a void for those of us who loved him dearly, we can celebrate and be happy for him, knowing he’s at peace.”

Deeply committed to his church, even in his last days, Bishop Long delivered his final message to New Birth as we ushered in 2017. He told the church that God was already working in our favor and what we have been praying for was already manifested. In his departure, we receive that and as faithful members of New Birth, we praise God for the life of Bishop Long. Bishop Long was known as one of the most influential faith leaders in the world. He stood strong as a Kingdom Builder, pioneering leader, and revolutionary mind changer. Long was a family man and spiritual leader who was well respected and loved for his passion to unapologetically and courageously preach the gospel of Jesus Christ. Long inspired thousands of believers around the world through his global ministry that literally changed lives. Through his earthly battle, Bishop Long believed that God was once again using him to help others see the power of the Holy Spirit through the love New Birth displayed to him and the countless prayers sent up by others from every corner of the earth.Bishop Eddie L. Long was 63 years old. He is survived by his beautiful wife, First Lady Elder Vanessa Long, 4 children Eric, Edward, Jared and Taylor and 3 grandchildren. The Long family thanks you for your prayers, condolences and messages of love. The family appreciates your support and respect of their privacy, as they prepare along with New Birth, for the homegoing service to honor Bishop Long. The date and other details will be announced in the near future.

Please continue to keep the Long family and New Birth in your prayers during this challenging time of grief and transition.

Kim Burrell, Homosexuality, and the Fallacy of Phobia and Hate

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If you’d planned to watch Pharrell Williams and Kim Burrell perform the song “I See a Victory” today on the Ellen Degeneres Show, you may want to consult the Guide channel for a plan B.

After a video of gospel singer and Pastor, Kim Burrell, went viral where she preaches against the sin of homosexuality and gives warnings to those who practice it in the body of Christ, the gay community lashed back with posts, comments, and videos accusing Burrell of “homophobic statements” and “hate speech”.

Let all pastors, prophets, and any follower of Christ and the Word of God be warned – if you speak on the sin of homosexuality, be prepared to expect two (2) likely consequences or reactions:

  1. You will receive angry push back or retaliation from the LGBTQ community, and be accused of being homophobic, hateful, or a bigot.
  2. God will be pleased that you stood firm on His Word as truth, and honored His divine character as author and creator of humanity.

Self-Victimization and the Fallacy of Phobia and Hate

A very strategic tactic of the enemy plays out before our eyes, not only when someone speaks on sin, but especially when someone speaks on the sin of homosexuality.

Self-victimization: the fabrication of victimhood or injury to gain pity, sympathy, or to evoke compassion.

I can understand it. Sometimes the truth hurts, it stings, or it angers. And, instead of looking inwardly and dealing with the conviction we feel, it’s easier to look externally and passively attack the messenger.

You’re hurting me” vs. “The truth hurts.”  It would even be more honest to say, “I’m mad that the Bible says what it says.”

Nonetheless, the gay community has successfully united (take note of the unity, Team) on the common response of “you’re a homophobe” or “you’re hating me” when you share your belief according to the Bible that homosexuality is a sin. Or worse, note the gay community’s hypocritical response of hate, cursing out, insults, death wishes, and more.

Private individuals, groups, and media outlets like BBC News have bought into the fallacy of phobia. It begs the questions:

When did differing beliefs
become synonymous with
“I’m afraid of you” or “I hate you”?
When did “I don’t agree or approve” become code words for hate and bigotry?

Stop it. Everyone who disagrees with you doesn’t hate you, wish you harm, or fear you.

No Fear in Love

LGBTQ community, the body of Christ is neither afraid of you, nor do we hate you. We are commanded to love you – and we do! The Word of God tells us that if we see a brother wandering from the truth in sin, and we bring them back on the right path, we have saved them from death and their sins will be forgiven (James 5:19-20).

So, when someone says “repent”, “beg God to free you”, when they say that homosexuality perverts (alters something from its original course) God’s creation and His creative authority, the only thing you’re a victim of is God’s love and someone caring enough to try to save you from death. You are free to reject it, disagree with it, but please stop telling yourselves the narrative that Christians who share what the Word of God says hate you or fear you. That’s the father of lies speaking.

