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Respect the Process: Why the Speed of Your Journey is Set by God

By
Jeannette Tyson
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What Do You Need For Now?

There has been a phrase on my mind for the past few days and I believe it’s from the Spirit of God. I’m hearing “Take only what you need… take ONLY what you need”.  Sometimes, we overwhelm ourselves trying to get everything done today, right now, as if we’re trying to win some imaginary race. We need to get used to being undone and accept that there will always be things for us to do.

When you’re constantly overthinking about what’s ahead, you become so anxious about potential future issues that you forget to be present and enjoy the journey of life.

Exodus 16:16 says, “This is the thing which the Lord has commanded: Let every man gather it according to each one’s need, one omer for each person, according to the number of persons; let every man take for those in his tent”. There were some hard-headed folks in the children of Israel’s camp who tried to take more than they needed, and Exodus 16:20 says the leftovers grew worms and began to stink.

Reading this made me wonder why they felt they needed to save anything when they had a direct word from the Lord? Didn’t they trust Him by now? Do we? In fact, their entire process, from bondage to freedom, was filled with constant complaints and murmuring.

Eating the Process Whole

respect the processRecently, God helped me to understand their behavior in a very practical way. I hate grocery shopping! I don’t know why – I just do. When I go to the store, I feel like I want to get as much as I can so that the groceries can last, and I won’t have to come back anytime soon.

The other day I was in the market having these exact thoughts – grabbing all these items to just get it over with. I heard the Spirit say “Why? You’ll be back either way. As long as you live, grocery shopping will be a part of your life’s routine. You don’t have a problem with grocery shopping, you have a problem with continuity. You are so obsessed with being done”.

If we resist or rebel against the needful things in life that we have no way around – we have decided to make our lives miserable!

God Will Never Steer Us Wrong

When reading Exodus, chapter 15 starts off with a song to the Lord. The people were so happy to have been saved by the powerful hand of God! They witnessed so many miracles, signs, and wonders – even the defeat of Pharaoh and his army. Three days into the journey, they start complaining to Moses about the lack of water (Exodus 15:22-24). Anxiety and fear of the unknown crept in and, despite their amazing encounters with God, they were struggling to find joy in their journey to the promised land.

Anxiety is a manifestation of fear and doubt. When we have complete trust, we’re not anxious. Greatness and success happen gradually over time. Even God took His time to create the heavens and the earth in seven days. So, why do we feel so rushed to do everything? Why do we forsake the process of greatness?

respect the processGod is saying slow down. If we don’t get comfortable taking one step at a time, we will never accomplish anything worthwhile without driving ourselves crazy. Balance is key. Yes, we should work hard and be productive and use time wisely, but we should not put debilitating pressure on ourselves by doing everything under extreme stress and worry.

The worst part about this kind of anxiety is never being present. When you’re at your job, you’re thinking about what you have to do at home. When you’re at home, your trying to remember if you forgot to do anything at work. You’re spending time with the kids and making a mental to-do list…

Fight to stay in the moment, being fully engaged in what you’re doing. If we’re not careful, we can miss some amazing experiences in the “now”. It scares me to think I might miss life as it’s happening because, in my mind, I’m always “somewhere else”.  We need to pray for the wisdom to enjoy every minute we have to the fullest and embrace our God-given tasks – even the mundane.

The key to all of this is God. Philippians 4:6 says “Don’t worry about anything but pray about everything”. True contentment is only attained through the peace of God. Getting lost in Him – in worship, in prayer – He puts us at ease and enables us to have joy in all circumstances and be fulfilled. Let’s not allow anxiety to rush or steal our time anymore, Team!

So, What’s the Play Call?

  • A woman of God I know used to say, “Think about what you’re thinking about”. Take captive every idle thought and make it obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).
  • Put your outdoor work in order, and get your fields ready; then build your house (Proverbs 24:27). Take your time, don’t rush the process of things.
  • She is clothed with strength and dignity; she laughs without fear of the future (Proverbs 31:25). There’s no anxiety when you are well prepared. The Proverbs 31 woman rose early to care for her family and owned successful businesses! There is nothing wrong with multi-tasking and drive, but keep God first to maintain your balance.

7 Ways Parents Can Avoid Favoritism: Beware of Your Joseph

By
Kristina Bolton
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Does Favoritism Run in Your Family?

favoritismOne of the first things I’m asked when people find out I have five children is, “How do you do it?” Actually, God and my husband are the pillars that keep me standing from day-to-day. Having five children is a lot, and there are a lot of things to consider. But I can recall having my third child and really seeking God on how parenting would be possible. I was concerned with more than finances and material things. I wondered how I (as one person), would be able to mother them all equally.

First off, the fact that I have children is a miracle. During my teenage years, I can recall saying, “I will not have kids.” I knew that there was an enormous responsibility in caring for another human, and I didn’t want it. When I became a believer and then married, children were nowhere in my thoughts because doctors had determined that I couldn’t have them. It was something that was established even before I got married, but that did not stop my husband or his faith.

After two months of marriage, we conceived. Despite my will, doctors, and medications, I would become a mother.  I had no choice but to accept this assignment from God.

Parenting is an Assignment

favoritismAs preachers of the Gospel, my husband and I refuse to preach to others and the souls of our own children lack. They are the first members of our church.

Even if I wasn’t a preacher, I understand what it’s like to be affected by the actions and decisions of your parents. So, I know my lifestyle will affect them. Living a holy and righteous life before the Lord is not only something I do for myself – but for them as well. Being a godly example to the youth is valuable, especially considering the times in which we live. There are enough people promoting sin, so it is imperative that our children see that living for God is possible.

When I first became a mother to my son over nine years ago, I looked at love so differently. I never thought I could love another person so much. It wasn’t like any other love; it was something different. A love I still can’t describe. I knew there wasn’t anything, under God, that I wouldn’t do for my children. I had to seek God because I wanted so desperately to be a good mother.

Parental Truths

Let’s be honest with one another, parent to parent. Although we love our children, their innate personality given to them by God can cause our relationships to be tried. Some of our children can challenge our nerves more than others. I will be first to admit – I have that one child that now and again I lay across my bed and sarcastically tell God “…into thy hands I commit my spirit!” (Luke 23:46). On the other hand, this same child is the one who checks on me every day.

I sought God on how to make sure that despite their differences, I loved equally. I want to be the best mom I could be to all my children. It matters not that I won’t do everything right, but it’s in my heart to try. As I prayed about this, I heard the Lord tell me years ago “Beware of your Joseph.”

Israel Favored Joseph

“Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age: and he made him a coat of many colours.”  – Genesis 37:3 (KJV)

When the Lord spoke this to me, I was stunned. The Spirit immediately sent me to the scripture above. One word came to me. Wow. If we ask God, He is faithful to deliver.  I didn’t want my children to grow up competing with one another. I wanted them to know that they have parents that love them the same, and they should love one another.

When you think of Joseph and his brothers, we remember his troubles. The Lord used Joseph’s story for His glory. Although Joseph had a hard life, he became the second in command of Egypt, saving his entire family. But when we think about what initiated Joseph’s trials, it goes back to the jealousy that his brothers had toward him because he was his father’s favorite.

Have you known a family that suffers from the effects of favoritism?

This story is indeed evidence of all things working together for good (Romans 8:28). But, one thing is for sure, not all stories of family division end like this. When examining this story, we see how Israel played a negative role in his children’s life.

As God brought that to my attention, I made sure to beware of my Joseph. Now you may wonder which of my children is my Joseph. I don’t have one. To ensure this, my husband and I put some things into practice that I will share with you.

No “Joseph” Allowed

After receiving this revelation years ago, my husband and I were determined to raise our children in the fairest way possible. We want our children to love God, people, their family, and one another. We don’t want them divided as we see so many siblings today.

Unfavored children can deal with a spirit of rejection, feeling like they are not loved by their parents in comparison to their sibling(s). Rejection is just one of the many consequences of favoritism. I am so thankful to God for revealing this to me. It can save a lot of families.

Favorite-proof your family.

So, here are some things that we practice. Maybe you can share some of your own:

  1. We pray and worship together. Even if it’s just singing or praying over our meal, we make sure to love God as a family. God is Lord in our home. We involve our children in our spiritual walk, teaching them the fundamental teachings of the Father, Jesus, and Holy Ghost.
  2. We practice family hugs. There will be times that I come home, and all the children are saying hello. I put everyone together to love on me and one another.
  3. Birthdays are the day we celebrate one another. We love to involve the children in the planning and celebration of their siblings. This helps them not to feel left out and learn what it’s like to give and celebrate others.
  4. We rotate individual time. Each child has their turn being with mommy and daddy. So, we may allow them to go to the store or run an errand. There is a set order, so no one feels left out.
  5. We don’t tolerate insults or family excommunication. For whatever reason, the first thing my kids say is, “I’m not your brother/sister anymore.” Not tolerated.
  6. When I go to the store, if I buy one person something, everyone gets something.
  7. We have a lot of family time. Whether it’s dinner, watching a movie, or going to the park, it’s imperative that we, as a family, love one another and spend time with one another.

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

Teammate, James 2:9 tells us that if we have the respect of people, we commit sin. It does not matter if that favoritism targets our own children. We have to love equally.

As we see in the Word, had not God intervened, Israel would have caused murder in his own home. You and I both do not want this for our family. Let us consider how we deal with our children. If you find that you have a Joseph, fix it. God is a redeemer of lost time (Joel 2:25).

If you have been affected by favoritism in the home, make sure that you forgive. I’ve learned long ago that some people do things not because they want to, but because they do not know any other way.

I pray that this helps you.

I love you all.

HARRIET Trailer Just Released, In Theaters November 1st

By
Editorial Staff
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God At Work Through Harriet

harrietIn theaters November 1, HARRIET tells the real-life story of iconic woman of faith and freedom fighter, Harriet Tubman. Starring Tony Award-winning Cynthia Erivo (Widows, Bad Times at the El Royale), Leslie Odom Jr. (Hamilton, Murder on the Orient Express), Janelle Monáe (Hidden Figures, UglyDolls), and Joe Alwyn (The Favourite, Mary Queen of Scots).