Team, we must not only honor God’s order for humanity, we must and will boldly speak the Word of God – just as the LGBTQ community boldly speaks, marches, and lobbies unapologetically for what they believe.  Our rights as believers are just as important and valid as the LGBTQ community’s rights.

See also: Gender Identity & LGBT Agendas: The Covert Attack on God’s Creative Authority 

Kim Burrell is a Much Easier Target Than God

And so are you, Team.

When you speak the truth according to the Word of God, and it brings conviction, you will be attacked for believing and repeating what God has said. The enemy will throw everything at you to stir fear in your hearts so that you shy away from or water down the truth.

Don’t shoot the messenger! As the body of Christ, we do what we’re taught. We speak what God has said. We submit in agreement to God’s order, ways, and instruction.

And here’s the beauty: God is watching over His Word to perform it (Jeremiah 1:12). It is God’s responsibility to see to it that His words accomplish what they’re set out to do, not ours! Our job is to say what He tells us to say. The full ownership and authorship belong to God.

Always be a steadfast, willing witness of God’s Word.  Why?

Judgment Begins with Us

If you haven’t noticed, Team, here’s how the last days will play out. People will become “lovers” of themselves more than lovers of God…boastful, arrogant, proud, and blatantly disobedient (2 Timothy 3:2) – and many of these people are “Team Jesus” t-shirt-wearing church folks!

Lord, help us.

The Bible tells us that the time is coming where judgment will begin with us – inside the household of faith, the Church (1 Peter 4:17-18).

Listen, we cannot afford to be so caught up in the delivery that we miss the warnings. There will be times when “love” is spoken softly, and times when it’ll be loud and urgent!

Can you imagine the children of Israel telling Jeremiah, “Man, you talkin’ too loud…you sound like a busted trumpet!”

Umm, yeah. That’s exactly how the Lord told Jeremiah to deliver the message to His people about their sins.

Don’t adopt the pattern of the world to claim “false injury” or “victimhood” when the truth of God’s correction is spoken to you.

We are children of God. If God didn’t love us, He wouldn’t correct us (Proverbs 3:12).

Our job is to respond to God’s correction as a blessing. Don’t resent or despise the Lord’s discipline. He’s not trying to destroy you, God wants to save you!

Team! Don’t lose it when #God corrects you. Accept the #love, and come through better!

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God our Father loves us far too much to let us continue down a path that will eventually separate us from Him forever. As painful as discipline may be, that’s something we can all be thankful and appreciate God for in the long run.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Don’t shrink, don’t flinch from speaking the truth in love.

Don’t get caught up in the emotion of either telling the truth or receiving the truth. Remember, there’s a reason why God told Jeremiah “don’t be afraid of their faces…I am with you.”

Ask God to “Show me Your way.” Lord, what is the wisest way to share Your truth?

There will be times when God shows you how to be meek and gentle in your delivery to the lost, and there will be times when God instructs you to “cry loud and spare not” to His people. Follow God.

Finally, get your own house in order, Team! Judgment is coming. Yield yourself to God, no longer servants of sin, and become tools of righteousness (Romans 6:13).

Where’s Your Focus: The Eyes are the Windows to the Soul

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Normally, on Wednesdays, I choose a topic related to whatever I need help with, find 3-4 scriptures pertaining to it, and then make it my meditation for the day.

I set my alarm for every hour depending on what time I start. Mostly, I do it on the hour. For instance, when I am thinking heavily (worrying), I choose “trust” as my meditation, find 3-4 scriptures relating to trust, and on the hour, I read those scriptures and pray for God to teach me to trust Him more.

[Word of Wisdom: Don’t ask Him to do this until you are ready. Not almost ready, but ready-ready.]

Today, I decided to go a different route. I asked God, instead, “What would You have me meditate and pray on today, Lord?”

He said, “Focus.”

Word of the Day

So, I stuck my finger in the Bible and it opened to Exodus 24-25. Unlike the other times where God would confirm what He told me, I didn’t see the word focus anywhere. But, this verse caught my eye:

“Then Moses entered the cloud as he went on up the mountain.
And he stayed there forty days and forty nights.”
Exodus 24:18 (NIV)

Revelation: Moses was in the Presence of God, as the glory of the Lord had settled there. And for forty days and forty nights, his eyes were focused on God.

Furthermore, at the end of the forty days, he came down with the Commandments and his face was radiant (Exodus 34:29-30). The people around him were afraid to come near.

Team, we have a word today.

But first…

Beyond Your Curtains

We can look into a window and see what is housed behind it.  Windows are also a protection against the elements while simultaneously allowing light in. When the sun is particularly hot or bright, like in the southern states, sometimes we put a tint on the window to lessen the heat. When the nighttime comes, we close the blinds for the sake of privacy; darkness remains on the outside unless we choose to venture into it.

What the soul takes in, the soul takes on. What seeps through the window can illuminate or darken. If your eyes take it in, it becomes a part of you.

And, sometimes what we take in diminishes or destroys our focus.

What Does Our Playbook Say About Focus?

“Why are you down in the dumps, dear soul? Why are you crying the blues? Fix my eyes on God – soon I will be praising again. He puts a smile on my face. He’s my God.” (Psalm 42:5)

When our eyes are not focused on God, we forget to praise. We forget that troubles are temporary. We forget to smile and to rejoice in the Lord. Our troubles become part of our identity. A part of us becomes bitter, saddened, and averse to praise.

This does not in any way mean that we ignore what we’re facing. As the saying goes, “Denial is a river in Egypt.” The river keeps flowing whether you look directly at it or turn your back. But what it says is that you being down in the dumps and crying the blues takes away from your ability to focus on God in order to cross the river and get to the other side of it.

“God teach me lessons for living so I can STAY THE COURSE. Give me INSIGHT so I can do what You tell me – my whole life one long obedient response.” (Psalm 119:33-34)

Let’s think about the river again.

In order to stay the course, we must remain focused on God. The minute we look left or right, we begin to swim either left or right instead of straight ahead toward the goal.

Where your eyes go, you will follow. The more insight or inner vision from spiritual eyes we have the better we’ll see what God is trying to show and tell us. I know we hear with our ears, but insight is like seeing, hearing, and understanding all at once. It’s when a thing clicks and you have no reason to have understood it except through God’s revelation to you.

“I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With Him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.” (Psalm 16:8)

When we swear a solemn oath, we place our right hand on the Bible. It means that we will stand in truth. When we say someone is our right hand, it means they are our go-to, our ace. If we go into a dangerous situation (like crossing a raging river) with Ace, we know that whatever happens they aren’t going to abandon us. It boosts our confidence and gives us the ability to focus on our task without worry.

Think about this. Jesus is seated at the right hand of the Father. If He (The Way, The Truth, and The Life) can be the right hand to THE MOST HIGH GOD, He can surely be trusted to be yours! Besides, who can you trust more that someone who’d give His life for you?

Someone who’s already done so.

Now, back to Moses…

The Israelites were afraid to come near Moses because their eyes were not accustomed to the glory of the Lord. Their days had been spent in the darkness of their false gods. God’s people were used to average. They were used to everyone looking the same and sounding the same. They were used to being afraid of being who God called them to be.

The truth is, sometimes, we’re Moses. And sometimes, we have surely been the Israelites. Before Christ, right, Team? But let’s talk as if you were Moses (who was scared at first).

Moses had been in the presence of the Lord and came down with a gift from God to present to the Israelites. That’s why when you branch out and do the new thing that God has given you to do, you get criticized and attacked. THE LIGHT of the Lord SHINING THROUGH YOUR WINDOWS is beyond the worldly comprehension of the Israelites. They can’t even make eye contact with you because they’d be blinded. Or, they might be forced to see their own unwillingness to step into who God has called them to be.

In any case, we must shield our eyes from the influence of the world and those who prefer to do everything but focus on God.

So, What’s the Play Call?

It comes directly from Psalm 121:1-2:

“I lift my eyes to the hills, where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.”

Remember the power, strength, and guidance that God offers to those who keep their eyes on the hills – at the mountaintops where the glory of the Lord remained with Moses. If we, like Moses, focus on the Lord, He will send you out with a hope and a promise that is greater than any of your problems combined. And He will give you the ability to see the solution that He has purposed for you.

What you see depends on where you decide to focus.