HARRIET is the first film to follow Tubman on her escape from slavery and subsequent missions to free dozens of slaves through the Underground Railroad in the face of growing pre-Civil War adversity.

Directed by Kasi Lemmons (Luke Cage, Talk to Me), who wrote the screenplay with Gregory Allen Howard (Remember the Titans, Ali), the film illustrates the power of GOD working through Harriet Tubman as she treks through nearly 100 miles of secret passageways to get to freedom – singlehandedly rescuing more than 70 slaves over 19 faith-fueled expeditions.

Peace Be Still: Put Jesus in Charge of Your Peace

By
Sonya McKinzie
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A few nights ago, “The Diary of a Mad Black Woman” came on TV. As I sat there all wrapped up in the suspense and drama of the movie, there seemed to be many parts that I connected with at some point in my life experience.

When Cicely Tyson spoke the words “Peace! Be still” (Matthew 8:23-27) then Madea said “Yes, peace be still. I keeps a piece of steel on me at all times”, I simply had to laugh.

While the message was funny, it was very clear. This was not the first time that I had heard the words, but it was the first time I heard it said with such humor. 

How Important is Peace to You?

peace be stillWhen you do not have peace of mind, are you able to go about your day without issue? 

One of the greatest stories in the Bible is in Matthew 8:23-27, when Jesus calms the storm. This is a prime example of Jesus’ authority over everything that lives and breathes. Many times, we lose our peace because we do not have faith that God hears our cries and will answer them. When we allow our peace to be broken, we are saying “God, I do not trust that you can resolve this issue, remove this disease, eradicate this pain, bless me with a job, etc.” and that is where we lose our peacefulness.  

Give Jesus Control of Your Peace

Think about why Jesus calmed the storm – He did this to encourage us to have faith in Him. When the disciples were afraid, Jesus rebutted their weakened faith by saying, “O you of little faith, why are you afraid?” (Matthew 8:26). Their request for Jesus’ help, their fear showed that their faith was weakened. They displayed fear and panic when they came to Him – they were not at peace and the raging storm on the sea scared them. The disciples felt they were going to die regardless of Jesus’ presence alongside them. 

When Jesus calmed the storm, He showed the power and the strength behind His words. When we find that we are going through a hardship, something beyond our control we must remember that Jesus has the final say so. 

So, I ask you, why allow an issue, person, or thing to affect your peace when we already know what Jesus can do? 

We must remember that as long as we carry Jesus in our heart, we will have peace. When we have faith, it builds our confidence in Christ. And, when our faith is expressed in our prayers, He hears each and every one of our pleas and keeps us from harm.

To obtain and maintain peace, we must have faith and pray to Jesus Christ knowing that our prayers will be answered. Say it, “Peace! Be still.” (Matthew 8:23-27)

So, what is the play call? 

  1. We must receive the power of the Lord, according to the Word of God, and apply His power to the experiences we encounter in our lives (Zechariah 4:6). If we do this, the greater our confidence and peace will be. 
  2. We must understand that we will struggle with tribulation in this life, but be of good cheer and never take your eyes off of Jesus (John 16:33). 
  3. We must work towards building an unyielding, virtuous faith. Understand that it is indeed a process, and we have to be patient and continue to nurture our faith in God (2 Peter 1:5).
  4. We must understand that there will be times when we have fears and our faith weakens. It is important to always remember to cry out to the Lord in prayer (Psalm 18:6) – have faith and KNOW that He will bring you through.
  5. Finally, the next time you observe that your peace is shifting to frustration, demand that your Peace return to its rightful place within you in Jesus’ name.

The best version of Christians are faithful, peaceful, loved, and highly-favored followers of God. As long as you follow His words, your peace will remain. Dry your tears, take back your strength, release your fears and say it, “Peace! Be still.” (Matthew 8:23-27).

Fear of Repeated Failure: 4 Things to Try Before You Give Up for Good

By
Alecia M. White
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Bouncing Back From Repeated Failure

I learned to ride a bike around the age of eight. One of my older brothers and a cousin taught me. Of course, as a child, riding a bike is one of the most amazing things ever. It’s the pre to having your first car. My parents let me ride, with supervision of course, to the ice cream stand and across the way to the candy store.

There’s a parking lot in front of my parent’s home that we’d ride around. I recall when I was around ten or eleven, riding around this parking lot racing with my younger brother.

As I rounded the light post, my bicycle wheel turned and I could see myself going down. I skinned both my knees, badly. Like, I skinned them “to the white meat”, you know that phrase, don’t you? 

Well, after that, I didn’t want to ride a bike again. And, you know what? I didn’t. I haven’t ridden a bike since. Yep, that means I missed out on riding to get ice cream and to the candy store for the remainder of my childhood. All because I’m sure I was terrified that it would happen again.

But what proof did I have? I’d never fallen off before, but that one time is all it took to change my perception of how things would turn out in the future. Even now, I’ve got people trying to get me to go on bicycle rides that I’ll never take. Why? Because I refuse to get back on a bike. All because I tore up both my knees at a time when it only took them a few days to heal.

Get Back on the Bike

What is it that you’ve stopped doing because you’ve “skinned your knees”? See, there are many times in life – more than we should allow – that we give in to the thought that every time we try, things will be just as bad or worse than the last time. 

You stopped writing that book because you had a case of “writer’s block”. Your business plan is collecting dust because you were refused a loan that you thought would jumpstart your latest venture. Someone else, seemingly less qualified, got the job that you applied for, so you decided to stay comfortable in your cubicle to avoid any other letdowns.

So, What’s the Play Call?

Sometimes, things don’t gradually get tough – they seem to flop all at once. Here are 4 things to keep in mind before you give up that bicycle:

  1. God never intended for us to be afraid. Nope, He didn’t. So wanting to give up because you fell down was never His idea. “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7
  2. If God placed it in you, you can do it. The things we are purposed to do are often the things that push us to our limits. This is when we must rely on the strength of God and not our own. “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” Philippians 4:13
  3. God called you to it. Yep, He did! And He gave you the tools to carry it out, i.e… that “bike” He gave you. “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee, and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.” Jeremiah 1:5
  4. Try again. Trust God to help you carry out all that He has set before you. Look to Him to help you succeed. “I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.” Psalms 121:1

They say, once you learn to ride a bike, you never forget. I imagine that I could still get back on and ride a trail or something, but I’d have to be willing to face that risk. I imagine that you could still get back on and “ride a trail or something” – but you’d have to be willing to take that risk of repeated failure or the surprise of sweet success.

Are we willing?

Start Here: The Road to Good Health Begins with This One Thing

By
Jennifer Hunt, RDN, LD
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The Quest for Good Health

People always want to know the ‘one thing’ they can do to successfully reach their weight or good health goals. Is there a key to good health? A magic meal plan? A killer fitness routine?  A renowned supplement regimen? Do they need to drink a green shake every morning or never eat after a certain time at night?  

Do you want to know the answer?

Small, consistent steps.

Yep, that’s it!  Good ‘ole diligence, day in and day out.  

This may not sound monumental or life-altering, but this simple thing can change your life. It can alter your life path.  It can extend the quality of your years and length of your life. It can help you get from the size you are now to the size you want to be.  There are great rewards to be found in consistently taking small steps.

Why Not Consistent Big Steps?

big stepThe problem is that most people undervalue the power of a small step.  Instead, they want to take big steps to see big results quickly.  But, continuing to take the big steps gets tiring. Eventually, we give up – exhausted from the process.  But small steps? Those are manageable.

Diet books tend to ask individuals to take big steps.  They ask them to cut, restrict, add, do, shop, prepare, read and keep up all at once.  It usually works out okay in the beginning when the motivation is high, but once life sets in, the thought of keeping it up long term makes us want to run!  How do you follow it on vacation?  How do you keep up the plan when your in-laws are in town?  How do you follow through during your son’s football season?  All the rules, restrictions and must do’s begin to suffocate and overwhelm us. Naturally, we react by escaping back to our familiar, comfortable habits.

But, what if you decided to try a different method?  What if instead of revamping your entire nutrition and fitness plan, you began with 1 step?

“One” is a Great Place to Start

Years ago, I was attending a service at Eagle Mountain Church and heard Jeremy Pearsons speak a powerful word on the book of Jonah.  At the end of the message, he instructed the congregation to ask God to show us one change to make, that’s it.  

It’s so easy to be overwhelmed by all that we know we should change.  I could tell you at least 3 things I need to do differently to benefit my own health and wellness.  But what if we just asked God to share 1 thing with us?  What if instead of trying to channel your inner “superwoman” who you know doesn’t exist anyway – you asked God to impress upon you one change you can make today?  Not Monday, or when you get back from your vacation, or when “things settle down.”  One change to begin today.

And then do it again tomorrow and next week and when you are away for the weekend and when work gets busy and when you are on the field trip with your child.

What’s Your One Thing?

sugar intakeSmall steps can have a huge impact – when you are consistent.  

Did you know that by replacing a 12-ounce can of soda every day with water (try sparkling water!), you can reduce your calorie intake by 1,050 per week and lose potentially 15 pounds in a year?!

Could you imagine that taking a brisk walk on your lunch break 5 days per week could help you burn almost 500 calories per week – the equivalent of 7 or more pounds per year?

What about taking the simple step to double a recipe so that it provides dinner at home 2 nights instead of one?

Did you know that ordering your grande latte with skim milk instead of allowing them to make it traditionally with whole milk could save you almost 100 calories?

These small steps may not seem very significant, but when practiced diligently, can have a powerful impact, even if you do nothing else!  

Your Small Step is for YOU!

But, if you compare your small step to someone else’s achievement, you will always feel inadequate. They can’t be compared, they are not equal. Achievement is made up of LOTS of small, consistent steps.

When someone is running a marathon, they don’t take a bunch of leaps to reach the finish line.  Their journey is a bunch of consecutive steps again and again and again.  

At first, when someone begins training for a race, they may feel a bit clumsy and have difficulty finding a good pace. But, after some practice, they eventually get into a rhythm – their breathing normalizes and it is a bit easier to go further.  It doesn’t mean it’s not hard, but the more steps they take, the closer they get.  