Daughters of Zion: Leave That Man Alone

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“Daughters of Zion, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does in the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.” Song of Songs 3:5 (NIV)

“Oh, let me warn you sisters in Jerusalem, by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer: don’t excite love, don’t stir it up, until the time is ripe – and you’re ready.” Song of Solomon (MSG)

You Know You’re Not Ready

Girl. Are you lonely? Ain’t been out on a date in months? A year?
Sit tight, Baby. Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

What the heck is she talking about?

Intentional Christian dating for grownups.

Ladies, how many times have we gone out with a guy we don’t really like “like that,” but went for kicks and giggles, free dinners, to get out of the house, or to have male company instead of an estrogen conference for a change?

We can’t do that.

Now. I’m not talking about if you like him. If you like him, date him, Girl. Get to know him. But if you don’t, don’t bother.

Sure, singleness can be lonely, but newsflash: You’re using him.

Sidebar: Men. Don’t get self-righteous about “how women are.” How many times did you, O saved one, know you didn’t like her, but stayed around because she would compromise and have sex with you on the low, or because she cooked for you? Or helped you write your papers? Or helped you get your mom off your back about still being single? Exactly. So stop it.

Back to us Ladies.

Arousing and awakening love…

Sometimes, we are ready for love, but not with that person. And we don’t think about how our actions are perceived by men or that men have feelings too. Men get hurt like we do.

If you say, “He needs to man up”, then that’s the same mentality that would have you date someone you don’t really like. The relationship is all based on you and not on how the other person feels. A relationship where either one of you has that mentality is like a cake recipe with missing ingredients. No matter how you try to mix it, it will never come out quite right.

Where was I? Oh yes. Men get hurt, too!

What Signals Do Women Send?

datingSometimes, a man gets the impression you really like him and want him. This may awaken a desire in him to be in a relationship, to love someone with his whole heart, to want to marry and make babies, or to have a companion to travel with after retirement – only to find out you used him for your benefit.

Know what happens after that? He ends up being the kind of guy who dates and skates, hits and quits, sees you and flees you because he couldn’t tell that you wanted him for the moment and not for a lifetime. So, he keeps every woman at a distance. And one day, you’re the girl who really wants to love the guy whose heart has been smoothied in the blender of love. But, he is not yet healed and is thus incapable of giving or receiving love.

Relationship card: Declined.

Don’t Men Do It Too?

Now, before we go any further, we ladies know men who stir love without commitment. Some learn it from the men they are raised by (or not raised by), some just came into the world like that, and some have been hurt – by us.

man-field-hat_If you have guy friends or have brothers, you’ve seen them hurt. And you’ve seen them with a common cold. It’s not pretty. With a cold, they wrap up in the bed and moan like babies. With everything else, they just tend to mask it with jokes, pettiness, anger, or indifference.

So, before you tell me that men do it too, tell me you’re going to take responsibility for your own actions – because we’re grownups and that’s what grownups do. Grownups say, “I’m going to own my part of the problem.” Or, “Let me not use my circumstances as a justification for why I feel it’s okay to use someone.” And, “Let me keep myself home, read this Word, and eat this Talenti instead of being selfish.”

It’s not how much you make or what you drive or how long you’ve been taking care of yourself that makes you a responsible adult. It’s being mature in your decisions and choosing the right thing over what will benefit you in the moment. It’s waiting until God’s time is right…for both of you.

So, what’s the play call?

Simple – the Golden Rule.

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

Or, in other words, leave that man in peace.

 

In what ways do you intentionally date?
How do you apply the Golden Rule to Christian dating?

Are We Living the Christmas Songs, or Just Rocking to the Beat?

Heaven and Nature Sing?

At the beginning of the holiday season, every radio station, every restaurant sound system has Christmas tunes playing. Plus, the church choir has begun singing about Sweet Bethlehem and Oh Holy Night. It’s a clear sign that Christmas is near!

As part of the congregation, we sing along with some of the familiar lyrics to Peace on Earth and Joy to the World. We sway, we dance, we enjoy the melodious sounds.

Once the music stops, however, have the lyrics transformed our hearts? Do our relationships reflect that we are change agents at home, bringing “peace on earth” and “joy to the world”?

Take a moment to stop and think. Have these Christmas songs simply become clichés, like many frequently used Christian sayings? Do our Christian marriages represent that Christmas is more than a day – it is a spirit of giving and love that exists within our households throughout the year?