Small changes will get you where you want to go.  I promise!  Commit to the process and refuse to throw in the towel.  Don’t bite off more than you can chew and instead choose a small step you feel confident you can tackle.  Own it.  Live it. Conquer it.  Then, add a new one.

So, what’s the play call?

If you have felt overwhelmed by all the changes you should make to your diet and lifestyle, submit all these frustrations to your Daddy.  Isaiah 26:3 gives us a beautiful promise:

“You will keep in perfect and constant peace the one whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts and takes refuge in You.” (AMP)

Your Heavenly Father is the author of perfect peace.  He doesn’t give stress or condemnation.  He doesn’t call you to more than you can handle.  But He does call you to persevere.

Romans 5 reminds us that perseverance produces character.  It’s a process God allows to shape and mold us into powerful people who impact our world.  Good health is not just about food choices and exercising; it is about allowing this process of discipline, perseverance, and diligence to form us more into the image of Christ.

And, it all begins with one, small step.

How to Identify and Deal With Negative Influence

By
Sonya McKinzie
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Who’s In Your Ear?

negative influenceWe are people of a diverse world. Human and influential. We are imperfect. With these things in mind, it is impossible for us to survive in this world without being affected by one another. The opinions of others and their personalities impact our lives like rain on a sunny day, molding our views and affecting our decisions –  which isn’t always a good thing. 

There were many times in my life where I had to circumvent the negative influence of someone else and their attempt to interfere with my better judgment. This was all due to a divine connection with God and His purpose for my life. For instance…

Influence as a young woman:

“Come on, take a pull on this cigar, it won’t hurt you. You might like it.”

It didn’t hurt me, however, that might have been because that was the only time I tried smoking. The long-term effects of smoking could have affected my livelihood, resulting in emphysema, cancer, or simply spending unnecessary money on a useless, intangible good.

Influence as a mother:

“You should spank your children whenever they misbehave. I did when my kids were younger.”

But, that was not the answer. Yes, we should chasten our children, but all situations do not warrant a spanking. Talking with my child with firmness and understanding has worked for me and resulted in the absence of fear, pain, and sadness. Instead, there was understanding and open conversation about the situation and why it was not a good choice for my child to make.

These influences and opinions of others were not favorable for me, nevertheless, others had opportunities to affect my personal thoughts and decisions. 

Poor Judgment Happens

god's willLike many events in our lives, the moments in which we have been influenced to make poor decisions are often learning experiences to mold the direction of future decisions. Being human, we are susceptible to blind spots which make us vulnerable to being influenced by ungodly actions. This is why the leading of the Holy Spirit is so important. Negative influence is often so subtle that it goes unnoticed and can easily entrap us.

Recently, I was at the library sitting in the children’s area and there was a lady that joked with me about this woman who was apparently struggling with her children’s behavior.

It felt good to be amid the parents that had children that were well-behaved, but I felt bad for the woman because she seemed very embarrassed by her children. When I returned home later that evening, while preparing for my bath, I felt convicted.

It was God’s conviction that reared deep within my spirit. Instead of listening to and smiling with the woman’s snide remarks about the struggling mother, I should have offered a heart and a hand. Our conversation had created a sense of comfort in being a mother with a disciplined child at the expense of another mother. That was not Christian-like, right? 

Keeping Bad Company

Times of conviction such as this one makes me think about the impact of negative influence on our lives and how frequently it happens. Paul warns us about the dynamics of negative influence by saying,

“Do not be misled; bad company corrupts good character.” (1 Corinthians 15:33). 

So, I ask you: How do you determine and respond to individuals who might indeed be considered “bad influence or company”? Here’s some guidance.

1. Identify the type of people whom scripture warns us about.

Proverbs explicitly defines behaviors we should avoid to ensure we stay away from negative and foolish people: gossip (Proverbs 16:28), lying (Proverbs 12:22) and lack of compassion (Proverbs 29:7), to name a few.

2. Use God’s gift of discernment.

In order to effectively combat negative influence and the character described above, we must have the gift of discernment. Pray that God will help you uncover the subtleties of negative influence, and understand how corrupting the power of ‘bad company’ can be and how it works against our faith and obedience to God.

3. Address and combat negative influence.

When discernment kicks in and alerts you to negative influence, bring communications and association with the negative influence to a halt. Don’t play around. Place yourself under the protective influence of God’s Word and His Spirit.

Embrace the positive influence of healthy Christian relationships with others. In John 17:20-23, Jesus prayed for His disciples to be one just as He and the Father are one. He knew that they would face temptation to follow the crowd, which is likely why the Word of God strongly emphasizes the importance of Christian unity. We need each other to remain strong, vigilant and encouraged.

So, what’s the play call?

When we focus on God’s truth, it helps us to transform our thoughts (Romans 12:2). The Word helps our minds fight sin and to make better decisions. Negative influencers will come, but by following God’s blueprint for our lives, we will make better choices to combat the negative influence of others. 

3 Reasons Why There Are Enemies in Your Promised Land

By
Kim Brightness
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Enemies in My Promised Land? Why Are You Still Here?

All of the promises of God are yea and amen (2 Corinthians 1:20). When God makes a promise, He is faithful and just to deliver on His Word without fail. Sure, we won’t walk into the promise overnight or when we think the time is right – but with all certainty, we will enter therein.