What Would Jesus Do, Everyday?

During this season of Christmas, and always, we are to exhibit Christ-like behaviors within our relationships to bring about peace on earth.

The mark of being true ambassadors of Christ within our relationships is when we love, live, and act like Jesus.  Here are a few examples:

Be Prayerful

We must be confident in knowing that God is I AM, and whatever we ask according to His will He will do (1 John 5:14). Faith requires us to be patient and wait for our prayer requests to manifest. As we put our faith and trust in God, we must remember to resist the urge to become mini-gods, acting as if we are “God” in our lives and the lives of others.

Be Humble

As we acknowledge that God is the source of all resources, we show humility even in our giving. There is no need to compete to out-gift God and others in a prideful attempt to make our name great. Be humble in what you do for your spouse, and remember, you can never out give God!

Be Obedient

Align your actions with the instructions of the Holy Spirit to glorify God’s name, not to fulfill selfish wants and desires. Our ultimate goal is to always reflect the love of God (John 15:10). 

Be Charitable

Give from a place of love. Gift others with what you would like to receive. Be careful to always put thought and value behind your giving (Mark 12:30-31).

Be a Peacekeeper

Speak kind words. We can’t expect peace in our relationships when we have a sharp tongue. Be willing to control that little member in your mouth, and turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:9).

 

So, what’s the play call?

Before we sing another Christmas song, let’s make sure we’re living the lyrics and the Word of God to be a joyful sound unto the Lord in our relationships. There’s enough disharmony and noise in the world. We can all avoid being a clanking sound by being the peace and joy we want to see in the world.

It all starts at home. Be that song that brings harmony to your relationships.

And, as we emulate Christ to those closest to us, it will begin to change our communities, our states, our country, and the world.

3 Things You Can Do NOW to Make 2016 a Win!

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Now that your Thanksgiving guests have said goodbye and the last bite of turkey is gone, what are you going to do with the rest of 2016?

I know that the countdown to Christmas has begun. You’re planning holiday parties and you’ve already put up the tree. By now, your favorite retailers have filled your inbox with online shopping deals that you simply cannot ignore.  There are projects at work that you need to wrap up, plus you still have to find the perfect outfit for New Year’s Eve.

But wait, can you remember the excitement of the night of December 31, 2015?

As you held up your fancy glass of sparkling cider and rang in the New Year, you convinced yourself that this would be your year.  As the bottles popped and the confetti dropped, you were confident that 2016 would be your time to finally lose that weight.  Maybe you had high hopes to improve your finances or you wanted to write that bestselling book.

Perhaps you said that this would be the year that you’d leave the job that you no longer enjoy and embark on your journey toward entrepreneurship. You were excited because you saw 2016 as a time of new beginnings.

Now that the year is coming to an end, do you think that it’s too late to refocus on your goals?

Be honest. In the one minute that you’ve been reading this article, have you silently told yourself, “Next year is definitely my year!”  Before you go off searching for a new 2017 planner, may I remind you of something?

This year is not over yet!

As of today, there are 34 days left in 2016.

That translates to:

  • 2,937,600 seconds
  • 48,960 minutes
  • 816 hours
  • Or 4 weeks and 6 days

What will you do with the time you have left?

You Are Not Average

woman-floatAn average person would look at the month of December and chalk it up as time already spent. Even though the month of December has not started yet, an average person would write off the remainder of this year to family time or time to relax.  An average person would opt to put off even thinking about their goals until January.

As citizens of the Kingdom and as children of God, He has not called us to be average.

Philippians 3:14 urges us to press toward the mark of the high calling.  This calling surpasses the mindset of getting by and living an average, mediocre life.  As His children, it is our responsibility to be good managers of time. Since time does not belong to us, God expects us to use time wisely.

Instead of writing off the next 34 days, may I invite you to change your perspective?  Instead of seeing the remainder of this year as a loss, here are three simple things you can do to wrap up 2016 and see it as a win!

How to Finish 2016 Strong

1. Refocus.

In this moment, make a commitment to yourself to refocus on one thing you can improve or that one thing you’d like to work on. Often times we honor commitments to our jobs, our children’s schedules, and the needs of others.  We think that our own personal growth and development can be put off for later.

As a result, everyone else’s needs take priority over our own. Everyone in your world has his or her needs met and you are left feeling depleted and overwhelmed.   Your personal growth has taken the back seat to someone else’s agenda.

Will you take a few minutes to write down one area in your life that you were excited about at the beginning of the year? The Word of the Lord in Habakkuk 2:2 urges us to write the vision.  Writing the vision will provide the framework from where you’ll start.  It is at this time that you can make a simple plan for the remainder of the year for small steps toward your goal.  It is here that you clarify what is important.

2. Make Time.

Set aside time to work on your goal. With the holidays approaching and all that you have to do, you might think it is unrealistic to begin working toward that one goal.

Would you agree that your shopping list is a priority?  Would you also say that your holiday errands are a must?

The things we deem essential in our lives are the things we make time for.  Quite simply, if it is important, you will find a way.  If it’s not, you will find an excuse.  Because you have made the commitment to yourself, honor the greatness that is in you and take the time that you need for YOU.

Since we still have the entire month of December left, can you find an hour a day to work toward your goal?  If you feel that an hour a day is unmanageable, can you commit yourself to an hour a week?

In order to begin to take the small first steps toward your goal, you must be willing to give up something. The small sacrifice of time will inch you closer to your goal.

Think about it, are you willing to give up 60 minutes of ratchet TV or YouTube videos?  Are you willing to temporarily give up 60 minutes of scrolling through your Instagram or your Twitter feeds for a better you?  This small sacrifice of time will be well worth the results!

3. Commit.

The last way you can make 2016 a win is by committing your way to the Lord (Psalms 37:5). This means that when we buckle down and give our plan of attack over to the Lord, He has space to bring our desire to pass.

The Word of the Lord also says in Proverbs 16:3 (NLT) “Commit your actions to the LORD and your plans will succeed.” This Word of encouragement from the scripture clearly shows us that when we dedicate our efforts to the Lord, we will eventually achieve what we set out to do.  This is further encouragement to simply do the work!

While it is great to have the faith that God will help you in accomplishing your goals, you have to add to your faith. James 2:17 says faith without work (corresponding action) is dead.  You will have to get moving and actually put action behind what you believe. May I encourage you in these final few weeks of the year to continue to walk by faith?

The year 2016 can still go down as a WIN for you; the possibility that it actually will be a win lies in your hands!

So, what’s the play call?

Commit to not being average – be great!

Get a headstart on 2017 by taking small steps of faith towards your goals right now!

By taking these steps of faith for the remainder of 2016, you can look back with a smile and count it as a WIN because you did not give up!

Microwave Blessings: Stop Trying to Out-Cook God

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Rubbery turkey. Doughy rolls.

That’s what we get when we try to push our blessings faster than what God has in mind. It’s what happens when we get tired of waiting on God, and we try to do things in our own strength.

With the holiday season upon us, my thoughts veer to food and family and food. It’s the time of year when eating carbs and various desserts are acceptable in God’s sight.

When you put food in the microwave, it’s been said that all the nutrients are zapped. We eat vegetables for their nutritional content – the vitamins and minerals to keep our bodies functioning at peak performance. That’s like eating vegetables for no reason – there is no value.

This is not to say that we care about the nutritional content on the day after Thanksgiving or Christmas. The microwave is perfectly fine.

Just as God is fully capable of a quick blessing. He has come through in a clutch situation many a time. Hey God, I need… Okay, DONE.

Meet for God’s Glory

But for the original holiday dinner, there are some things (people) that first need that cleaning, then the seasoning and marinating, the oven on a low temperature, then the slow-roast, and/or the slow cooker. Some things need to have all the ingredients cut, peeled, grated and mixed together – and then baked. And all of this happens long before the table is spread and grace is said.

The final result? Oven-roasted turkey where the meat is juicy. A roast that is tender and flavored just right. Mac and cheese with a golden brown topping. Greens that sing the blues. Pies that call your name. And cakes for breakfast.

But, in order to have it come out the best way possible, we have to allow the cook to clean, prepare, and bake/fry/roast everything in its proper time at the right temperature. We have to allow the cook to cook. We cannot speed up the process. Or we won’t like the outcome quite so much.

Are you in the kitchen, in the way, trying to tell The Cook (God) how to “prepare” you?