What are your expectations when you enter your Promised Land?

  • Rest… check!
  • Peace… check!
  • Abundance… check!
  • Joy… check!
  • Enemies… huh?!

Wait a minute now, God? What are these jokers doing in my place of rest, peace, abundance, and joy? Who invited them to my victory party?

You see, teammates, if we’re anything like the children of Israel – and we are very much like the children of Israel – we often want the effortless blessings and sweatless victories without any obligation or expectations placed on ourselves.

“Require nothing of me, Lord, just gimme mine!”

Welp. A good Father not only knows His children – He knows what’s best for His children. And, sometimes, our enemies are useful in ways that don’t make obvious sense to us.

God Puts Our Enemies to Good Use

promised landWhile we’d love to drink our milk and honey all day and enjoy the carefree streams of our Promised Land, we’ve got company. Enemies, in all shapes and colors.

You got the job promotion you’d prayed for and gone to school for – now a coworker is trying to sabotage your work. You waited virtuously for years for your spouse – and now you wish you could exchange him/her for the person they used to be. Your body was finally healed – but now your finances are sick.

God + Our Enemies

Let’s take a look at God’s thought process regarding enemies. When the children of Israel entered the promised land after Joshua died, another generation rose up who didn’t acknowledge the Lord or remember the mighty hand of God (Judges 2:10). So, the enemy nations that were going to be removed by God, well, let’s just say God had a change of heart:

“I will no longer drive out the nations that Joshua left unconquered when he died. I did this to test Israel—to see whether or not they would follow the ways of the LORD as their ancestors did.” Judges 2:21-22

Wow, God. Ok, let’s elaborate.

Sometimes, God keeps our enemies close by in order to:

1. Prove our Loyalty.

We don’t drive cars that haven’t been tested. Neither would we trust a parachute that hasn’t gone through Quality Control. Many times our enemies lurk in our promised land to test our loyalty to God’s instructions. If God blesses us with the desires of our heart, will said heart drift away from Him? If we win this particular battle, will we take off the whole armor of God and sit on the sidelines of the war? Is a little trouble the only way that God can keep our focus and attention on Him?

It’s not the only way, teammates, but we have to admit – it’s a very effective strategy to keep us rooted and cognizant of our commitment to Jesus Christ. You will know that God can trust you with more when the little He’s blessed you with doesn’t sidetrack your loyalty.

2. Serve as footstools.

Psalm 110:1 tells us, “Sit thou on my right hand, till I make thine enemies thy footstool?” Footstools provide comfort and function – neither of which naturally come to mind when I think of enemies.

A footstool brings comfort as a person sits, allowing them to rest their feet and, if it’s like an ottoman, you can also stretch out your legs for better blood circulation. Hmm…

As we rest in our promised lands, we won’t have to make our enemies “behave”. God will cause our enemies to support the very thing we stand upon. As we proclaim the good news of Jesus Christ, our beautiful feet (Isaiah 52:7) will rest on our enemies. Because we’re seated at the provision of God’s right hand, He will make our enemies support, confirm, provide resources, and humble themselves for us.

3. Teach us how to war.

Cotton will never sharpen iron. Too much of our soft, comfy promised lands will make us just that – soft believers. Sometimes, God leaves a few enemies in our promised land to teach us how to fight, “to teach warfare to generations of Israelites who had no experience in battle.” (Judges 3:2) Woah!

How can we learn to fight the good fight of faith if we have everything we’ve ever hoped for? How can we grow in discipline and contentment if we’ve never fought through the battles of being troubled on every side (2 Corinthians 4:8-9)? Can we really develop stamina that lasts when we’ve never had to wait for anything?

As earthly parents, we don’t spoil our children by giving in to their every request. Likewise, God often keeps our enemies around to teach or prompt us to stay ready for battle. He gives us opportunities for greater testimonies of His faithfulness and compassion that we need to grow – and others need to overcome (Revelation 12:11).

So, What’s the Play Call?

Trust God’s reasons for the presence of your enemies in your promised land. The table He prepares before you (Psalm 23:5) as a tried and true servant will be worth every war, every struggle, every battle. Sit at God’s table, prop your feet up, and rest on the sure promises of God.

11 Signs of Walking in God-Given Purpose As Seen in Jesus’ Life

By
Jeannette Tyson
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Am I Walking in My God-given Purpose?

purposeAll of us were born with different gifts, but our gifts aren’t always our God-given purpose.

Many times, our gifts, if we capitalize on them, are the steppingstones that bring us closer to our purpose. Purpose can be confused with gifts because the gifts come naturally to us and typically bring prosperity.

As I was reading in the book of Mark recently, the Lord spoke to me about how to confirm whether you’re operating in your purpose – so I had to share with the Team. Walk with me through chapter one and see all the revelations about Jesus’ purpose journey that we can apply to our lives.

Jesus’ Purpose Walk

Mark 1:9 “It came to pass in those days that Jesus came from Nazareth of Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan”.

When you embark on the journey to fulfill your purpose, the Spirit will bear witness in you what must be done. Jesus made the decision to take the first step into His ministry at this time by going to John for baptism in order to fulfill all righteousness (reference Matthew 3:13-15). Spirit-driven choices are a sign of purpose.