How effective will you be in your purpose unclean, unchopped, untried, and cooked on high heat to a burnt crisp?  Will you be successful mixed and seasoned with the wrong people? How can we glorify God without Him first straining the pride, envy, bitterness, or unforgiveness from our hearts?

So, what’s the play call?

In order to have our blessings be what God intends them to be, move out of the way and let God cook it up God’s way. God needs us to let Him knead us. We can’t out cook God – waiting on God is our best option. Get ready to be your best YOU in the Master Chef’s capable hands.

Happy Holidays!

Relationship Leftovers: Love That Keeps On Giving

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During the Thanksgiving holidays, I always enjoy the turkey leftovers. I can just taste the turkey hash Papa makes, the yummy turkey sandwiches, or my turkey tetrazzini.

I know there are those who are adamant about not eating leftovers in any shape or form. However, I personally believe one misses out with that kind of thinking. There are a lot of great, second “main” dishes that can come from the first main entrée.

It’s all about changing our thought process to see leftovers as the overflow. Leftovers are blessings that will carry you through a little bit longer, not because you are in lack or hungry for a meal, but because the overflow is even better than the original first bite.

Now, apply this thought process to overflow in relationships.

Second chance relationships are blessings, not burdens. It could be a second chance at a Meal of Love due to the loss of a spouse through divorce or death. Or perhaps you’re growing in your second chance relationship with God.

Whatever the circumstance around creating a second main dish, here are a few do’s and don’ts to ensure a lifetime of satisfying meals.

Recipe Tips for Relationship Leftovers

1. Don’t duplicate the first dish (Psalm 139:14).

Give the relationship more than 2 minutes in the microwave. Do more than warm-up the same dish or re-plate/reposition the same meal. God created us to be, and continue being wonderful, set apart and unique. Don’t allow the relationship to become the image of a memory, and never allow the true relationship to be revealed.

2. Do enjoy the dish at different temperatures (Proverb 17:17).

Sometimes it’s hot, sometimes it’s cold. Don’t let the fear of confrontation allow you to internalize discord within the relationship. Keep the integrity of the dish intact no matter what. Show love at all times whether it is served hot or cold.

3. Don’t keep the dish bound in the original container (2 Timothy 1:6).

Don’t get caught in routine or the old habits of the past. Give yourselves permission to create new memories within the new union. Stir up the ingredients and become one cohesive dish to reveal the gifts of GOD within your relationship.

4. Do prepare the dish before you’re starving (Philippians 4:6).

When you’re starving, you’ll throw any old meal together just to satisfy your craving – and still end up wanting more. When we rush our meal preparation or are too anxious for overflow, we can miss what was really the best dish of all.

So, WHAT’S the PLAY CALL?

Whether you are working with a turkey, roast, or chicken meal in your relationship, you can always enjoy your leftovers with these bonus tips:

  • Add your own sauce and flavoring so the second dish doesn’t become a dried-up version of the original.
  • Bring new and creative ideas to the relationship; show the dish its many possibilities with the right cook.
  • Let the dish know it is appreciated for what it brings to the meal. Say grace, and give thanks!

 

How will YOU prepare YOUR relationship leftovers?

UNameIt for Good: Giving Families Beans, Greens, Potatoes, Tomatoes!

Will Pastor Shirley Caesar become the first traditional gospel artist to top the hip-hop charts?

With her viral #UNameIt Challenge sweeping the Internet, remixed with trap, hip-hop, and even Afro-Cuban music, she is well on her way!

For over 40 years, Mama Shirley has told the classic story of Shouting John before the song “Hold My Mule” as only she can. We’ve been holding “Shouting John’s mule“, and praising God with him for his beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes…you name it!

Now, Pastor Caesar spreads Shouting John cheer just in time for Thanksgiving this year. The UNameIt for Good store is now open with merchandise, e.g. hoodies, aprons, tees, you name it! Proceeds will feed families in need.

“I was shocked to see them dancing and boogeying,” says Pastor Caesar. Catch Pastor Caesar’s response to the viral craze in her full interview on The Willie Moore Jr. Show. Watch the original “Hold My Mule” that’s become an Internet sensation.

Remember, Team. You never know when God will multiply and explode your good works. We’re taking notes, Pastor Shirley.

 

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