Mark 1:12-13 “Immediately the Spirit drove Him into the wilderness. And He was there in the wilderness forty days, tempted by Satan, and was with the wild beasts; and the angels ministered to Him”.

After you make the decision to step into your God-given purpose, there will be a period of temptation. The enemy will try to confuse or redirect your plans – anything to attempt to destroy the calling on your life. This will require perseverance and commitment to overcome. But don’t fret – opposition is a part of the process. The trials you endure will only make your witness more powerful.

Mark 1:22 “And they were astonished at His teaching, for He taught them as one having authority and not as the scribes”.

Another way purpose is revealed is in its uniqueness. There is plenty of room for us all no matter how “oversaturated” a particular market is. Your gifts make room for you (Proverbs 18:16). There is something you offer that is specific and unlike anyone else in the field – so keep going!

Mark 1:23-27 “Now there was a man in their synagogue with an unclean spirit and he cried out, let us alone! What have we to do with You, Jesus of Nazareth? Did you come to destroy us? I know who you are- the Holy One of God! But Jesus rebuked him saying come out of Him. And he came out of him. Then they were all amazed.”

There are two things God revealed to me in these verses. One is that your purpose will be backed by the power and authority of God. Two, even though people will hate on you, the anointing on your life will be undeniable!

Mark 1:29-31 “Jesus went to the house of Simon and Andrew, but Simons mother in law lay sick. So, He came and took her by the hand and lifted her up, immediately the fever left her, and she served them”.

The God-given purpose on your life will bless and heal others and push them into action.

Mark 1:32-34 “they brought to Him all who were sick and demon-possessed. The whole city was gathered to the door. He healed many.”

Your purpose will draw people to you. Everything God placed in you was meant to be a solution, and those who need what you have will find you.

Mark 1:35-36 “Now in the morning before daylight He departed to a solitary place to pray. Simon and those who were with Him searched for Him”.

True purpose will push you closer to God because you will understand your need for Him to be able to accomplish what you’re purposed to do. Consistent prayer will be where God lays out His plans for your life and you come out with clear direction. Also, purpose motivates so much so that you will find yourself sacrificing extra sleep to get the job done.

Mark 1:38-39 “He said to them, let’s go into the next towns that I may preach there also because for this purpose I have come. He preached throughout Galilee and cast out devils”.

Purpose is focused and strategic. Your direction in life will be dictated by your purpose – it is a compass that drives where you go, what you say, who you associate with.

Mark 1: 40-42 “Now a leper came imploring Him saying, if you are willing, make me clean. Jesus moved with compassion, stretched out His hand, and immediately leprosy left him”.

Your purpose in God will make people pull on you and it won’t get on your nerves. You will be given grace and compassion for the people God has called you to serve. It’s important for me to note, again, that Jesus did retreat to be with His inner circle and rest. So yes, you must allow yourself to be replenished.

Mark 1:43-44 “He sternly warned him, see that you say nothing to anyone…”

Purpose doesn’t have anything to prove! Purpose is confident and fully assured. Jesus said, “this will be a public testimony”. The work of your purpose speaks for itself.

Mark 1:45 “However he went out and began to proclaim it freely.”

Purpose doesn’t need to promote! Destiny opens doors. Because of your submission to your God-given purpose, your reputation will precede you.

So, What’s the Play Call?

I want to encourage everyone to open your mind to God and allow Him to speak through His Word as you read. I have read Mark several times before and never saw these revelations regarding purpose.

Whatever you may be going through or questioning – the answer is in the scriptures! Psalm 139:16 says that every day of our lives was recorded in Gods book. Your purpose is in Him –  ask, seek, knock.

God Bless!

Unanswered Prayers: What to Do When You Believed God Would, But He Didn’t

By
Kristina Bolton
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What To Do When God Says “No”, But You Really Believed He Would

unanswered prayersIn my young life, I have seen God do miraculous things. I’ve seen life restored, the sick healed, and life extended like Hezekiah (Isaiah 38:5), just to name a few. Some of these miracles were answers to my personal prayers to the Lord. However, there have been times that I have prayed, believed, even fasted – and what I petitioned God for did not come to pass. My prayers were left unanswered, or the “no” I received was not the answer I wanted.

Herein lies the confusion for some believers. They have believed God for something and it doesn’t come to pass, causing their faith in Jesus to be tried. In turn, they question God and even lose their faith because they lack the understanding of what I’d like to share with you today.

“What happened, God?”

prayYears ago, tragedy hit my life where something I believed God for failed. I was like Job who said the thing he feared the most had come upon him (Job 3:25). It shook my faith. I was in a battle for my sanity and soul.  More than once, God has spared my life. I know there is nothing impossible for Him. But, the enemy was using this tragedy as a weapon to attack my faith. Yet, even in the midst of the attack, I could not forsake my encounters and experiences with God. The truth remained that while this thing had happened to me, I had seen God on so many other occasions.  This did not make sense to me, so I sought the Lord for understanding.

What was the difference between this time and others? Was it my tone, my faith, the lack thereof, or was it something that was out of my control? Did God hate me? Did I displease Him? Was I no longer His servant? I sought God for an answer, He replied to me with a simple question: “Was it my will?”

Fate and the Universe

unanswered prayers“I am the Lord: that is my name: and my glory will I not give to another, neither my praise to graven images.” (Isaiah 42:8)

Know this about the will of God – the purpose of His will is to bring Him glory. However, some have exchanged the will of God for “fate” and “the universe.” So, when life’s situations like death, birth, miracles, or whatever happens, and the credit is given to these things. Essentially, God’s glory has been given away. God wants His glory.

According to the BibleGateway KJV Bible, “universe” and “fate” are not in the Bible. Yet, teammates are incorporating these terms into their spiritual vocabulary. Some even give credit to “the universe” and “fate” for the happenings of life while rejecting them as the will of God. But if you read in the book of Genesis, this “universe” was created by God, and “fate” is a counterfeit term used for “predestination” (Romans 8:29). We must be sure to uphold the truth of God over the philosophy of man no matter how good or logical it sounds.

Is it His Will?

unanswered prayersEcclesiastes 9:11 says that “time and chance happen to them all.” This means that both good and bad things will happen to all humankind. But, if you are like me, when I first got saved I thought that “saved” meant “saved from the bad.” I didn’t understand that we were saved from damnation. So, when life happened, it caused me to question salvation. I had to learn that as a believer, we will walk through the fire like Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego –  but accompanied by the Son of God who will never leave nor forsake us.

The Bible tells us through many scriptures that when we ask God for something and believe it, we will receive it. However, we have to understand the Word of God in context – not only in verse but through the fullness of the Gospel. In that, we will understand that Jesus prayed according to the will of The Father (Matthew 26:39).

1 John 5:14-15 King James Version (KJV):

14 And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:

15 And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him.

When the Lord revealed this, I had to change how I dealt with a “no” from God. I had to understand that His will played a role in my prayer. When I accepted this, I was able to appreciate how Job could say, “thou he slay me, yet will I trust in Him” (Job 13:15).

Even Jesus had a prayer request denied. Recall, Gethsemane (Matthew 26:36-46), Jesus understanding that everything was subject to the will of God asked The Father, “if it is possible,” allow the cup to pass. Jesus says then says, “Nevertheless, not my will” as if the Father had replied with a “no.” Scripture only documents what Jesus said, but from the scripture, we know that God denied the request because Jesus died for us. That “no” is the very reason you and I can call each other brethren. Thank God, for that “no.”

The Relationship Between Our Motives and God’s “No”

James 4:3 (KJV) “Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.”

Amiss means with the wrong motive. One of my friends brought this to my attention some time ago. After she shared this scripture with me, I began to seek God about purifying my motives even more. God weighs strongly the motives of our heart. According to this scripture, you and I could not get what we ask for because we ask “amiss” – the hidden reason for our ask does not please God.

Ask yourself, “Why am I asking God for this?” If God grants that healing, will you give Him your life? Healing will not guarantee your soul’s salvation. If He gives you finances, will you make money your god? If He sends you a mate, will you love him or her more than God? If He gives you that call and anointing, will you use your influence to draw people to God or yourself?

I know those are some strong, sobering questions. Don’t get me wrong – there is nothing sinful about asking God for what we want. In fact, Psalm 37:4 says, if we delight in the Lord, He will give us the desire of our hearts. But, if He gives it to us, will it draw us closer or pull us further from Him? If the answer is the latter, know that it is not the will of God that we get a “yes” to our prayer and lose Him. So, some of us are not receiving what we prayed for because our motive is wrong.

But, What About Death and Sickness?

unanswered prayersI have seen many people lose their faith in these two areas. We have to understand that death is a part of life and God never promised us that no one would die, or that no one would be sick. He never promised an allotted amount of time to anyone.

It’s a tough part of life. Is it painful? Indeed. I wouldn’t wish it on my worse enemy. But, I have learned over the years to trust God in His sovereignty. Losing someone dear to you is a wound only God can comfort. Notice I didn’t say heal. I said comfort because our God is a comforter and a healer. If He were to heal my wound, that would mean He would have to bring my Daddy back. But instead, the Lord comforts my loss and strengthens me when I am weak.

If you are like me, find peace in the Will of God. I know it happened. I know it’s painful. More importantly, God knows. Exchange your pain, regret, bitterness, unforgiveness and everything else for the peace of God that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

SO, WHAT’S THE PLAY CALL?

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 says, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

Teammate, continue to make your requests known to God. Know that there is a difference between a request and a promise. If God promised it, it is sure to come to pass. But, if we ask, there will be an answer according to His Will. God is all knowing, not us. We have to keep trusting and depending on Him.

No one knows the mind of God, except His Spirit (1 Corinthians 2:11). God does as He will. As I mentioned, I have asked God for things before, and He did not allow it. You are not alone. Our Father is a good Father, and any good parent would not want their children to be spoiled or to suffer by receiving what will hurt them in the long-run.

If you do not receive the answer you desired, do not lose faith. Find peace, counting it as the will of God.

I leave you with this: Romans 8:28 (KJV), “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

I pray this helps.

I love you all!

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